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Does A*F*F do enough about bullying?
Posted:Jan 21, 2021 10:30 am
Last Updated:Feb 12, 2021 4:49 pm

So I have written a few times about being contacted by irate men because I am on this "hookup" site...but not looking do that right now,

Well a member has decided to take that to a whole new level!!

He thinks because I didn't answer his first email - he'll get WORSE than nasty!

He gave me all kinds of abuse about my looks...my weight...my boobs. And a whole lot more!

He actually thinks because I don't want him, no one wants me ...and I should just commit suicide by either swallowing pills or jumping off a ledge!! What if he says that to a person on here....that takes that shit to heart?

I am just extremely PISSED!!!

I filed 2 abuse reports because he continued (before I blocked him) to send emails....and honestly..I don't take that shit lying down (no pun intended)

Also just got done a with them ...they say it will be investigated!

Honestly if his profile is still on here... thinking what other avenues may be open to report this further!

HE ENCOURAGED TO COMMIT SUICIDE!! Do something A*F*F or you condone it!

Should they kick me off for this.....well I guess we know the answer!

This site is a mess... words keep disappearing from this post!!


I Need To Fuck? I Think Someone Else Might....LOL
Posted:Oct 3, 2020 2:55 pm
Last Updated:Oct 10, 2020 5:16 pm
I actually enjoy when these morons feel the need to leave snide....nasty or hurtful remarks on a photo or in your email!

It gives me a reason to step out of my usually very nice, usually polite self and go into the bitch mode.

You reap what you sow there little man....I went easy on you. I had much more venom to spew had I wanted....but I am a Green Eyed LADY after all.....LMFAO

So Is IM Any Better?
Posted:Jul 17, 2020 11:46 am
Last Updated:Jul 28, 2020 1:17 pm
So I received an email in my personal email account touting the "new & improved" IM. So the question is.......

Is it REALLY? Usually the improvements are anything but.....lol

It's a serious question though! I very rarely go on the IM....crude and rude can sometimes be the order of the day/night. I'll occasionally go on the cams to chat....but again very rarely...since the same people are crude or rude on there too. But nice people too....I've had some nice conversations.

So anyway......do you use the IM? Does it seem better than previous versions? Are these alleged improvements only for gold members....or the general population....lol

I may try it out for myself....but figured I'd find out the scoop first....lol

Have fun......

UGH....A Few Questions Please
Posted:May 4, 2020 7:21 pm
Last Updated:May 18, 2020 7:20 pm

Is anyone else experiencing a few annoying things going on?

I usually do a search of who's online in my area and will go a few "pages" in to see if anyone I email with, or chat with is on! I also check friends etc.

Anyway when I logged in a little while ago I noticed that I am only able to view the first page of my search results.....there is no "next" button/link etc. WTF!!!

And another annoying thing popping up in my searches are profiles from women from all over the fucking world!! Again WTF!!

Are any of you having the same issues or is it just me?.....lol
It Got REAL........
Posted:Mar 19, 2020 12:22 pm
Last Updated:Apr 17, 2020 3:56 pm
Well if you haven't heard of Covid-19....I'm not sure where you have been and what you've been doing- but it's just gotten REAL...REAL for me and mine!!

My daughters both woke up feeling unwell the other morning (Tuesday), so we took temps and both had one. Not high, but within the range for some worry with the present time. Add to that one had chest tightness and the bells went off loud & clear!

These girls needed to get tested!

I should back up a little: Both are healthcare workers- the oldest is an RN and the younger one is a nursing student, presently working as a CT Tech in a hospital, while working towards her RN degree.

They seem to have gotten their possible infection from a friend though. They were all together before the friend showed any symptoms and our city started restrictions.

Because of them being healthcare workers, and the need for them to be back out there to fight this war- they were tested that same day (Tuesday). They still needed to have a phone call conference, or teleconference with their primary doctors, and get referrals for the test before they could go get the test.

Some were being given test dates for a day or more later!

They were told that results could take 5 days!!! I'm guessing that is because of the numbers of people being tested and the supply of tests being sketchy?

Soooooooooooooo in the mean time...we are self quarantined and waiting!

Clearly all of us are out of work until their tests come back, and depending on the results....get sprung, or spend the 2 week period in the house.

I have shown no signs or symptoms (thank God) and despite me being nearly 60, I am not in the category to be tested as of yet.

PLEASE people....take this seriously! No cure...No vaccine...Not a lot known on this yet!


Maybe Just A Little Day Brightener......
Posted:Jan 15, 2020 12:53 pm
Last Updated:Apr 7, 2020 12:20 pm
I came across these pictures awhile ago and fell in love with them!!

Not your typical picture on A*F*F I know....lol

But we all see plenty of pussies,boobs and cocks on ...so to break up the monotony I thought I'd throw a cute pic in there and one with a "silent" !

This is how I see it....

Even in the animal world...and most certainly in the human world, you should take the time, stop and enjoy the beautiful, and simple things in life! In today's busy/crazy world we inhabit...it's often forgotten!

I myself get caught up in so much..work..trying to sleep (I work overnight)...family and the drama that sometimes comes with that...bills...and the crazy world in general (especially now).....that I forget!

But I'm gonna try harder......

What do you see when you look at it....similar thoughts?...something different? Please share if you'd like!

One request....Nothing nice say? Please say nothing....Thanks

The Gift That Keeps On Giving?
Posted:Dec 14, 2019 8:52 am
Last Updated:Mar 21, 2020 10:59 am
So I received this advertisement in my regular ...the one associated with my here.

Consider this my Holiday PSA.....haha

Apparently you can order an array of Holiday butt plugs in a nice assortment of colors! Maybe the red one Saturday?....the gold one Tuesday?...the green one Friday?.....lol

Something you think you'd like to give to a friend? Put on your holiday wish list? One can never have enough toys....right?

Hmmmm...Well - I'd Like To Think So.....lol
Posted:Aug 28, 2019 5:33 pm
Last Updated:Jan 15, 2020 3:25 pm
I saw this article while browsing the Google news stories. They always have a few "fluff" pieces as well as news stories. Astrology..horoscopes...tarot card readings and things of that nature are usually on there too.

I'm interested in astrology and the stars, but look at horoscopes and future "forecasts" with a skeptical eye.

I'm an Aries and in all honesty, some of the "attributes" shall we say,of that astrological sign - DO fit my personality!

As to whether there is any truth to my "sexual" greatness in blowing someone's mind? Hmmmm....well as I said - I'd like to think so...and all I know is I haven't gotten any complaints.....LOL

If you are any of the 3 astrological signs listed in the article....do you see anything that sounds like you sexually? Are you skeptical of horoscopes and astrology? Do you feel there are some signs that you are drawn to or get along better with more, or you could care less?

The 3 Most Sexual Zodiac Signs Will Blow Your Mind In Bed

Have you ever slept with someone who made you feel so good, you forgot how to formulate sentences by the time they were done? You know, that lover who transported you to outer space, made your eyes roll back into your head while you felt your orgasm spread throughout your entire being? You could feel stars in your fingertips and ecstasy in your toes. You've never moaned so loud in your life. And no matter how that relationship worked out, whether they were a one night stand or your partner for three years, they leave an indelible mark on you. It's highly likely that they were one of the three most sexual zodiac signs and if you haven't slept with one of them yet, you definitely should before you settle down.

This is not to say that other signs aren't capable of being miracle workers in bed. It's just that sexual prowess tends to come more naturally to these three signs: Scorpio, Aries, and Taurus (with Leo and Virgo as close runners up). If their Mars sign happens to be in any of these signs, you'll also notice their particularly awesome abilities between the sheets.

Scorpio: The King Of Orgasms

Scorpios are famous for their abilities in bed and I probably don't even have to tell you that they're the most sexual sign of all the zodiac. I know a few people who might talk about their Scorpio ex like they were the worst person in the world, but they simply can't help but sigh when remembering how life-changing the sex was.

Scorpios contain just as much emotion as they do ambition and they pour both of those qualities into their sexual experience, making for the most intense ride of your life. They're also psychic about your needs, delving deep into the corners of your soul and unearthing all your secret desires, only to deliver them with astonishing talent. They never allow a sexual encounter be an underwhelming one, giving their partners everything they have as though this is their last night alive. Capable of soft and romantic sex as much as they are of a tumultuous and rough frenzy, they'll provide you with exactly what you've been aching for.

Aries: The Wild Animal

When Aries wants something, they want it now. That includes whoever it is they feel like dragging into the bedroom and fucking like there's no tomorrow. They'll pursue you like you're the sexiest person who ever lived, like they'll explode if they don't get their hands on you. You'll feel so desired, you won't be able to say no.

They're known for throwing you on the closest available surface and knocking down everything until there's broken glass everywhere. They won't care. The only thing on their mind is you. While they're not known for a long and slow build-up of foreplay, their wild, sweaty, and roaring fury as they ride you will make up for it. Sex with an Aries is more thrilling than a roller coaster ride and it's bound to be one of the most unforgettable experiences of your life.

Taurus: The Romeo To Your Juliet

Unlike Aries, Taurus adores foreplay. This sign is beautifully in tune with all five of the human senses and they'll make sure you're titillated in all areas. They'll caress your skin until it's on fire, kiss you until your lips are bruised, dirty talk you until your imagination is running wild, and they'll look at you like you're the most magnificent creature they've ever laid eyes on. All of this will push you so far over the edge, you'll be begging them to f*ck you already.

When they do, it's the most satisfying experience there is. They've turned you on to the point of oblivion and they definitely won't leave you hanging. Sex with a Taurus leaves you feeling replenished in so many ways, like you were a mess before they lovingly put you back together, one tongue movement at a time

Drink That Water!!
Posted:Jul 18, 2019 1:34 pm
Last Updated:Aug 21, 2019 9:44 am

Holy shit.....what a scary day and a half I've had- all from not drinking enough water/liquids!! What a friggin' dummy!.....lol

I was at work on Wednesday and it was about 1:00 am. (I work 11 :00 p.m to 7:00 a.m.)

a supermarket shopper - I shop orders that people place online.


I take my cart and get on the store floor to start an order. All of a sudden I get a bit nauseous and a few seconds later I felt really dizzy. That's the last thing I remember at that point.

The next thing I do remember after that is my night manager screaming "OH MY GOD"!! I think I sat up, or he helped me sit up...(that's a little fuzzy).....lol thinking to myself wtf am I doing sitting on the store floor-then the realization hits !! I passed the hell out ..........

He wanted to an ambulance and I wasn't having that! I told him he could one of my daughters to get , but that was it. They all insisted I go to the ER to get looked at. I honestly just wanted to go home and go to sleep.....lol

I was a good and let my daughters take to the ER......got in the back and because of some blood test results they decided to admit me (oh yay). It took about 3 or 4 hours to get a room. Thank God it wasn't a weekend night.....lol

Get settled in the room - feeling pretty good. I have to go the the bathroom - get up off the bed, get to the doorway and start to feel dizzy again, and you guessed it.....down again I went.

The first time I passed out I don't remember going down....this time I did....so I probably didn't technically pass out the second time.....lol

Had some tests and winds up it was a diagnosis of low potassium and dehydration. Four bags of IV fluids (one in the ER) through the night,plus a small (THANK GOD) bag of a liquid potassium (in the ER) that burned and stung like a MFer going in!! Ouch...ouch....ouch

Discharged this afternoon.....YAY!! But not going back to work until Saturday night. On the schedule tonight and off anyway Friday....so they'll live without me.....lol

Moral of this story.....Drink lots of water....Duh....lol It's been as hell over much of the country.
Guess It Was My Time....This Time...
Posted:May 29, 2019 4:07 pm
Last Updated:Aug 28, 2019 4:03 pm
Just sittin' here at my keyboard for a little while, minding my business and an email comes in!

It's from a couple who are apparently the rulers of A*F*F ? They feel I shouldn't be here. I'm not real because I'm not presently looking for a sexual partner.

I clearly state this fact on my profile, so how much more real do I have to be?

Below is our exchange. This one isn't really bad all compared to some I've had...but they are still annoying little minded people who think they get a choice in what I do......LOL

UPDATE.....5/31 - Apparently they aren't happy I'm not going anywhere and feel the need to contact me again.

This is the last I will be addressing them. Next step to just block the little twits and be done!!

What’s In A Name……
Posted:May 2, 2019 2:58 pm
Last Updated:May 22, 2019 12:59 pm
As an observer on this site, and a Gold member….I like to read profiles of interest to see the likes of people, the dislikes, the kinks, etc.

What they desire to find on here, and just generally people “watch” so to speak and maybe learn more about human nature - the good, and occasionally the bad. I will interact through blogs and occasionally emails.

I also view the profiles to photos, and every once in a while view their profile videos, or check the webcams on here….but honestly not very often do I do that…...

I would watch a lover's videos or webcam.....but a stranger's doesn't really interest very much. Just the way I am.


In this interest I indulge in, I sometimes come across profiles that in the words of a coworker I have (a unique individual for sure) I see some with a real humdinger of a profile name!

Some are funny, some seem to “fit” the person either in their looks, or what they are looking for, or a particular sexual activity they like, or perhaps a sport they enjoy etc. and then some that are just disgusting, crude or otherwise a bit “unsavory”.......(subject to opinion I suppose)....lol

So I was just wondering…..how much thought (if any) did you put into your profile name (handle)? Does it mean something to you in some way that you’d like to share? Please do if you’d like, but by no means a requirement!

I once had a different profile name - and it did have a meaning - it was the name of a place I previously worked at - spelled backwards, and the zip code of the area it was located. It was easy to remember so it worked at the time….lol

I actually changed my profile name though…..think I had to $20.00 to do it. I didn’t want to create a whole new profile (even though I could have just cut and pasted to do a “new” one, and keep all the original content). I would have had to upload all the photos to a new one though….so the $$ spent was okay with ….just seemed easier.

My “new” one fits me….since I do have green eyes, and I am a lady (sometimes a good one - sometimes a bad one…...lol). The 60 used is the year of my birth, minus the 19(60)......lol

Had I done a whole new profile I think I would have lost any points that I’ve acquired, so that was another consideration! Before I took the plunge of changing the name, I did contact customer to make sure I wouldn’t lose those points. They assured I wouldn’t, and I went so far as to screenshot that part of my profile just in case…..lol

I’m not listing any profile names as examples of what I’ve observed because I think that most likely would violate the TOU's…..so maybe be careful, and don’t list any either....unless it's yours!

Although it sure would be fun to share the ones that are “ there”.......hahaha

Sometimes Ya Just Gotta Laugh
Posted:Apr 30, 2019 1:37 pm
Last Updated:May 22, 2019 4:49 pm
What a start - or actually an end to my day!

I work nights - the 11:00 p.m to 7:00 a.m shift...not an easy thing - but I try to make it work.

Well...this morning I got done work -did a little food shopping, and then stopped at a local convenience store to pick up something ( a coffee).

I didn't wanna carry my whole handbag in, so I grabbed my wallet..popped my car trunk - (to put my handbag into - instead of leaving it in the car) ..hit the lock button on the door of the car as I got out, and shut the car door....

My car has one of those button ignition kind of thingys ...

Anyway when you leave your keys it will let you know by a sound. Unfortunately there was work being done in the parking lot and I didn't hear the sound.

I put my bag in the trunk, shut that and then went to reach for my keys which I thought were in my pocket. NO KEYS...(more precisely a remote), those were in the cup holder IN the car!!

Thank God I have roadside assistance!! What a lifesaver sometimes.....

It took them about 40 minutes to get to me....I had a few "chilled" items from the store (they seemed fine) and ice cream cones......which may or may not have survived, I was too tired to check...just stuck them in the freezer.....lol

I'm usually not so bubble headed...(ok..ok - maybe sometimes)....but it was a rough night at work, and I was sore and tired.....

That's my story and I'm stickin' to it....LOL

Did get some sleep after that, and the silver lining in my little "adventure" is:

I have off tonight....YAY!!

Have a good night all.....and as my PSA for today: Make sure ya have your friggin keys BEFORE you lock and shut the door....

These are the tools they use to get the door open.....and it took him under a minute. Yikes!!

NSA - What Does It Mean To You?
Posted:Apr 24, 2019 2:27 pm
Last Updated:May 22, 2019 1:15 pm
So we all know NSA on this site generally means.....

No Strings Attached

My question is -

What does it mean to you? What do you consider "strings"?

Is this the type of connection you are hoping to find? Or do you want something more?

To some it means this......


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