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I get it....Do you?  

HH_boobs_bbw 48F
58 posts
8/12/2015 12:48 am
I get it....Do you?

So I get a lot lot lot of just random strangers writing me emails and IMs about all the things they want to do to me. Ok so...I get it...this is a sex site and I'm certainly not here for innocent reasons either, but why in the hell does a guy think saying something so sexual to a strangers is sexy??? It's NOT!! OMG.
Let's think about this momentarily...I'm looking for a FWB, meaning at minimum we will be having sex. Do you honestly think I or really any woman wants to have sex with someone who can't even converse with her on a normal level? Are all you guys that do this completely out of ideas or just never had a clue.
This doesn't include all men, but you think asking me what I like sexually before you ask my name *which happens in 9 out of 10 correspondance* is ...oh such a turn on. I get it, you all come on here when you are horny and the blood is far from your brain. Here's an idea....HAVE A PLAN to attract a woman.
You all complain that the women on here don't respond. Well here's a thought, fill out your profile HONESTLY, post a pic of SOMETHING, post a pic of SOMETHING RECENT *yeah the guy who posts a pic of a flat tummy and comes on cam as a big guy...really...what did you just accomplish.* Coming at her with "wanna fuck, sexy tits, a whole written sexual scenario, do you suck cock, can I titty fuck those, blah blah blah...We know you have no plan and therefore nothing to offer beyond a lame comment. Say something fun or funny, don't talk about how you want to use my's been said....we get it....if I take the conversation to sex, don't be self centered or think you can get me off by simply looking in my direction. *Sorry guys I'm not a virgin, I know what gets me off* And again I can't stress this enough...HAVE A PLAN! If you think I'm full of shit, that's ok, but have you gotten what you wanted from this site? Maybe changing your approach would serve your purposes better than you think!

I don't know why this turned into a do's and don'ts thing...but sometimes I just feel irritated by and sorry for those that come at me with so little to offer in personality that I don't even care what you look like. Or the guy that comes at me with 10 pics of himself and says do you like what you see? You might be remotely sexy but sorry pal with that attitude you're pretty much in the super douche category within seconds.Women are not hard to figure out when it comes to attracting them. You just have to have your game face on and understand not everyone is interested in super cock.
PS no I don't want to watch you jerk off....UGH

I don't speak for all women by any means, simply my thoughts that expand into "we" conjecture. I hope this helps someone though. YEESH. And if you want some more advice, ask me, ask us as women...ask any can I make my approach better. Unless she's a super bitch, she'll tell you!!!!

Rant complete LMAO.

“Hate to sound sleazy, but tease me,
I don't want it if it's that easy”
― Tupac Shakur

bbw50love 53M

8/29/2020 9:41 am

that was an education

Valkoinen_Leski 54F  
70 posts
8/18/2015 11:40 am

It truly does not matter what picture you post. even if you don't post any picture!

Thankfully there are some that do get it, and those are the lucky ones!

Charm and finesse is not that difficult. Especially when flirting! The fun stuff to get us out of our pants! THE CHASE!

HH_boobs_bbw 48F
35 posts
8/12/2015 7:20 pm


“Hate to sound sleazy, but tease me,
I don't want it if it's that easy”
― Tupac Shakur

coptrainer56 73M
1880 posts
8/12/2015 4:33 am

Ignore what does not interest you and focus on that which does. Look for those who treat you with respect and dignity and you will enjoy the "ride".

Be safe, relax and just have fun!

umaykissmesoftly 66F
344 posts
8/12/2015 4:24 am

    Quoting 1gentluvr:
    Perhaps if you didn't lead with your breasts you might find there are men who do know how to converse. Both your name and your primary photo pander to men who judge a woman by her breasts.
It doesn't matter what photo is used for the main profile picture. I like to think I have a decent picture of my face (along with a few others over time) and I get the same type of e-mails as HH. Tell me, please, what in my picture is an indication that I want to receive a sexually explicit e-mail that many men would consider as being sexy but is viewed as cheap porn?

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