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Posted:Jan 16, 2015 3:07 am
Last Updated:Jan 17, 2015 7:21 am
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This site has changed so much over the years.. Not how the site functions but the people who are on it... Chat rooms use to be full, there were meet and greets all the time. People actually wanted to talk and get to know each other and be friends and have fun together, even if it didn't always include sex after.. What happened to all of that? I know this is an adult site, but that doesn't mean everything has to be about sex all the time. Sometimes just talking to another adult and enjoying time with other adults are fun as well. Sex is great, but it should be a bonus not the only thing people care about.
I think a lot of people ( mostly men) seem to forget that we are people, with feelings, and emotions, and wants and desires.. Just because we arent looking for long term relationships, doesn't mean we are easy and just open up for anyone that shows interest. We fill out profiles and answer questions because we want you to use them as a starter guide... If you don't fit what we are looking for then why bother emailing us and getting upset when your told we arent interested...
What happened to actually talking to a person? Why do people feel that if you don't agree to meet them with in a few mins of a conversation, then your a fake and shouldn't be on this site because your not serious about meeting... That's total BS. I have made a lot of great friends from this site over the years, but have encountered many more annoying or down right rude and ignorant people.. And that's really sad.. There are a lot of wonderful people on this site and if guys would just slow down and stop acting like they are at a drive through, they would find that they will get a lot more interested and a lot more results..
Stop thinking with the head in your pants instead of the one on your shoulders, it will always take you down the wrong path.. Be adults and understand that the people you are emailing are not obligated to give you or show you anything just because you graced them with an email... There is still work and effort that needs to put in to your encounters...
This site is not a promise for sex, it connects you with people who are like minded and interested in the same things, but still never a sure thing. Work for it or get use to your hand...
I'm not trying to be a bitch, just honest.. If what I said stepped on anyone's toes, maybe you should change your approach..
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ok people for real...
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Posted:Mar 18, 2009 12:32 am
Last Updated:Jan 17, 2015 7:23 am
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Guys... FOR REAL! If you email a girl and for whatever reason she is NOT interested... DO NOT go on a rant and try and save your ego by calling her names or saying shes ugly.... Because if that is how you REALLY FELT... You wouldn't have bothered to try and contact her in the first place!! BE A MAN!!! Just move on with your life and forget about her! But if you don't and you do go on a rant, and start calling her names You BETTER Believe OTHER women on this site will find out! WE TALK!!!! I don't know what part of that you men do not understand..... If your a jerk to one woman EVERY WOMAN she talks to WILL KNOW! Just take it like a man and MOVE ON!!!
ALSO!!! Again to the men on this site... when it asks on your profile... How big your dick is... I think some of you need to go back to school and learn math again.. because 4 inches IS NOT big OR average! The AVERAGE male dick is 5 and 3/4s!!! SOOO that means pretty much if your less then 6 inches your NOT average! Your below average!! And if you think the woman don't notice your missing a few inches YOUR WRONG! I cant tell you HOW many women I know from this site who talk about how BAD the men on this site LIE about how big their dicks are! its retarded JUST BE HONEST and save yourself the trouble of looking like a liar OR just stupid!!
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