Firstly: , admittedly completely oblivious when it comes to knowing when someone has basically given me the "green light" that they want to move past flirting and talking about sex.

I haven't always had the confidence I do now, and had to completely change my life before completely destroying myself with drugs and/or self-destructive behavior; with said "life" went the sex life I knew...which means: there never were any "transitions"; it was pretty much sex most of the time, with my best friend (whom I also had to leave behind), and almost girlfriend (surprisingly, it was me who said "no").

She was incredibly charismatic and, when the people surrounding you are all on drugs: everyone's horny (not to mention my friend is a complete nympho--not that saying it was a bad thing: she was fantastic in bed, and contrary to what most people might think: sex wasn't what lead to our "falling out"...it was drugs, and solely drugs. It IS possible to maintain a friendship and still be a fuck-buddy; it leads to all sorts of "things" most people only dream of, sexually.

basically a "born-again-virgin"; sure even the most feminist woman would be sympathetic to how long its been since I've done much of anything at all; even make out for God's sake.

Which is why asking: a girl I've known for a while has said and done certain things that, I guess "pique my curiosity". For example: telling she'd do "squats on my face", which came out of no where and gave me blue balls for the rest of the day (she knows I love eating women out), which she took as a compliment.

For a long time, we've talked about sex--what we enjoy and such--even more-so since she's lost her virginity.

The short duration she was with this real asshole; she'd constantly complain to me about their sex life...which: most of the time someone is complaining about their sex life to someone else that's "available" (or not), it generally leads to cheating. Especially when they flat-out ask their partner if they can have a threesome involving me (this guy's already intimidated by me, oddly; so I knew there was no way he'd be open to a threesome...especially with me; sure the fact she even said anything hurt his ego a bit).

They're broken up now, and the last time she was talking to me about sex, she was--I THINK unknowingly--stroking, and squeezing, my leg with both hands, going well above my kneecap and up the shorts I was wearing.

Anyway, my question for "you": Does it sound like said "friend" wants to have sex?

Thanks!

--Nicholas

Well? Would you?