Just shut up and kiss me........  

IamFredsWilma 55F
170 posts
3/5/2019 8:00 am
Just shut up and kiss me........

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tnjackin 51M
204 posts
3/5/2019 8:13 am

"good ole fucking" - love when a woman will just tell it like it is. i would love to slide inside of you and watch your eyes roll back in pleasure


IamFredsWilma replies on 3/5/2019 1:07 pm:
I would love for you to make my eyes roll back in my head..... the way to do that is to tell me what your going to do to me - dirty talk is the way to this girls heart. Or shall I say pussy?

RavenGB 60M
1408 posts
3/5/2019 8:38 am

I broadly agree with what you say, certainly on the hunt for a "soulmate", but IM so rarely works that I just type a couple of words and see if it gets a response. Usually, the message tells me "delivered" and that's it. Goodness only knows what this means since it also happens when I IM some folks on the site with whom I converse.

I, for one, was not brought up to address a total stranger with "gorgeous cunt - when can I fuck it?" Manners dictate a more conventional build up - even when at a swinger cub (well usually

Mind, I also like the direct approach and find it refreshing when a woman uses it.


IamFredsWilma replies on 3/5/2019 1:08 pm:
The IM on this site does suck - and I have been known to reach out to men and tell them nice cock wanna fuck? They have come back and said no I was too crude for them. I also have reached out and asked how their day was going and 99% do not respond back.

69ereatwetpussy 59M
6196 posts
3/5/2019 9:03 am

I agree most time s I start off nice hello, how are you, like to chat they check out my profile and nothing. Then I reply love to fuck you .they come back bet you would and no more reply back. They are either showing the breast or pussy what else would one think. Either let me eat you of go no Famer . com. Hope you are warm and wet fuck your husband thinking of me have a wonderful day. Thanks for your post.


spwildbill77 63M  
83 posts
3/5/2019 9:25 am

Wish I had a clone machine...there needs to be more like you. In my mind, it is all about attitude. If you have the right attitude, you are probably going to turn me on. This is all recreational....sometimes I like going to a movie...sometimes I like going to a ball game...some times I like to fuck strangers with no questions asked...it's all good (especially the part about strangers).


RobK2006 54M
5854 posts
3/5/2019 9:43 am

I'm on this site to chat about fucking with women.


IamFredsWilma replies on 3/5/2019 1:09 pm:
Cum fuck with this woman!!! Muhhhh

Wonder167 54F

3/5/2019 9:44 am

I really am the odd man out, I really have no reason to be here. I'm not searching for anything. I like the openness and I like to blog. I say to each their own on their reasons for being here. As long as it has no direct bearing on me, I don't care. If this isn't the place for what they search for, they'll get tired and move on.


LordMandrakeJB 65M  
650 posts
3/5/2019 9:47 am

I love it when a woman comes out and says what she wants. This is a sex site, true. I usually start with a hi, or nice looking pussy, boobs, butt, body, based on what's being shown. Actually had TSdates.com deny a status I put up. "Some days, you just need to fuck and release." Actually, it's most days... If I want a LTR, I'll sign up for Match, But here I'm looking for good old fashion sex with a partner who wants the same.

Stay Safe, Sane, Consensual.


IamFredsWilma replies on 3/5/2019 1:10 pm:
I love the fuck and release....... somedays I want it all and others just shut up and fuck me - until neither of us can stand.

darksideothemind 44M

3/5/2019 10:47 am

Some guys try to appeal to all women by being benign in the approach, and therefore appeal to none. While one woman might respond negatively to an overly cautious approach (or not respond at all), another might respond negatively to a direct approach. You kind of get once chance to do it right and how to approach is based on instinct and reading a profile. If there's an empty profile you just take a guess... and it's just as likely you'll not get a reply as it is that you will get a reply.


redrockrascal 63M
23347 posts
3/5/2019 12:46 pm

This is a sex site. No, this is what each person makes of it.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


RobK2006 54M
5854 posts
3/6/2019 10:50 am

I'm curious, as a bi woman do you ever find yourself noticing, or getting turned on by, women getting undressed in a changing room? Of course you wouldn't ever make anyone uncomfortable by openly checking them out, but I imagine it must occasionally be kind of hot seeing some woman you find attractive getting naked in front of you.


IamFredsWilma replies on 3/7/2019 6:49 am:
Yes I have occasionally. Woman straight or bi admire a well put together woman. I am attracted to not so much body size but confidence. A woman who walks with ease, who just makes you stop and look at her. Well dressed, not slutty, one who just does not demand attention, but just is. Hope that makes sense.

RobK2006 54M
5854 posts
3/7/2019 10:49 am

That does make sense. Thanks for the response!


dabrown33 47M

3/8/2019 11:53 am

If you prefer people to talk dirty in their initial contact here, then you are quite an exception to most of the women here. Most women on here, especially the blogs, seem to prefer guys to be a bit more savvy and cultured than "Wanna fuck?". Quite frankly I'd never approach a woman in that manner, because to me it's extremely crude. I don't even really know how to BE that crude.

Of course, what little I can read of your profile, you also say you don't play solo with guys. Which immediately eliminates over half the guys on here. I get it- I for one really don't want to play or get involved with someone who is married, whether they're in an open or "lifestyle" relationship or not. I certainly don't want to have other guys involved.

Because I am a relative newcomer to the site, I was recently informed that the site had originally been a swinger site, so I can see why there are a lot of folks that don't play with solo guys. Unfortunately, that seems to still be the case even as the site evolved away from that, yet the majority of guys on here ARE solo (whether they are truly single like I am, or are simply leaving their significant other out of the equation). So, the ratio is extremely skewed as there are very few women on here that are looking for one time flings whereas most guys, that's exactly what they are after.

As for people looking for relationships, there are a couple things I've noticed. First off that this site is a conglomeration of several site "portals" catering to different interests. Some are geared more towards a more formal relationship. Second, most profiles looking for a "soulmate" are people looking for money either by being cam4cash, prostitutes, or honey scams. They aren't looking to meet, they're just trying to part guys from their money. I'll note that EVERY female profile that has ever contacted me with "interest" has fallen into that category.

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