I think my time on here is done.  

JackJack1971 49M
34 posts
4/21/2021 6:06 am
I think my time on here is done.


As the title says, when my membership runs out on the 25th... I don't think I'll be renewing.
I'm not really sure what I was expecting on here, and covid certainly doesn't help. I sent numerous messages and IM's and aside from 1 awesome woman replying... no one else did. Well if I wanted to sign up for cams sites then I had couple of replies.

Like I said I'm not sure what I was expecting. But it definitely wasn't what was happening.

I wish author all the best, you are a funny, intelligent and very sexy

author51 58F  
126155 posts
4/21/2021 6:11 am

Oh sweet man.. I shall miss you. Unfortunately COVID has come between everything and especially in our area here. I will message you. xoxo


Mrmattman 61M  
681 posts
4/21/2021 6:38 am

sorry to hear that you're disappointed in the site. I have been a member for a few years, and I must say that the number of members and amount of activity on this site has def dropped off since I first joined for a number of reasons. However I might suggest you check into some of the interest group rooms. There you can chat and get to know other people (instead of being patronized by the always lurking fakes and scammers present here (and on all other personals sites I suppose). Good luck to you !!


rdy2try4 56F  
3304 posts
4/21/2021 6:39 am

Hello, unfortunately good guys have the deck stacked against them from the a**holes. Why do I say that? Because, not saying you, but so many men come here expecting a free online whorehouse warehouse and all they need do (in their opinion) is show a pic of their dick and say they are horny and women will rush to service them. I noted your humor about it in your profile. Sadly, that is a reason why women don't answer, but that is only one reason. I am going to say I am sure you read profiles and wrote to women that you thought matched what you were looking for. Sadly, the a**holes slam every woman within a 500 mile radius with "wanna f*ck?" messages or worse. One word messages stink as well as "Hi" or "Hello" and nothing else gets deleted as most women get 25 of those a day and it is seriously annoying. Again, I am not saying you did this! Then you have the a**holes that once they are politely told no thank you they become angry and vile sending back hateful messages of 'f*ck you b*tch' and "I was doing you a favor whore' messages. So women stop answering anything as we didn't sign up to be called names like that. Then you have the a**holes that get blocked by a woman after that and then they get a new profile so they can continue to harass her. These are all factors that play against you.

Now aside from that horrible slide you have only been here for a VERY short time, a couple of months at that. Even if you removed the a**holes it takes time. I can say that from your profile "I" don't know what you were looking for. You didn't say long term, short term, friend with benefits, you said nothing. You didn't give much at all about yourself, but you did note that was the place to sell yourself. Hun, I am not trying to be mean, but you didn't sell it. Maybe if you post a bit more about who you are it 'may' help?? There is no magic recipe for what works as it is the chemistry between people that actually makes it work. The liars on here combined with those that seriously do write profiles filled with nothing but dick size and sexual accomplishments, all of which most women don't care if you f*ck doggy style or reverse cowgirl, it is the person that counts as all men have a dick and all men can do positions. All men though don't trip our giddiness and make us see you in a good light.

I do wish I could give you better help. I have a list of helpful blogs if you wish for me to send them to you, many were written by men, on how the site works. I love to help people on here I really do.


WyoCowboy7751 68M
2344 posts
4/21/2021 6:50 am

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Acer628 36M

4/21/2021 7:42 am

I agree. You send chats and no responses. It is especially hard for standard members as each instance of “hello” costs lots of points. After a time, you stop earning them and can no longer talk to anyone.


flannel_light 59F  
4198 posts
4/21/2021 7:47 am

Covid-19 did do a number on things. In July I will not pay for it again. I will be here for the blogs.. I wish you the best

The Light is shinning and she is lonely and waiting in the darkness.


OldFashionedGu3 59M
7 posts
4/21/2021 8:14 am

Hi rdy2try4 can you send me those blogs I could use some advice. Thank you in advance


elderberry50 71M
92 posts
4/21/2021 8:38 am

I found 2 people who are local and we have become friends with bennies, this page right now is an east coast page. I'm happy with what I found.


Dom__1964 57M
54 posts
4/21/2021 10:29 am

I suggest take a break if you feel you need it. This site can quickly get on your nerves with all the bullshitters and fakes.
First started on this site 12 years ago, sometimes as a cpl (when with a partner), sometimes a gold member.
Normally I would last 3 months and then have a break from the site for a year or 2.
To give you an indication of success rate on this site... 1 in 12 years.... and that was a woman that approached me.
An interesting fact, 99.99% of my hookups have been from non dating sites,


rdy2try4 56F  
3304 posts
4/21/2021 1:32 pm

    Quoting OldFashionedGu3:
    Hi rdy2try4 can you send me those blogs I could use some advice. Thank you in advance
Absolutely no problem at all.


JackJack1971 49M
21 posts
4/23/2021 5:59 am

Thank you to all of you. It means a lot


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