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So, does this really work.  

JackJack1971 52M
26 posts
3/10/2021 6:17 am
So, does this really work.


Hello fellow TSdates.com's.
I've been wondering if this site truly delivers. I've been on here for a couple of weeks now, and I haven't had much success. I've used IM and the internal email and i haven't gotten much in the way of responses. I totally understand that members, especially women get a lot of messages. But I've gotten about a 1% response from the women I've messaged.
I'm a fairly good looking guy, at least I think so... lol and I've tried various introductions and nothing!
So I ask if this site works. I would love to hear from you on your experiences and what introductions have worked for you.

1delightfulm69 69M

3/10/2021 7:57 am

Welcome....it is "hit or miss" depending on how contact is made. Try not to get your hopes up too high. Like anything on the net...a grain of salt is always needed. Way too many "scams" to deal with is why caution is the KEY word. I'm sure you knew this already. So keep your whits(?) about you!!


JackJack1971 52M
20 posts
3/10/2021 12:34 pm

Awesome, thanks for the replies!
@BigLala, I appreciate your feedback, I never looked at other males on here to see what they've written, and didn't realize it was pretty much the same as the others. I will be rewriting my profile quickly!
@1delightfulm69 thank you for your feedback, the small percentage were scams.
Cheers and take care all!


rdy2try4 58F  
3330 posts
4/21/2021 6:47 am

    Quoting  :

This is excellent advice!! I know you have changed your profile since she wrote this and I didn't see the original, but I have to agree that you have absolutely nothing in it that says "choose me" to a woman. As for what BiggLala wrote, she is correct. Men on a whole write the same stuff over and over and instead of seeing the site for what it is... a site... they expect it to 'work' and it is you that has to work the site. This is not the sluts - r - us drive through where you order up one vagina, 2 boobs, and a side of a** to go. LOL I am not saying you did or are doing that, but men's ideas of what a profile should read and what they are looking for read more like that drive through order and women are not here looking for 1 dick, 2 balls, and 1 a** on the side. We want MEN, not dicks. You have to stand out from the others and show us, as women and thinking like a woman not a man, what we want to know about. More men just want to know if you have big tits as opposed to women wanting to know you want no strings sex, which translates to us to you want sex and not have to work for it.

Men need a location, women need a REASON. Give us the reason and be Patient!!!!!!! It takes time no matter where you are. If it was that easy to get a partner for anything there wouldn't be spas, gyms, cosmetic companies, match making companies, and dating sites. We would all just be hooking up with anyone that walked by and we all know that isn't happening.


1seeking1 58F
3767 posts
4/21/2021 6:58 am

Welcome to fantasy land. Had you read the profile before emailing? Did you you mention something from her profile, are you really compatible with the profile? Pandemic certainly has impact on this..


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