How many times have you been stood up?  

Jchris2018 42M/36F  
58 posts
9/23/2018 1:02 am
How many times have you been stood up?

How many times since you have been a member have you invited people to meet and end up getting stood up , no contact, no show.

Please dont include the times that they were courteous enough to text or message prior to your agreed meet time.
1 to 5 times
5 to 10 times
More than 10 times
so many I lost count because no one does what they say anymore
ZERO - incredibly rare

CarriedBack 57M  
144 posts
7/29/2020 12:54 am

I thought long and hard before I clicked on zero, but I really believe that I have never been stood up for a first or second "date" with another member. I few random thoughts about this topic:

1. I think I have not had this problem because I have enough communication beforehand so I've developed a good, solid feeling about the person I'm planning to meet. (And BTW, the build-up that happens during the preliminary communications can lead to an explosive first in-person encounter!)

2. I was on for several years (2001 to 2010), and I got stood up A LOT--include a couple cases in which I know the person was present, but checked me out and then decided they would check out themselves.

3. My "stand-ups" have actually been by women (and one couple) that I had met with multiple times and suddenly just ghosted me. (I think in at least two cases with women, they were in other relationships and their partners were on to them.)

Still sorry to hear about the disappointments and frustrations that others have experienced.

1seeking1 56F
3747 posts
4/7/2019 7:51 am

Sadly too many cheaters and liars here. Then the ones who show and do not look like their pics, are a lot heavier then pic and older then they claimed. This site could be great if more were honest.

stud2meetup2 31M

12/18/2018 1:00 pm

    Quoting CJHav0c91:
    I've been stood by the same guy more than a handful of times.

    Women get stood up, too, guys!
Maybe pick the right guy and stop playing hard to get

uuumgood44 77M
116 posts
10/1/2018 6:10 pm

on A F F being stood up is a norm especially these young girls .

LookN4Threesum2 49M
17 posts
9/29/2018 5:06 am

Several times...I don't get it, why even be on here if you don't plan to meet up???

CJHav0c91 30F

9/26/2018 12:54 pm

I've been stood by the same guy more than a handful of times.

Women get stood up, too, guys!

Yours_4A_knight 56M
1501 posts
9/26/2018 12:52 am

I can't even it seems get to the point where a woman is willing and able to meet, getting stood up as shitty as it would be would be progress

Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.

candylicker_6t9 60M
317 posts
9/25/2018 3:38 am

They usually chicken out before we get down to actually setting up a meet.

olderboy48 72M  
76 posts
9/23/2018 9:48 pm

Once or twice. But for the most part folks have been honest and considerate. Maybe I have just been lucky.

guyinnova112 56M

9/23/2018 4:26 am

Zero times, but not a choice in your poll.

BobsHere4You 61M

9/23/2018 1:32 am

I have never been stood up by a member.

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