IM Messages  

Jenna2046 48T  
157 posts
12/3/2016 5:07 am
IM Messages

Ok, so, last time I was on line, I was chatting with a few people on IM when I get this guy send me a message that I thought was rather rude! I know, I know! I should get used to it right.

Anyway, just so you all know where I am coming from, the messages ran as follows;

Guy: Hi
Me: Hey there

Guy: Have you got any cock this weekend
Me: After pausing to take it in... Umm, no

Guy: Why not
Me: Again after the pause to take it in (imediately thinking, what is it to you what I do or do not?) You seem pretty blunt in your questioning, but because I got home late last night from work and I wasn't up for meeting anyone when I got home.

Guy: Well it's not a dating site, so why beat around the bush

Thankfully at this time my internet connection decided to have a minor meltdown and shut off, because I wasn't quite sure what to make of this whole conversation. I am thinking that the person in question here, was looking for a quick fling with someone who was a little bit local. And I am all for that, but please, a few manners will get you a lot further than what was on offer at the time.

Please guy's if you want to get a little further than my ignore button, show some tact and a few manners. Ok, end rant!

Jenna2046 48T  
89 posts
12/3/2016 5:14 am

Feel free to comment!

Have an awsome weekend everybody

Jenna {=}

seems6666 51F
4759 posts
12/3/2016 5:24 am

Hasn't anyone told's a "sex site" and that means no come hither eyes and foreplay... you are expected to drop your knickers toute suite!!!

itsallfantasy 54F  
1063 posts
12/3/2016 5:35 am

More women agree with you than you think. The rudeness and expectations of women to be total whores with no preferences just that they have a dick is out of this world!! They think because they want it to be an online whorehouse we are all whores and seriously, if they want that than go find a hoooker!!!!! Even a woman that wants dick doesn't want ANY dick!! All men have a dick, not BEING a dick is the trick!!!!! They will continue to fail and not get at all that their behavior even here is wrong. I often wonder how they would act if a guy said that crap to their daughters or sisters. Seriously, how do they know that their daughter won't become a cocksucking whore when a guy shows them their dick the same as they want US to be????????? Your daughters are not immune to the same crap you think we should fall for there fellas.

Thank God not all men are assholes. Too bad most of them are. They just want pussy with no effort, just give it to them. Fuck that shit!!!

Jenna2046 replies on 12/3/2016 6:31 am:
Very true

Joepasto 47M
749 posts
12/3/2016 5:52 am

So, let say that the approach could have been "would you like to have sex with me?", always talking about a rude approach, even if this is a dating site, at least to have a bit of education.

Jenna2046 replies on 12/3/2016 6:45 am:
I don't have a problem with the utilization of the direct approach (and i wouldn't say that your suggestion would have been turned down at all ). Sometimes it work's and sometimes i get a bit of a giggle out of it, and tell the person they may need to work on that one a bit more. I just think that that kind of directness is not really appropriate no matter the social situation.

Jenna {=}

tommy609z 62M
576 posts
12/3/2016 6:00 am

you handled it well--- nice picture

Jenna2046 replies on 12/3/2016 6:46 am:
Thankyou and thankyou

blqberri69 56F
52 posts
12/3/2016 6:03 am

Go figure a bunch horny idiots "thinking their gods gift" no class or manners..

funsnellvillecpl 64M/52F  
3814 posts
12/3/2016 6:17 am

99% of the single guys on here suck and couldn't get laid in a whore house , rude, obnoxious , no class . That's why when they flirt or hotlist or ask to be friends we know they haven't read our profile, they get blocked and or if really bad reported to We are here for our fun, not theirs

Jenna2046 replies on 12/3/2016 6:50 am:
So very true. Thankyou

Jenna2046 48T  
89 posts
12/3/2016 6:28 am

    Quoting seems6666:
    Hasn't anyone told's a "sex site" and that means no come hither eyes and foreplay... you are expected to drop your knickers toute suite!!!
hahaha.... should have known the expectations of some, but the come hither eyes and foreplay are the pre-cursors to the said expectations! As for dropping my knickers toute sweet...... that happens to the best of us

Jenna {=}

Unleashed2_47 40M
18 posts
12/3/2016 6:33 am

Interesting thought on this site: I have assumed before that everyone used this place for sex. However, I also know a lot of people who LOATHE normal dating sites as well. Personally, I wish there had been sites for only married people about a decade ago, like AshleyMadison, but that weren't so expensive and unsuccessful. I struggle with this site too at times, because of the intense differences between girls and guys. I think that's where the difference is between the type of 'dating' sites. Guys to girls here (and not counting the fake accounts) is like 50:1.

Jenna2046 48T  
89 posts
12/3/2016 6:35 am

    Quoting  :

A little bit of respect does go along way. As do compliments and politeness! Not everybody is on this site looking for sex alone. I know people that come here to make new friends and chat with the ones they already have. Some are here to blog alone. Either way it doesn't take much in order to not be so blatantly rude.

Jenna {=}

allalone442 74M
4 posts
12/3/2016 6:48 am

Obviously you have more class than most here,I think you handled the situation correctly.Pretty hot to,

Jenna2046 replies on 12/3/2016 6:56 am:
Thankyou for the compliment on my class although I wasn't really sure what I would have come out with if the internet hadn't dropped out Either way it allowed me time to think about it and put it out there in the blog.

Thanks for the pretty hot comment too! And no need to oops about it, it's the niceites that keep us coming back

Jenna {=}

Jenna2046 48T  
89 posts
12/3/2016 6:48 am

    Quoting blqberri69:
    Go figure a bunch horny idiots "thinking their gods gift" no class or manners..
Apparently it is rocket science!

griffintamer48 53M
14 posts
12/3/2016 6:59 am

your right

Joepasto 47M
749 posts
12/3/2016 7:03 am

Hi Jenna, I do believe that the class is class, no matter the situation, no matter what you are looking for, but if the approach you have with other people it is done in the class mode this will put yourself at other level!!

cmasternow69 57M

12/3/2016 7:29 am

You handled it great. 98% of the guys on here make it hard for the nice ones to strike up a chat because of their rude remarks

Justaman1437 55M  
20 posts
12/3/2016 7:56 am

I agree...we should all respect one another. The way in which an interaction is initiated portends for how it develops

Tmptrzz 59F  
104421 posts
12/3/2016 8:39 am

Wow the nerve of some men huh, and I am glad that IM has a new BAN button I use it frequently..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..

lyavu 48F
1535 posts
12/3/2016 6:16 pm

I do not pay attention . Sometomes I will try to be nice and kill them with kindness. I have had many guys realize what they said and apologized. But block button works too

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