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My Ideal Person: someone I can talk to...

Sexual Orientation: Straight
Looking For: Women
Born in 1968
Married
5 ft 10 in
Average body type
Non-smoker
Light/social drinker
Don't use drugs
Caucasian
Have adult children
Want Children? Happy with what they have
Male Endowment: Average / Average
Circumcised: No
Speaks: English
Shaved head
Glasses
Blue eyes
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What do you think?
Posted:Nov 14, 2021 9:08 pm
Last Updated:Nov 29, 2021 10:50 am
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So is having with a neighbor a worse idea than having with a co-worker?

With a co-worker you could lose your job, with a neighbor you may move if goes really poorly. I guess depends on how easy is move or change jobs and how much you like your job/home.

I feel like the neighbor is riskier but also potentially more fun.
those are related...
1 comment
Sunday evening
Posted:Nov 7, 2021 6:00 pm
Last Updated:Nov 14, 2021 8:57 pm
107 Views

I am on the back patio.
Cool and a breeze but not cold.
There won’t be many more evenings like this for a while.
I have a glass of Bordeaux.
Listening to the wind rejuvenates me.
Put the kayaks away today.
One of those things I should make more time for.
One of those things that sounded like something I would use often.
Really, though, give me the breeze and a glass of wine and someone to talk to, or a book.
Maybe a fire.
I would always rather share the fire and the breeze and the wine.
I would always prefer to spend time on a winding conversation.
1 comment
comments?
Posted:Sep 26, 2021 8:52 am
Last Updated:Nov 7, 2021 5:32 pm
291 Views

comment here if you like
i wont post the comments
just leaving them pending
between the two of us
0 Comments , 1 Pending
Talking is the best
Posted:Sep 26, 2021 8:44 am
Last Updated:Nov 29, 2021 10:50 am
454 Views

dont get me wrong

pictures
videos
i enjoy them

amateur vs professional if i have a choice
though the line is frequently blurred

amateur like a documentary vs staged

cams are good
again
amateur vs professional
someone that wants to be seen
versus
someone that wants to be paid to be seen

stories are even better
true stories are best
even fictional stories contain truth
they tell me what is going through the writers mind

chat is the best
one on one
or in a room
back and forth
questions and answers
chatting about the mundane
or
about food
about drink
about sex
about past experiences
about plans

no politics please
even if we agree
this is an escape

and no drama
be kind
i know drama in chat rooms is unavoidable
still
if i dont like what you are saying
i will ignore it
talk to someone else
leave
come back when things have settled down
i am not here to break up fights
settle disputes
take sides
i do that in real life
again
this is an escape

so chat with me
tell me a story
talk to me about
wine
food
sex
travel
your last week
your upcoming week
books
art
movies
music

send an email
send an im
post something here

take care
0 Comments
old school
Posted:Sep 8, 2021 8:47 pm
Last Updated:Sep 30, 2021 6:14 pm
352 Views

met her a o l
when that was a thing
if you have no idea
you must be under forty
remember asl
before profiles
before being able exchange pics
just
then im
she was from the west coast
not so much
both married
both with
both killing time
life goes
even when the thrill of living is gone
a low risk affair
fling
what have you
never were going meet
never exchanged pics
yet intimate
couldnt wait talk
or
whatever
i miss that
not sure what happened
likely my fault
men stray
even from those they are straying with
so do women i think
men are just worse at it
im sure there was a reason
cant think of what it was
things that make sense dont twenty years later
things that dont make sense do
cant even remember my screenname now
im sure it was clever
and yes
there was always drama in rooms
and yes
there will always be drama in rooms
asi es la vida
fuck it
moving
1 comment
was outside today
Posted:Jun 6, 2021 8:37 pm
Last Updated:Sep 8, 2021 8:19 pm
711 Views

was not online much
online too much usually
need to do more email
less im
tough to tell when rooms will have
so email
say hi
tell a story
even if it is a lie
because you thought of it so it is true enough
1 comment
mindful eating - bear with me
Posted:May 24, 2021 8:14 pm
Last Updated:Nov 29, 2021 10:50 am
947 Views

dinner was
salad
glass of water
glass of red wine

put a bite in my mouth
then put the fork down
until i completely finished that bite
very hard do
took a long time to eat the whole bowl
sipped the water and the wine
no checking the phone or reading

did it as a test

why am i posting this here

because it occurred to me that sex like that
rambling
slow
deliberate
savoring
is quite enjoyable

have had several nights like that
one stands out

she worked on the other coast
had a lot of remote interaction
was in town and met with others for a drink
then went our separate ways

she texted me later
small talk
then mentioned she was going to masturbate
left that hanging
of course i couldnt
called her rather than continuing to text
talked way longer than was necessary in retrospect
sometimes more foreplay than necessary
even verbal
isnt a bad thing

eventually i went to her hotel
she met me in the lobby in a flowing nightgown
you need the key to go up

there is that slightly awkward moment
just after entering the room
we already decided we were going to be intimate
without actually saying it
that always strikes me as odd

anyway

there is that moment when it is still undecided
who will kiss who
whats the first move
after the first move momentum takes over
like standing at the top of a ski slope
things move fast

made out
a little oral for both
neither had sex for a while
so we got right to the point

then we were laying together talking
that is when we explored slowly
no hurry
i was not twenty anymore

so we had time on our hands
used those hands to explore
without hurry
talked about nothing and everything

i enjoyed that more that the intercourse
i shouldnt say that
but i did say it
it takes time to figure another person out
0 Comments
poll for men
Posted:May 12, 2021 9:41 pm
Last Updated:Sep 8, 2021 8:20 pm
2726 Views

same question for men
on TSdates.com
are you more likely view
profiles
videos
pictures
stories
i get my porn elsewhere
2 Comments , 52 votes
poll for women
Posted:May 12, 2021 9:39 pm
Last Updated:Sep 8, 2021 8:21 pm
1307 Views

for women -
on TSdates.com
are you more likely look at
profiles
videos
pictures
stories
i get my porn elsewhere
0 Comments , 1 vote
up late
Posted:May 12, 2021 9:38 pm
Last Updated:Sep 8, 2021 8:33 pm
1645 Views

not sure why
no good reason
i am tired
and yet
not really doing anything on here
ever happen you
3 Comments
Took a break
Posted:Oct 6, 2018 7:04 pm
Last Updated:Nov 29, 2021 10:50 am
1760 Views

2 week break, didnt quit this time!
0 Comments
was going to quit
Posted:May 22, 2018 12:19 am
Last Updated:Nov 29, 2021 10:50 am
1833 Views

but i cant...
0 Comments
tired of cold weather
Posted:Apr 6, 2018 2:38 pm
Last Updated:Nov 29, 2021 10:50 am
1892 Views

lets get to spring already
0 Comments

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