Is distance doable for you?  

LetsChillax 55F
8555 posts
6/30/2019 3:48 am
Is distance doable for you?

How far would you travel to meet someone for a glorious weekend of sex?
An hour
Half a day
Drive all day
Fly to meet them
Won’t do it, only for locals

Bluesradio62 59M
34 posts
8/16/2019 9:07 pm

Have flown to the West and D.C. for a Relationship, and have had people fly from D.C area., N.Y., Ohio and California to meet me......

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BiGuy48125 47M
47 posts
7/20/2019 12:14 pm

It's a play date, not a relationship. Why spend all day travelling?

YoungStud84646 23M

7/19/2019 9:03 pm

three hours is my hard cutoff. for driving, not the sex, lol

Danielle0088 21F
5 posts
7/17/2019 1:47 pm

If they want to meet me then they can travel themselves. I am willing to travel a little ways but not all day.

Jamesgoots1 38M
34 posts
7/16/2019 12:59 pm

Fly t at least theee or four days then

Lickunow255 48M
4 posts
7/13/2019 5:28 pm

Oh yes it is

1025mws 58M
677 posts
7/11/2019 3:25 pm

I would fly to see and make love to the right woman.
I would drive 4 hours.

mtguy2019 66M
185 posts
7/10/2019 7:55 am

A plain visit would be nice too. Some gals are fun.

1hardcock00 58M
31 posts
7/8/2019 5:44 pm

three or four hours is long enough

barbas562 65M
43 posts
7/8/2019 5:33 pm


1seeking1 56F
3748 posts
7/8/2019 3:44 pm

Please clarify, someone I know and I know it is amazing sex or first time meet , take huge gamble? Since I do not drive and limited time, local
should be easier.

Jacknight1273 48M
645 posts
7/8/2019 10:59 am

I could fly if I am positive that we Will have sex.

Most likely to drive all day.

garhfx 66M
30 posts
7/7/2019 7:08 pm

Would certainly depend on the situation. But, somewhere from an hour to half a day.

MrRareity 61M  
4507 posts
7/7/2019 12:42 pm

If we had a connection and I thought it could lead to more I would fly to meet them. If it was just an online connection and I knew it wouldn't go any further I'd travel an hour to meet them as a friend.

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kentuckiana 65M  
58 posts
7/6/2019 10:03 am

If it's a partner, where we share a mutual attraction and enjoy each others company, (in & out of the bedroom), flying to meet them is a privilege & honor. Having met a potential partner on this site, we discovered that me being from the states, and she an aid worker from Norway; that we would be in Shenzhen China at the same time-both for work related responsibilities. We met for the first time in China, hit it off, and I later flew to meet her in San Diego, when she was in the states for a conference. We continue to share holiday greetings, and attempt to always coordinate travel schedules.

Part of the reason I joined; was due to a heavy, worldwide travel schedule; it is difficult to maintain a casual or serious relationship locally, when you are out of town for week long, or longer periods. Whether it includes sharing intimacy, or just meeting a nice dinner partner, the site allows making a connection with others in destinations, where otherwise; you're stuck in a hotel with room service deliver dinner.

With all that said, if just meeting a new, potential partner for adult fun, probably a drive of more that a couple hours (each way), is about it...Not driving 5-6 hours, even for a weekend of glorious intimacy...'cause if it was that "glorious," I'd probably want to keep it going, and from experience know, that initially a long distance relationship can work, but over time; we all just need to decompress from the demands of travel, cook dinner together at home, get better acquainted, share family & local events, etc.

Just my 2-cents worth...

Wantahardman 60M  
38 posts
7/6/2019 7:33 am

I would drive a couple hours if it looks rewarding. But I tend to travel a bit to other areas too... so that can open up possibilities..

brow6902 56M
98 posts
7/5/2019 5:08 pm

I have driven for 9hours for a weekend with a sexy woman...was worth every second behind the wheel....but was a long ride home tired from our fun!>>!

SomewhereSE 64M
314 posts
7/5/2019 12:55 pm

I wouldn’t go beyond local (45-60 min) unless we already met in person and had chemistry or more. In my experiences, the greater the distance the bigger a nightmare/disaster it turned out to be. If it’s local it’s not a total waste of time if it goes to shit, there are things to do in the city.

ohhi72 34M
11 posts
7/5/2019 7:31 am

not very far at all

author51 58F  
125998 posts
7/5/2019 5:30 am

I fly to meet but only with the one for me and I them..

Akinhardon 52M
28 posts
7/5/2019 12:46 am

I'd drive 2-3 hour...max. Roumd trip.

HavTongueWilTrav 66M
7 posts
7/4/2019 10:19 am

I live in Dayton, OH and have flown to Boston once, Denver a few times, have driven to Tenn., Ky., Mich. and, In. a number of times, those were some great weekends too.

dubyavee 41M

7/4/2019 10:05 am

I voted an hour, but would like more to keep it local.

AMfun4meandu 69M
511 posts
7/4/2019 9:12 am

An hour for the first time, BUT if it is good sex and a second time is wanted I'd go a half day travel.

fun4me2find 57M
20 posts
7/4/2019 8:51 am

I voted half a day...but think an hour for a first time weekend....repeat meetings be willing to go farther

LatinoStud2020 30M
18 posts
7/4/2019 6:03 am

I’d drive from 1-3 hours or possibly all day if the sex was worth it!

Havnfn1971 56M

7/4/2019 5:54 am

I may not have picked up on this as I spent more time viewing your pic than reading the question LOL.. As written, if I KNEW I was going to have sex with a woman I liked, I'd go up to 3 hours or so. To meet a member for the first time, I'd limit to an hour since it is fraught with risk of the woman not being who she says, old pics, or maybe the risk of her not liking me after I travel so far. Because of this, I don't see how I would actually know hot woman so far away

ynot57755 64M
38 posts
7/4/2019 4:20 am


ynot57755 64M
38 posts
7/4/2019 4:18 am

I would love to be able to travel, what ever it takes. Enter the real world. Work 60+ hours a week and with bridges and tolls cashless. It makes so hard to move about discreetly. Yes like most men here (50-75 I am married.

jolielaide 50F  
1710 posts
7/3/2019 9:21 pm

    Quoting 1Hemiguy1:
    Forgot to mention nice profile picture btw. 😉 If your on kick Catman2 we could chat

i forgot the question bc i was looking at the profile pic too

dwz5234 69M  
1516 posts
7/3/2019 2:52 pm

well i flew to montana. another time i drove all day

Mark35169 44M  
54 posts
7/3/2019 2:30 pm

I've driven 450 miles

binlate123 67M  
7 posts
7/3/2019 5:23 am

How ever long it take to meet you for dinner!!!

snowey8 66F
106 posts
7/2/2019 11:57 pm

yep an hour drive

jrinco 64M  
116 posts
7/2/2019 11:22 pm

I've driven 3 hours one way several was worth it every time.

wantyoufucked 56M
42 posts
7/2/2019 10:40 pm

Up to 2 hours maximum

caleliyan 58M
16 posts
7/2/2019 8:49 pm

Distance no problem for me!

BolivarMOuy 49M

7/2/2019 11:40 am

If it's for the weekend and not just the day or night, I think half of a day is acceptable. If it's just for the one day or night an hour or two is more reasonable.

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hrlyridr87 67M  
363 posts
7/2/2019 10:05 am

I like to travel, see new places and meet new people. I would drive half a day to a whole day for a meet with the right lady.

1Hemiguy1 59M
144 posts
7/2/2019 9:23 am

Forgot to mention nice profile picture btw. 😉 If your on kick Catman2 we could chat

1Hemiguy1 59M
144 posts
7/2/2019 8:55 am

I travel quite a bit for work driving so if it's I'm my territory I'd drive to meet up. If it meant for a weekend or evenings together during the week.

RavenGB 60M
1408 posts
7/2/2019 2:05 am

I think that to meet anybody distant, you'd need to be going there anyway. When you have sanity restored to your domestic politics, I might visit the States to see some of the natural marvels of your country. If I was in contact wth somebody close to my itinarary, I'd be happy to meet for drinks/dinner and take it from there. It is almost impossible to know what somebody is like in person from a virtual interaction, so for both parties, walking away must be possible - to do this after somebody has spent a lot of time and money travelling would be awkward.

Apart from you, what natural wonders does northern Michigan offer ?

redned1963 58M  
62 posts
7/1/2019 7:57 pm

I think the longer the distance the less likely it will
be a repeat

mffdvr57 59M
3 posts
7/1/2019 6:55 pm

I live in the middle of nowhere, I pretty much have to drive a minimum of 2-3 hours to get to anyone but it doesn't really bother me.

TokenBlackChik 35F
152 posts
7/1/2019 6:20 pm

My experience with males has taught me that anyone more than an hour away is very likely to be a one night/day stand so I don't waste my time on people who aren't local.

OofuncoupleoO 53M
21 posts
7/1/2019 6:01 pm

I flew half way across the country. Brought her back with me. Going on ten years now ❤️

AyneAlAngus 56M

7/1/2019 4:53 pm

I have lots and lots and lots of time. Say when. LOL No, really.

laughwithsinners 60M
56 posts
7/1/2019 4:08 pm

I think about an hour but even then it depends if I can get the time off

LetFuck204 34M
20 posts
7/1/2019 4:05 pm

If I could get time off work and get a decent plane ticket, I would consider flying.

Luking4129 47F

7/1/2019 3:21 pm

I think it depends on the situation.

Leegs2012 48M
86684 posts
7/1/2019 12:21 pm

Only locals

69ereatwetpussy 59M
6200 posts
7/1/2019 11:26 am

For a weekend i'ld travel half a day. for a few hours a hour drive.

jajo696 66F
4028 posts
7/1/2019 10:49 am

Im interested in ongoing, therefore, its gotta be only local for me.~~

allnitelong2063 57M
229 posts
7/1/2019 9:57 am

I vote a hour!

I_willoralu 47M
1679 posts
7/1/2019 9:34 am

If I really enjoy her company I would go as far as it takes.

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tw04fun330 43M/38F
8 posts
7/1/2019 9:03 am

We are willing to travel for the right people

Showyouinsac 47M
78 posts
7/1/2019 8:27 am

If it’s good I’d fly

matureman004 38M
64 posts
7/1/2019 7:48 am

i am willing to drive for date

Azbear1969 52M
85 posts
7/1/2019 7:30 am

Would easily drive up to a few hours away which I have done in the past.

Dodahsux 65M  
6 posts
7/1/2019 7:06 am

Would drive 2-3 hrs for a weekend if its a sure thing. Been stood up to often by locals to take a chance on much more than that.

funsnellvillecpl 64M/52F  
3809 posts
7/1/2019 4:28 am

We once drove 135 miles to meet someone and got stood up, thats after they pursued us for months . So now we limit it to an hr or maybe a lil more ,

Userneeded 33M

7/1/2019 3:53 am

More so only locals, but if im traveling for work for examlle then where ever i am.

48jenny 68T  
38 posts
7/1/2019 3:46 am

If one clicks distance for me isn't a problem.

66hardandready9 38M
5 posts
6/30/2019 11:22 pm

distance isnt a big deal when meeting a matched mind set

passingthrough98 67T  
16 posts
6/30/2019 11:18 pm

would depend on the date and what was going on. I would drive 3 to 4 hours for the right weekend fun

gdguygil2 58M
35 posts
6/30/2019 10:58 pm

Each situation is different, but closer to home is better.

Nicolecd1966 55T  
64 posts
6/30/2019 8:18 pm

I have went as far as 3 hours, but that was for bringing in the New Year. So I voted for the hour, though 2 hours isn't to bad either. I haven't traveled below the bridge where you are yet, but have had offers!!

Superman4695 36M
168 posts
6/30/2019 7:22 pm

For a whole weekend if I find her hot and it was guaranteed I might drive about 500 miles. I'd have to be quite sure about the situation to invest that much time and $$$ (gas isn't cheap these days). Mostly 200 miles would be my limit. She'd have to be worth the extra

393 posts
6/30/2019 7:21 pm

I have driven for over 10 hours to met for a 3 day weekend of sex. It was not a one time thing for I have made that trip several times in the past years. We still keep in touch.Those weekends were fantastic sexual pleasures.

Shawomeguy 46M  
47 posts
6/30/2019 7:10 pm

Depending on the quality of the destination!

gentlelovrjust4u 63M
195 posts
6/30/2019 7:03 pm

I am not really interested in one time flings. I would drive a couple of hours to meet with someone that might be interested in a semi regular get together though

Stevvebm69 58M
8 posts
6/30/2019 11:56 am

I have flown cross country for a hookup. Was worth the trip. No I go twice a year. It’s for “work” after all. Lol

Blueyedguy823 55M
1000 posts
6/30/2019 7:48 am

I have flown to meet someone. They were in a cool place so I figured if it was a complete bust I could go distract myself with other things. BUT... usually with an hour or two is the preferred travel time.

CleavageFan4U 64M  
68312 posts
6/30/2019 6:29 am

I once drove 7 hours for a 3 day weekend. But she was a blogger-babe that I "knew" even though we'd never met, so it wasn't all that risky.

We were joking about how long it would take us to get nekkid after meeting, so I changed the game by greeting her at the hotel room door nekkid - YUP, the first time she saw me in person I was totally nekkid!

Our three day weekend ultimately turned in to four.

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dell9600 64M  
1377 posts
6/30/2019 6:23 am

My lady and I live a 3 hr drive apart. Kinda sucks sometimes, but we do really enjoy our time together when we get to see each other.

candylicker_6t9 60M
317 posts
6/30/2019 5:19 am

If it's truly glorious I'll sail the seven seas.

seems6666 51F
4761 posts
6/30/2019 5:15 am

I voted for an hour, a hour and a half max. Then if the meet isn't that great, you can get away quick!!

Shyguynyc5 45M
68 posts
6/30/2019 4:40 am

Here in New York ,especially Long Island ... a hr is still kinda local .

sexyldy1000 60F  
9350 posts
6/30/2019 4:31 am

When mutual desire and interest exists, distance has never been an issue

Stimulate my mind and let’s see what happens 😊.
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LetsChillax 55F

6/30/2019 3:49 am

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