Self Love - Self Care  

Naughtypursuit 54F  
1649 posts
2/6/2019 5:40 am
Self Love - Self Care

I some times deal in traumatic events. During and after those events we are required to attend counselling.

In my most recent event in speaking with a new in-training counsellor and his mentor he asked me what I do to engage in self -care. Having been at this a while and no longer feeling the need to hold back I told him that yes I do engage in self care I masturbate regularly during dealing with these events. It helps put things in perspective, it calms me and helps me sleep. I go on to say that when I have had a partner then I engage in frequent sex.

The two counsellors look at each other and I can see the counsellor in training is turning red and a bit flustered and unsure of what to say.

The mentor takes over and states that sex is one of the normal ways people deal with trauma and in certain circumstances is quite healthy. He then goes on to explain that self care is a little more involved...

Ooops...guess sex was on my mind.

Naughtypursuit 54F  
2735 posts
2/6/2019 5:40 am

sexyldy1000 60F  
9345 posts
2/6/2019 6:10 am

Congrats to you for feeling so comfortable and self-assured that you were able to be so honest. Bet your colleagues never expected you to be so revealing 😊

Stimulate my mind and let’s see what happens 😊.
Lest We Forget

Naughtypursuit replies on 2/6/2019 1:28 pm:
One of the blessings of getting older...

hogknot 55M  
1016 posts
2/6/2019 6:12 am

Sex is a good way to deal with traumatic incidents. I will have to try that

mc_justmc 61M  
6840 posts
2/6/2019 6:12 am

Wish I could have seen the looks on their faces, I'd bet it was priceless. I bet they both went home and "self-cared" themselves thinking about that!

Naughtypursuit replies on 2/6/2019 1:29 pm:
I know I did

txslowpoke 68M  
2551 posts
2/6/2019 6:25 am

wishing one day you would do some self care in texas... lol

Naughtypursuit replies on 2/6/2019 1:30 pm:
I just might, I have had it with winter

charmer961 62M

2/6/2019 6:44 am

Self care doesn't mean taking care of things yourself?

I love it.

rockhard_on 100M

2/6/2019 6:49 am

Sex is on my mind a lot, too, and I think that that is normal and healthy!

weeeload 58M

2/6/2019 6:55 am

.. honesty is the best policy


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Naughtypursuit replies on 2/6/2019 1:30 pm:
It truly is...

boobwhisperer69 58M  
7832 posts
2/6/2019 8:13 am

POW! You blew their mind! Would have liked to seen the look on their faces!

ltrskr 73M  
5066 posts
2/6/2019 8:53 am

    Quoting  :

The end is near, Repent at my house.........!

mutualbenefit69 47M
177 posts
2/6/2019 9:24 am

i agree, masturbation and sex is used fro stress relief. I also find that orgasming before bed does help me sleep better

Wonder167 54F

2/6/2019 9:59 am

I also think it's great you felt comfortable in sharing your idea of self care. lol Maybe that can be added to protocol along with illustrations. lol

Naughtypursuit replies on 2/6/2019 1:32 pm:
Hmmm I wonder if they would give me a prescription....

Tmptrzz 59F  
104098 posts
2/6/2019 10:26 am

Naughty, such a great read hun and you should of gotten a picture of his face. As I am sure it was priceless, and we all have to do self care when we face traumatic events that occur in our lives, well said hun..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..

XHamburgDave 78M  
10466 posts
2/6/2019 11:47 am

LMAO Jo Honesty is the Best Policy, loved to have seen their faces

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BiggLala 49F  
30139 posts
2/6/2019 12:18 pm

In the category of 'didn't see THAT coming', score:
Naughtypursuit - 1
Training counselor and Mentor - 0

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VinnFromTheBlock 61M

2/6/2019 12:19 pm

What a coincidence ,,SO DO I!!

Naughtypursuit replies on 2/6/2019 1:32 pm:
Lol I am sure you do...

BiggLala 49F  
30139 posts
2/6/2019 12:21 pm

In the category of 'didn't see THAT coming', score:
Naughtypursuit - 1
Training counselor and Mentor - 0

Although, the Mentor gets an honorable mention for continuing the session after picking up his jaw from the floor. πŸ…

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Paulxx001 64M
21903 posts
2/6/2019 2:02 pm

Oops is right... Lol 😁
So.. Inner monologue disappears for you as you get older? Kool.. Glad to know I'm not alone . 😊

drinksprite62 59M
7723 posts
2/6/2019 5:41 pm

You are not wrong.
Good for you in being open and honest.

azriel1970 51M

2/6/2019 6:05 pm

LOL you and think so alike. Honestly I probably masturbate far too much. It is how I deal with a lot of things....

Naughtypursuit replies on 2/6/2019 7:31 pm:
How can it every be too

lordjack1957 64M

2/6/2019 9:23 pm

Great minds think alike Milady... take good care of yourself!


wantaplay8 68M
5606 posts
2/7/2019 4:08 am them,,,,one counselor is well adjusted the other needs some counseling. Well I do like your methods of pushing those difficult visions out of your head.
Sex can be a least I think so.

lindoboy100 58M
23884 posts
2/7/2019 11:43 am

Oops.....not quite a slip of the tongue, more so a slip of the finger......

I always knew there was more to you're a wee bit special it seems!!

Nada mΓ‘s que fallas......

voyeur2017 59M  
1359 posts
2/7/2019 12:48 pm

That's why I visit this site often..... the need for self -care ~~~ ....happy to read you are well adjusted ~~

SteamedupAgain 54M

2/7/2019 5:00 pm

This is enlightening. I think I need you to counsel me. A lot. In the bath tub too.

CumsDeep 60M
89 posts
2/10/2019 9:55 am

Ouch!!!....brb... gotta go masturbate

Evocules 53M
1287 posts
2/10/2019 8:09 pm

Self pleasure seems like acceptable self care to me! I console myself often!

rusty_nail 71M
699 posts
2/11/2019 8:12 am

Sex is a good relaxer

I have also been known to watch the Chopped Food Network program while sipping Dewars to unwind. NO where near the relaxation that comes from masturbating --but it works some.

SolarPowered0 115M
8346 posts
2/11/2019 8:55 pm

Naughty Girl...

I ALWAYS deal with everything via the ol' chicken choke-hold.

I just have a sneakin' suspicion that if you were placin' a choke-hold on that ol' chicken of mine... I' likely be a whole lot less stressed... and I wouldn't need 3 quarts of BBQ sauce to bring to a well-done golden brown.


HoHowdy 59M
1284 posts
2/15/2019 4:37 pm

I have lived through being with two coworkers being killed on the job, so I have a similar view. I think sex would be a reassurance of life and being human, and would be darn good therapy.

NJGUY08090 55M
4098 posts
2/24/2019 3:25 pm

Well if you are going to be a counselor you better be prepared. Good for you to be so very open honest.

DarkLoveFu 36M
29 posts
2/25/2019 11:13 am

Are you recommend a lot of sex to deal with my childhood trauma? Now I understand how I managed not to be bothered by everything back then...

Dtts43rt35 63M
13986 posts
2/28/2019 1:56 pm

What a good thing we can do and feel, sex is everything, thanks for sharing!

Rio flows in its bed and goes around with its waters!

penetrar37 43M
30 posts
2/28/2019 8:52 pm

it's so hard to follow posts in here

OldStiffOneEye01 47M
12 posts
3/2/2019 12:29 am

Good for you at being so open about your sexuality. I, too, normally can't sleep unless I self-care lol

Naughtypursuit replies on 3/2/2019 5:16 pm:
It's fantastic right

OlBlueEyz46 55M
766 posts
3/2/2019 12:30 pm

well now ur sexy ass is going to be on my mind as I tend to some self care!


DM_72 48M
4 posts
3/11/2019 6:34 pm

Love how open and honest you are with yourself and your sexuality. At least the mentor stepped in and saved the blushing newbie

Eviloutlaw1 60M
4746 posts
3/28/2019 2:59 am

Wish I could have been a fly on the wall, spit our a mouth full of coffee laughing at this.

Naughtypursuit replies on 3/28/2019 4:32 am:
Lol Sorry...he was a little shy in the follow up meetings but he's all good now.

232 posts
1/16/2020 4:43 am

Whackin it is how I deal with all issues. So dont confront me in a wal mart unless you are wearing a rain suit.

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