Men are Morons!!!  

NookieinNevada 44F   
17 posts
8/16/2021 12:33 pm
Men are Morons!!!

Is it just me, or do all you ladies have the same problem with guys on this site? 95% of the guys that hit on me do so without even reading ANY of my profile. They know NOTHING about me except that I've got a huge pair of tits!! I know my profile is longer than most but, can't a lady be a little picky and specific about what she desires!?! I guess just because I'm on a "sex" site that I'm sitting around all bored, lonely and desperate, waiting for the first guy who comes along so I can invite him over! All I really ask is that a guy be 40ish or under, well hung, LIVE in my general area, have pics of himself, send me a decent introductory message (90% consist of "How are you") and not expect me to hook up "now",, or "Tonight" when I don't even know them yet!! I guess folks are just downright lazy and/or think so highly of themselves that they think they can just hit on a woman who they know nothing about and can't take a couple of minutes to learn about her so they can approach her properly! The sad part is that I'm sure I've missed out on meeting some really hot men (and they've missed out on meeting me!!) because I brushed them off because they sent me a "How are you" or don't have pics to show, etc. Oh well! I fear for the future of mankind!!!!


OldStandardDudeX 69M  
119 posts
8/16/2021 8:47 pm

Actually, men are bums.....I view the profiles, see the provocative images, and imagine that is their whole existance......well, that's not true, they have lives to live, and they are not always running around in nice panties, sorry to say....so I have to step back and get past those initial thoughts......and so I read the profiles, pay attention to the desires posted there.....send off the messages, await a response....and wait.....and wait.....and wait.....well, actually, I have a life as well, and so I move on.....as for the future of mankind, it be challenging....


Lippenbalsam 60M
304 posts
8/16/2021 11:30 pm

First of all, standard members cannot read your profile at all.
Unfortunately, many Gold members are also a bit clumsy in their way of making contact. (In addition, many men often think a little more easily than women)
The anonymity of the Internet often disguises the fact that the establishment of contact is about interpersonal interactions.
And many in our society have never learned the necessary soulful qualities.

This page also suggests:
Everyone here just wants to fuck. It's very easy, all you have to do is access it.
Like in the supermarket on the graveyard table.

Use this to your advantage, so you can choose the sensitive men you are looking for.
btw: nice tits!

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NookieinNevada replies on 8/17/2021 7:30 pm:
Yeah, Standards can't even read profiles here anymore so I almost always delete IM messages from them. But my post was referring to Gold members!!!!

Brownie202 64F  
2592 posts
8/17/2021 3:17 am

    Quoting Lippenbalsam:
    First of all, standard members cannot read your profile at all.
    Unfortunately, many Gold members are also a bit clumsy in their way of making contact. (In addition, many men often think a little more easily than women)
    The anonymity of the Internet often disguises the fact that the establishment of contact is about interpersonal interactions.
    And many in our society have never learned the necessary soulful qualities.

    This page also suggests:
    Everyone here just wants to fuck. It's very easy, all you have to do is access it.
    Like in the supermarket on the graveyard table.

    Use this to your advantage, so you can choose the sensitive men you are looking for.
    btw: nice tits!
True can't read profiles but how are they able to send a message? It's true that so many expect any woman they are interested in to talk with them just because we are at this site. That we do not have our wants and do not want. I had more then a few wanting me to meet them the same day. Within a few hours.

Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth.

If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.


nsnguystill 69M
390 posts
8/17/2021 4:21 am

this seems to be a popular song on every dating/hookup site that has a forum. so YES you as everyone has the right to want what they want.
butt i ask... have you wondered around this (TSdates.com) house. have you seen the direction management has taken this ship.
if not may i invite you to "live member webcams". there you will can see the true flavor of the average member here, the intend of the male... as well as the female.
i feel that if one would take a openminded tour of TSdates.com, check out the contests
read the blogs
watch the member cams... including reading the comments made there.
tour the groups
then i am sure you would understand my closing comment ....
when one hungers for a good steak, they should not go to a dinner.
then
when one hungers for a relationship they should not go to a hookup site
unless their intent is to (a) complain about the meat, or (b) complain about being treated like meat!
bonne vie

there is a world of difference between insane and stupid


seems6666 51F
4754 posts
8/17/2021 8:17 am

    Quoting nsnguystill:
    this seems to be a popular song on every dating/hookup site that has a forum. so YES you as everyone has the right to want what they want.
    butt i ask... have you wondered around this (TSdates.com) house. have you seen the direction management has taken this ship.
    if not may i invite you to "live member webcams". there you will can see the true flavor of the average member here, the intend of the male... as well as the female.
    i feel that if one would take a openminded tour of TSdates.com, check out the contests
    read the blogs
    watch the member cams... including reading the comments made there.
    tour the groups
    then i am sure you would understand my closing comment ....
    when one hungers for a good steak, they should not go to a dinner.
    then
    when one hungers for a relationship they should not go to a hookup site
    unless their intent is to (a) complain about the meat, or (b) complain about being treated like meat!
    bonne vie
This is not just a "hook up" site . People are here for many reasons. Some meet.. some don't. And just because men perceive it as a hook up site doesn't mean they have to approach women with "fancy a fuck" or I'm in hotel room.. come and see me
I HATE it when men do that. Or just show me a cock pic. I call them out and ask if they would do and say that to a woman in a bar... Of course they wouldn't. And they generally apologise for being such a dick.
Also a lot of men in here looking for sex are on the "vanilla' sites looking for "the one" and guess what.. they don't like being called out on it


Lippenbalsam 60M
304 posts
8/17/2021 12:01 pm

    Quoting Brownie202:
    True can't read profiles but how are they able to send a message? It's true that so many expect any woman they are interested in to talk with them just because we are at this site. That we do not have our wants and do not want. I had more then a few wanting me to meet them the same day. Within a few hours.
A standard can also send a message for 220 points (TSdates.com Points Program)

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nsnguystill 69M
390 posts
8/17/2021 4:05 pm

    Quoting seems6666:
    This is not just a "hook up" site . People are here for many reasons. Some meet.. some don't. And just because men perceive it as a hook up site doesn't mean they have to approach women with "fancy a fuck" or I'm in hotel room.. come and see me
    I HATE it when men do that. Or just show me a cock pic. I call them out and ask if they would do and say that to a woman in a bar... Of course they wouldn't. And they generally apologise for being such a dick.
    Also a lot of men in here looking for sex are on the "vanilla' sites looking for "the one" and guess what.. they don't like being called out on it
well i just looked up TSdates.com and this is what it says

TSdates.com - Official - The Official Adult Dating Site
Ad·
https://www.TSdates.com.com/
+1 877-790-8298
TSdates.com - Casual Dating with Uncensored Photo/Video Profiles. TSdates.com - Worlds Largest Sex Dating & Swinger Community. Adult Hookup Site. Chat with Couples. 40+ Million Members. Mobile Friendly. As Seen on the NY Times. Meet Single Men.

TSdates.com - The World's Largest Adult Dating and ...https://TSdates.com.com
With millions of members worldwide, TSdates.com is the best dating site to find adult singles and swingers for discreet hookups and casual sex near ...
now just because you think it is something else... it does not make it so. like you i am not here for the meat. i just enjoy the forums.
you seem to have missed the part about the other features of this site. you know the cams where men are disgustingly shouting commands at young women who happily comply for a few tips in the form of a buzz tip.
taking into account that people will change their way of acting in order to fit into what they conceive to be the norm. i go back to what i said before
when one hungers for a good steak, they should not go to a dinner....
bonne vie

there is a world of difference between insane and stupid


Owatalife 65M
1689 posts
8/17/2021 4:08 pm

Nothing ever comes easy in this here world as you well know. The really sad part about many things on this site besides an overflow of bampots is the powers that be make it difficult for standard members to get in touch. They go out of their way to constantly throw spanners into the works here which is a shame. No doubt you get a ton of mail so hopefully down the road more guys to your liking who will be able to both read & comprehend what you've written in your profile will spark some interest.


BiggLala 49F  
30139 posts
8/17/2021 6:32 pm

    Quoting nsnguystill:
    well i just looked up TSdates.com and this is what it says

    TSdates.com - Official - The Official Adult Dating Site
    Ad·
    https://www.TSdates.com.com/
    +1 877-790-8298
    TSdates.com - Casual Dating with Uncensored Photo/Video Profiles. TSdates.com - Worlds Largest Sex Dating & Swinger Community. Adult Hookup Site. Chat with Couples. 40+ Million Members. Mobile Friendly. As Seen on the NY Times. Meet Single Men.

    TSdates.com - The World's Largest Adult Dating and ...https://TSdates.com.com
    With millions of members worldwide, TSdates.com is the best dating site to find adult singles and swingers for discreet hookups and casual sex near ...
    now just because you think it is something else... it does not make it so. like you i am not here for the meat. i just enjoy the forums.
    you seem to have missed the part about the other features of this site. you know the cams where men are disgustingly shouting commands at young women who happily comply for a few tips in the form of a buzz tip.
    taking into account that people will change their way of acting in order to fit into what they conceive to be the norm. i go back to what i said before
    when one hungers for a good steak, they should not go to a dinner....
    bonne vie
when one hungers for a relationship they should not go to a hookup site
-You repeat this as if it means something. First, where in the post does the OP state or even imply that she is looking for a relationship? Please point that out because I've read it twice and I don't see it. If anything, she absolutely seems to seek casual, sex dating situations based on the criterion she listed.

Secondly, this information you copied does not say "this site" is JUST a hookup site. That advertisement uses all manner of verbiage to describe what "this site" is, including "Adult Dating Site", "Casual Dating", and "Sex Dating & Swinger Community". Yes, one can view this as a hookup site, but seems' point remains...it's not JUST a hookup site.

And...did you mean *diner* not "dinner"? If so, I'm not sure that's an absolute. Depending on the diner, one might find a darn good steak. I've been to 4-star steakhouses and had shitty steaks, soooo.....just pointing that out.

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NookieinNevada 44F  

8/17/2021 7:39 pm

Yes, Standards can't view profiles but I was referring mainly to the IM chat. I would turn it off while I'm on here if it wasn't for the entertainment value!! All I was saying was that it just amazes me how many men hit on me without even taking a minute to read about me first!! That may be because of the difficulty navigating this site on an Android or Apple smartphone - I always use a Windows based laptop or desktop when visiting here


profcoquin27bis 57M
4190 posts
8/18/2021 9:57 am

iam only standaed member, so i can't read your profile, i can't view pics and videos, damned
hi from France


BiggLala 49F  
30139 posts
8/18/2021 7:16 pm

    Quoting nsnguystill:
    And...did you mean *diner* not "dinner"? If so, I'm not sure that's an absolute. Depending on the diner, one might find a darn good steak. I've been to 4-star steakhouses and had shitty steaks, soooo.....just pointing that out.
    yes i did mean diner. also a totally agree in the odd diner you can get a great stake, and a shitty one in a four star, but those are the exceptions. just like hoping for a respectful response from a spineless moron you just rejected.
    just saying
So...you're saying that the majority (i.e. the rule) of men on this site are spineless morons. Got it! 👍🏽

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nsnguystill 69M
390 posts
8/19/2021 1:51 am

So...you're saying that the majority (i.e. the rule) of men on this site are spineless morons. Got it!

well yes. but on occasion i do get a colorful reply from a woman i said no thank you to...
butt that also would be the exception (a man saying no)

there is a world of difference between insane and stupid


seingalt23 57M
5453 posts
8/19/2021 2:39 pm

I mostly cannot read the profiles - but I can read the blogs, I learned in your post something about you and your personality.

With some creativity, even standard members can approach women here.

Indeed, I found, that this here can be an TSdates.com platform. It takes some time to start a real connection - but it works. No always, but I can´t complain.

The rest about get laid tonight - is marketing blabla, a nice sexy fairy tale, mostly men would like to believe

Giacomo


XKbzon18 32M  
12 posts
9/1/2021 9:46 pm

I personally when I see a profile in the mobile version that catches my attention, I send a greeting message, then I return to the profile to read the introduction, see the photos, videos and other information that is available, for example a blog, testimonials, question and answer section, etc. in the desktop version. I believe that 80% of women write READ FIRST in their introduction, even in capital letters. what I wonder is how is a intelligent message to stand out? what should it include? what is the structure? I have that doubt because each head is a world and perhaps the message can be intelligent for one person and not for another....

English is not my first language so I use a translator. I hope my comment makes sense


XKbzon18 32M  
12 posts
9/1/2021 9:56 pm

    Quoting NookieinNevada:
    Yes, Standards can't view profiles but I was referring mainly to the IM chat. I would turn it off while I'm on here if it wasn't for the entertainment value!! All I was saying was that it just amazes me how many men hit on me without even taking a minute to read about me first!! That may be because of the difficulty navigating this site on an Android or Apple smartphone - I always use a Windows based laptop or desktop when visiting here
definitely the site needs a lot of improvements, starting with IM


s2ndegree 62M  
9797 posts
9/7/2021 9:27 pm

Most people come to this site because they can hide their faces.
They also can post sexually suggestive photos in order to attract more attention.It also allows members to write about the kind of people that those pictures have attracted and then act as if all men are the same way.
If men read more profiles here they would get a better look at
what entitlement looks and reads like. Something they are often accused
of having themselves.Their loss!

Using more than all the road!


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