Nxtphaze227 61F  
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3/5/2021 1:53 pm

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Tmptrzz 59F  
104079 posts
3/5/2021 2:07 pm

Sounds like their form letter they send to everyone, no matter what you write them about. And it's funny how the site can do what ever they want with our information but yet we are not allowed the same courtesy.

I hope all is well with you, and you enjoy your weekend..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..

Nxtphaze227 replies on 3/5/2021 2:40 pm:
Hello Tmp, hope all is going well with you and yours.

I cannot believe they want people to actually "pay" when they're placing/using "all" of our site information all over the WWW.

I have a few attorney friends and will check if what the site, Various, Inc., is doing with members' profile and site data is really legal. If anything, they need to compensate members for sharing everything.

Still having problems replying to messages but can receive still them.

I use my post box blog here to keep in touch with members here.

Hope you are doing well and enjoy your weekend.


1seeking1 56F
3747 posts
3/5/2021 3:04 pm

Thank you for sharing

PlymWidow19 58M

3/5/2021 4:00 pm

Thanks for letting me (and everyone else) know this - I did search my user name and found posts from my blog that are on sites I have never even heard of or even seen Is this even legal? How do we know our info and posts are not being used as part of a scam somewhere else......This is like part of George Orwells classic story 1984 - BIG BROTHER IS WATCHING YOU ......YES YOU.....Seriously considering now weather to remain on here or not, the implications for my privacy and personal security are massive - there is information out there about me that I DID NOT give consent to share - or did I? Now confused and perplexed - watch this space...


Nxtphaze227 replies on 3/5/2021 5:04 pm:
I wonder if it's really legal as well. At the least, it's unsettling. Kind of explains why there are multitudes of bots and fake profiles.

lindoboy100 58M
23884 posts
3/5/2021 4:16 pm

Thankyou for sharing this McPhaze. This kind of thing has been going on all too long, the site is more interested in money than its members' well being, and this is yet another example of their inconsistent application of the ToU.I

Take care, stay safe.

Nada más que fallas......

Nxtphaze227 replies on 3/5/2021 5:44 pm:
My point exactly, and it's "Nxt."

PlymWidow19 58M

3/5/2021 4:19 pm

I hope you do not mind, but i have also put my reply to your blog entry on my Blog - with slight modifications, this info needs to be shared widely amongst all members, as i said the implications are far reaching...


fun4usinport 46M  
66 posts
3/5/2021 5:12 pm

Pretty shady and it seems like the number of "affiliate" sites keeps growing. And what happens on those sites? Unless all the sites interoperate then basically those other sites are filled with essentially fake profiles.

Nxtphaze227 replies on 3/5/2021 5:46 pm:
Exactly, just like all the fake profiles w/stolen pictures and bots on here.

xNewsPhotog 59M  
241 posts
3/5/2021 5:22 pm


flannel_light 59F  
4197 posts
3/5/2021 5:27 pm

Thank you for sharing this

The Light is shinning and she is lonely and waiting in the darkness.

DiscreetQuirky 52M
279 posts
3/5/2021 6:20 pm

Very uncool.

trixietrixster 54F  
3074 posts
3/5/2021 7:28 pm

I just happened to stumble upon your post. Same "cover letter" they send to everyone for all issues, apparently. Legal or not, they are getting away with it, as are other sites ...

In Luv, Lite, Laffter ...

Nxtphaze227 replies on 3/6/2021 3:22 pm:
According to the site, the blog was denied. I merely quoted the site's CS message response back to me.

So does that mean that their own response is contrary to their own TOU?

I'm confused.

lust4life59 62F
2372 posts
3/8/2021 10:57 am

ah........I was getting ready to send you an email, was going to ask you if the site had deleted it when I noticed it gone the other day. Good luck, nothing about this place makes sense sometimes.

Nxtphaze227 replies on 3/8/2021 12:10 pm:
I didn't know it had been deleted at first. I was up for a few days before it was removed.

Seems like the site's TOU do not apply to them. It gets confusing when they send you "chapter and verse" TOU documentation but then turn around and operate the site(s) in ways that are contrary to them.

Just did some minor tweaks...we'll see how long it stays up.

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