I Called Her... By Your Name... ๐ŸŒน  

Paulxx001 64M
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4/10/2020 7:59 pm

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I Called Her... By Your Name... ๐ŸŒน

I phoned my sister-in-law today ; just to see how things were going. And while we were talking, I called her, by YOUR name - twice.

My brother's wife is a fun woman to talk with. She's intelligent and quick. I'd asked her about a recipe... and trivia... and I shared my tiny rant about shopping. Her replies flowed back, then finally concluded as she paused, and asked me a question

"Who's Debra?"

And it dawned on me ; I don't know. I've never met you. But, you're always on my mind. Are you just an illusion?

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Paulxx001 64M
21914 posts
4/10/2020 8:00 pm

How do you manage after, you've called someone... by the wrong name? ๐Ÿค”


Paulxx001 64M
21914 posts
4/10/2020 8:01 pm

Is there someone on your mind? ๐Ÿท๐Ÿท๐Ÿ˜Ž


Paulxx001 64M
21914 posts
4/10/2020 8:07 pm

Oh... FFS .... Cheers ๐Ÿท๐Ÿท Anyone going nuts or are we all comfortably numb? ๐Ÿค” ๐Ÿท๐Ÿท๐Ÿ˜Žโ—โค๏ธ


Tmptrzz 59F  
104184 posts
4/10/2020 8:26 pm

You apologize and move on, and who is Debra.. I have never done that luckily..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


sexyldy1000 60F  
9350 posts
4/10/2020 8:56 pm

You laugh about it, you pretend it never happened or you apologize. I think it depends on who you are speaking to and what kind of relationship you have. It has happened to me on both sides of the conversation. And in these times, yes someone is on my mind and hopefully, he knows it.

Stimulate my mind and letโ€™s see what happens ๐Ÿ˜Š.
Lest We Forget


frank19880903lai 33M
22 posts
4/10/2020 9:50 pm

just an illusion?


author51 58F  
126059 posts
4/10/2020 10:28 pm

I normally forget someone's name these days my coffee mate..You know it's that sometimers mind I got going on...lol.xx


tsn4fun2 45M/43F
259 posts
4/10/2020 11:18 pm

Sounds like โ€œDebraโ€ did something spectacular for you and neither one of yโ€™all seemed to have caught it. Funny how the mind picks up on things... that is how fantasies are born. You start subconsciously thinking about it and it fills in the blanks. Then the dreams start and if it is something that youโ€™re already longing for, it flourishes. I hope you find your โ€œDebraโ€ ๐Ÿฅฐ
Could be a beautiful thing!

Just make sure your sister-n-law doesnโ€™t misconstrue the situation! Your brother might not appreciate that too much! ๐Ÿ˜ฌ๐Ÿ˜


flannel_light 59F  
4197 posts
4/11/2020 12:39 am

I almost done that once when I was with a guy having sex and good thing I caught myself.

The Light is shinning and she is lonely and waiting in the darkness.


mc_justmc 61M  
6841 posts
4/11/2020 5:36 am

That's funny, and don't call me Debra.


Paulxx001 64M
21914 posts
4/11/2020 6:54 am

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    You apologize and move on, and who is Debra.. I have never done that luckily..
Apologize? ๐Ÿค” Or pretend you never uttered another's name?
Yeah... to start a story and try to explain it, might be a challenge. ๐Ÿ˜ฎ Happy Saturday โ—๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿท๐Ÿท


author51 58F  
126059 posts
4/11/2020 6:55 am

    Quoting author51:
    I normally forget someone's name these days my coffee mate..You know it's that sometimers mind I got going on...lol.xx
Funny story though.. I had just broken up with one man and my next Lover had the same name.. so even if I had been thinking about the previous one with the newer same name, different guy, I was still calling out the right name......LMFAO!!!!! True story...


Paulxx001 64M
21914 posts
4/11/2020 6:57 am

    Quoting sexyldy1000:
    You laugh about it, you pretend it never happened or you apologize. I think it depends on who you are speaking to and what kind of relationship you have. It has happened to me on both sides of the conversation. And in these times, yes someone is on my mind and hopefully, he knows it.
Good options - all of them.
Ya think he knows? ๐Ÿค” I imagine you can't do much in these conditions - to be closer than a thought away.
Or... have ya thought of wrapping yourself up in stretch wrap and making a road trip to see him? ๐Ÿท๐Ÿท๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿ˜ฎ


Paulxx001 64M
21914 posts
4/11/2020 6:59 am

Like the song - "Ooo... ooo.
. ooo...
Ahh... Ahhh.. ๐ŸŽถ


Paulxx001 64M
21914 posts
4/11/2020 7:00 am

    Quoting author51:
    I normally forget someone's name these days my coffee mate..You know it's that sometimers mind I got going on...lol.xx
You forget their name? ๐Ÿค”
I do as well... but I try and focus when it comes to family members, sort of. ๐Ÿ˜ฎ ๐Ÿท๐Ÿท๐Ÿ˜Ž


Paulxx001 64M
21914 posts
4/11/2020 7:03 am

    Quoting tsn4fun2:
    Sounds like โ€œDebraโ€ did something spectacular for you and neither one of yโ€™all seemed to have caught it. Funny how the mind picks up on things... that is how fantasies are born. You start subconsciously thinking about it and it fills in the blanks. Then the dreams start and if it is something that youโ€™re already longing for, it flourishes. I hope you find your โ€œDebraโ€ ๐Ÿฅฐ
    Could be a beautiful thing!

    Just make sure your sister-n-law doesnโ€™t misconstrue the situation! Your brother might not appreciate that too much! ๐Ÿ˜ฌ๐Ÿ˜
THAT... was am astute analysis and closer to the truth than you know.
My brother? ๐Ÿค” After all these years... he's used to me but THAT'S a great safety tip! ๐Ÿ‘ ๐Ÿท๐Ÿท๐Ÿ˜Ž


Paulxx001 64M
21914 posts
4/11/2020 7:04 am

    Quoting flannel_light:
    I almost done that once when I was with a guy having sex and good thing I caught myself.
Ooo.... it IS a good thing you didn't use another's name.
Ya think he mighta been ticked off? ๐Ÿค” ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿท๐Ÿท๐Ÿ˜Žโ—


Paulxx001 64M
21914 posts
4/11/2020 7:07 am

    Quoting mc_justmc:
    That's funny, and don't call me Debra.
My brain drifted. It happens.. I guess.
The second time, I was annoyed with myself... and my sister-in-law is SO nosy. โ—๐Ÿ™„


Paulxx001 64M
21914 posts
4/11/2020 7:09 am

    Quoting  :

Good for you. ๐Ÿ˜Š ๐Ÿ‘
I hope you don't slip up. Of course... now that it's on your mind...
lol ๐Ÿ˜‚. Ever try to and avoid something you know you should, but then it comes out accidentally?
It's all good. ๐Ÿท๐Ÿท๐Ÿ˜


Paulxx001 64M
21914 posts
4/11/2020 7:14 am

    Quoting  :

Lucky you ๐Ÿ€ Must be something in my brain DNA. It's happened to me a few times. Replacing a person's name that is.
Happy Saturday โ— ๐Ÿ˜Ž ๐Ÿท ๐Ÿท


Paulxx001 64M
21914 posts
4/11/2020 7:16 am

    Quoting author51:
    Funny story though.. I had just broken up with one man and my next Lover had the same name.. so even if I had been thinking about the previous one with the newer same name, different guy, I was still calling out the right name......LMFAO!!!!! True story...
Wow. That IS funny and creepy... lol ๐Ÿ˜‚
Then again... he'd never know. Omg ๐Ÿค”
Ahhh... the mind and the games it plays on us. ๐Ÿท๐Ÿท๐Ÿ˜


misskissin 58F
87742 posts
4/13/2020 3:27 pm

I've thankfully never called someone by the wrong name. Sounds like someone special though if she was on your mind.


Paulxx001 64M
21914 posts
4/13/2020 3:51 pm

    Quoting misskissin:
    I've thankfully never called someone by the wrong name. Sounds like someone special though if she was on your mind.
Never? You're better than me. I think there's a wire twisted upstairs (where my brain connects to my mouth), because I've done that before. Vivid imagination?
Of course... It's happened with my kids - once or three times - but that's different, right? ๐Ÿ˜ฎ ๐Ÿท๐Ÿท๐Ÿ˜Ž


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