Just another shitty single site!!  

PlayitKool81 40M
12 posts
8/7/2021 12:07 am
Just another shitty single site!!

So I’ve been on here and let me tell you I’ve had some pretty decent conversations but no one ever wants to meet up. Idk maybe it’s just me. I think I’m about ready to throw in the towel.😔

ItsJust4FunBoy42 49M  
3 posts
9/1/2021 3:40 pm

I've been a member since 2009, and I've taken breaks invariably during that time. One of the things that I've been able to find here, quickly, is that the fakes are easy to spot out, and the "real" ones are worth sticking around for. I've met a few, and I can say with satisfaction that a few of them are now lifelong friends, which makes the struggle worth it. There are good people here, if you're willing to take the time to see the forest through the trees.

BiggLala 49F  
30139 posts
8/8/2021 12:08 pm

what is confusing about it?
-Okay, perhaps "confusing" wasn't the best choice of words. Plus, I included your status message (at the time I wrote my comment) in my assessment of your profile. So, when I said confusing was based on you saying you're not looking for a relationship, yet your status said you were looking for a special someone. Those statements conflict one another, and I think many women would think the same. '

And, to seems6666's point, you've been here less than a month and you're griping how no one wants to "meet up". Of course, "meet up" tends to imply hookups, so that conflicts with meeting a "special someone".

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PlayitKool81 replies on 8/9/2021 10:19 pm:
Ok let me clarify for you how my mind works. First off thank you for the feedback I do appreciate it. Anyways, I am not looking for the one right now but I am looking for a friend, friend with benefits. Which means to me that we are sleeping together. Well before i go sleeping with someone, I have to think that that someone is special or i wouldnt be fucking them. I am not a dog with that pink thing hanging out trying to hump anything that walks in the yard. I have standards and certain things i believe in. And if you aint fitting the certain mold we aint sleeping together. So in my mind you are a special someone. Doesnt mean I out searching for the one. You feel me. See i wanna know your name I wanna know you. There has to be somekind of connection. Ive turned down pretty females a few different time. Just because there face is pretty dont mean that they are. If you show me something i dont like that fall back game goes into full effect. for example say im in a bar hanging out this girl over there hot as hell, but I know she gots a man. She comes up to me and shes talking mad shit about her man behind his back trying to get at me in the process. Im gonna dip on the girl. Cuz to me thats foul and shady. I dont fuck with folks like that. You see what i mean. So i am looking for a special someone to sleep with right now but if the one happens to come into my life in the process well Im not going let them just walk out of my life. I believe that we dont get to choose when that person comes into your life and well if the universe brings us together than im going for it. I dont think you get second chances like that. Dont mean i expect everyone i sleep with to be the one but I do expect them to be special. This aint the community dick free rides for everyone. you feel me. Im not real good at writing so I hope this clears up the confusion for you. Thanks again. I enjoyed your profile though. But I aint got those types of creative writing skills.

BiggLala 49F  
30139 posts
8/7/2021 3:36 pm

I don't know. Your short, yet confusing profile could be the issue. 🤷🏽‍♀️

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PlayitKool81 replies on 8/7/2021 9:12 pm:
what is confusing about it? I can see the short part. I mean ive tried answering all the questions filling out the profile. If you got any suggestions i would definately appreciate it.

seems6666 51F
4754 posts
8/7/2021 8:45 am

You've only been on here 3 weeks.... some ppl have been here months/years and never meet anyone
and as brownie said, not all are here to meet

Brownie202 64F  
2592 posts
8/7/2021 6:53 am

Not everyone is here to meet. Of those that do they have preferences. It might not be you.

Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth.

If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.

12914 posts
8/7/2021 2:17 am

Just another shitty single site!!

That should be their new slogan


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