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what's up with single guys?  

Playmates4u51 73M/71F
31 posts
10/7/2012 8:12 am
what's up with single guys?

why is it that all the single guys want to get with someone but,they never seem to be able to host?
are they really single? just a thought.

Travel_Couple69 57M
1604 posts
10/7/2012 11:23 am

Well dont know for sure, but a lot of "bi" guys seem to get cold feet anyways..for us the red flags are: standard membership ( doesnt want the wife to see it on the visa stmnt), only online late at night, can only meet during the day, overly secretive about work, interests, etc.

For us tho, we prefer to host, tho not in our house, as we prefer "home court" advantage..not to be overly paranoid, but we know there are no hidden cameras when we host.

Playmates4u51 73M/71F
3 posts
10/7/2012 11:44 am

you are very correct in what you say but,all they have to say is they are single but share a place with would make it much easier for all to understand then. thnx for your comment.

AlvinBooth 69M
5468 posts
10/7/2012 12:10 pm

I prefer hosting. Just give me time to pick the place up. LOL I'm on home turf and can be more relaxed.


No Bozos

DallasRascel 62M
16 posts
3/7/2013 7:05 am

Beatrice is correct...In my case I am divorced (almost all that's left is signing the papers) but my 28 yr old daughter, her newborn daughter and her piece of shit boyfriend lives with me in a 2 br apartment.... I can just see it now ...the looks on their faces as I walk through the living room to my bedroom with a cpl trailing then having the cd player so loud as to hide the noises that three can make....yep just a fun time....lmao

As for me, I would rather get a hotel room, closer to me or to my playmate(s), unless they wish to host....

The other point is that I have been on this site for many years, as a paid and free member...I have met many cpls and singles, have had great times and bad times...Some have been what they said in their profiles and some not....

There are many, what we would call fakes on here, and since most of the members on this site are men, single men get the worst ...
Some are here for the thrill of the chase, and when you say you will meet ...they won, so they cut off conversation...others are here just to see if the can connect with someone, t see if they've still got it...some are unhappy at home and are afraid to leave and want to see if they could find someone if they left their spouse(mostly women in this case and mostly over 40) not saying that women over 40 aren't beautiful or there's something wrong with them...Look I'm 50+ so if a 40yr old woman wanted me it would be like a 20yr old to someone in their 40's.... lol
I'm just saying many people use this same site for different reasons than others....I'm here to meet ppl and have a great time pleasing ppl and being pleased....

Oldyogi2022 59M  
25 posts
3/23/2013 12:14 pm

Maybe you're talking to the wrong single guy .

upforthat2012 63M
119 posts
3/26/2013 7:21 am

To allay any fears I offer to give my partner(s) my home phone no. That sorts things out very quickly.

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