PADDING!!!!!!!!
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Posted:Feb 27, 2017 11:50 am
Last Updated:Mar 23, 2017 7:26 am
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Decided to treat myself to some nice new underwear. Amongst other things I ordered this:
But what in the world is going on with the padding! They stuff so much in there that I find it uncomfortable and it just looks all wrong!!
And why would I want to wear a pretty bra for special occasions that'll probably add an entire cup size to find a disappointed look on someone's face when you take it off. Definitely prefer "what you see is what you get" style. No point in letting people think there's more than there actually is.
As much as I would've liked a little bit more in the boob department, I'm not keen on that much padding. A little bit, yes - for the push up effect, but this is ridiculous. 3 sets of underwear now sent back and on the hunt again for something nice. Wish they would put a clear description when you buy online whether they have normal or overload padding. That would make it so much easier to get the right one.
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Saving myself
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Posted:Feb 17, 2017 3:11 am
Last Updated:Feb 27, 2017 12:09 pm
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Sometimes I don't have have sex for a while - this goes for fingers, toys, or another person. Just a couple of days or so. This makes it even more intense when I go for it again.
That was my plan anyway. Well, that didn't quite work out. What else could I do with a few free hours this Friday morning and my toys seemed to be calling out to me. Couldn't help myself. Abstinence starts now!! No more, at least until Sunday evening. Think I can make it?
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What are the odds
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Posted:Feb 16, 2017 1:35 pm
Last Updated:Jun 17, 2017 1:23 am
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Chatting away with someone and we seem to really hit it off. Same kinky mind and all. And then to find out he lives less than 100 feet away from me! What are the odds!! Roll on Sunday, can't wait to meet this lovely guy for real.
Trying to not get ahead of myself here, but kind of picture me sneaking down the street this summer in my underwear and heels as fast as I can (which isn't that fast on those heels). Obviously wearing a long coat - not putting on a show for all my neighbours 
Good times ahead hopefully!
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PS picture below is not me - just thought it would go nicely with this post.
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Magic wand
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Posted:Feb 10, 2017 5:53 pm
Last Updated:Aug 21, 2021 2:55 pm
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Really not so magic all. Had another go tonight, but my fingers do a better job! Never even mind the earlier mentioned rabbit and butt plug, they never fail me.
Tried that wand 3 times now (with thanks to my date who bought it, used it on me and left without it).
seriously not getting it. It's meant to give the best orgasms ever, so I was expecting something slightly more mind blowing. This was nowhere near mind blowing! Considering tossing that thing in the bin.
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Silly crushes
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Posted:Dec 31, 2016 12:39 am
Last Updated:Apr 17, 2020 3:32 am
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You ever found yourself having a bit of a crush on someone you never met? I certainly have. Ever since primary school really.
The first "love of my life" was Morten from A-Ha. Even had my hair cut the same as him.
During most of my teenage years it was Duff McKagan. The bass player of Guns n Roses.
Bon Jovi, ever since he had his hair cut off.
A very recent one, feeling a little bit silly since I should have outgrown these crushes by now, is Sonny Bill Williams - All Blacks rugby player. Especially after he helped a little boy who ran onto the pitch and got full blown tackled by the referee.
One of our fellow TSdates.com members has popped up in more than 1 (day)dream. Someone on another continent unfortunately, so no chance on living these dreams either.
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The Idiot
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Posted:Dec 29, 2016 12:09 am
Last Updated:Apr 11, 2017 2:18 pm
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Met this lovely handsome guy a few times and thought I finally found a friend with benefits who actually lives nearby as well. Turns out he's not. And the main reason for my rant on here a few days ago.
Boxing Day dinner date. Went to the shop in the afternoon to get our food. Sitting here in my heels and stockings waiting for my date to arrive. 40 minutes after he was planning to be here I sent him a message asking if he's still coming.
"My mate's here just now. Trying to get him to leave"
Ok! Great! He's still coming.
An hour and a half later I got in my pyjamas, feeling like the biggest idiot ever. Haven't felt this stupid since my teenage years. Pretty sure him and his mate having a good laugh about me as well.
Haven't heard from him since. No apology, nothing.
I don't put in too much effort in getting ready for dates I have with people I meet on here, since they're not the most reliable kind. The one time I do..... Honestly thought he was one of the good guys. Couldn't have been more wrong.
On one hand I'm thinking I'm not missing out on anything really. Sex-wise I got nothing out of him - very much a taker and not a giver. But figured I could change that by sitting on his face for at least half an hour, that should get the message across. And I actually really liked him as a person, never even mind sex.
Is it really worthwhile being on here, getting embarrassed like this? About to give up my search for my friend(s) with benefits and just use them for sex.
Saying that now, but it's not in my nature to use people. So carefully keeping an eye out for my friends with benefits still.
Anyway, that's the last about him. Not ever want to see him or hear from him, but won't forget how he's made me feel.
This is not pointing fingers at all the men on here by the way. I know women can be just as horrible.
I shall now go for my shower, shave and get the sexy pants on, since I have a lunch date. Because that's what you do apparently - when you fall off your .....
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We don't need your money money money - or do we?
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Posted:Dec 27, 2016 1:12 pm
Last Updated:Nov 14, 2019 6:36 am
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Pretty low at the moment and hit the booze. So there's where this blog's coming from. Probably regret it in the morning, but won't take it off. It is part of adult dating for me, so might just as well let people know what it can feel like.
Quite a few times it's happened that I was offered money to meet someone. First thoughts are "you got the wrong website pal, fuck the hell off".
After being let down a few times now by people I didn't expect it from and a last minute meet tonight that ended up in a quickie, since he had to run home to his partner, I'm feeling pretty worthless.
Starting to wonder - I might just as well take their fucking money, since they're making me feel like shit anyways and at least I'd get something out of it.
This paragraph is addressed to certain people only, who think they know it all without actually reading what this is about (if you reply I'll fucking block you btw): Don't even think about giving me your "good" advice or telling me how it should be done, because you don't know me, or the people I'm talking about, or how to fix this.
And no, I'm not coming off online dating. I'll feel better in a day or 2. And the good times still very much make up for the bad ones. This is just a small part of it that sometimes rears its ugly head and I'll get over it.
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Dear Santa
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Posted:Dec 23, 2016 1:07 am
Last Updated:Dec 29, 2016 3:40 am
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Ever since I was about 9, I have never asked for anything. Except for my family's health and happiness, which isn't really something you provide.
This year, however, there is one thing that would make me very very happy.
My car is leaking oil, fuel and cooling fluid. The ABS pump is fucked and the entire thing is about to fall to pieces really. Please note, I'm not asking this for my own benefit (entirely). If it was just for me I would never dare to ask.
I'm not a selfish person. Always kind and helpful. Except maybe when I'm an evil hormonal sadistic demon spawned bitch, who will make you wish you were never born. But this doesn't happen very often. Honestly... Just once or twice a year at most. And I always give people a heads up to stay clear. So they can't say they haven't been warned if they get in my way.
Haven't told a lie since primary school and put people close to me always before myself (if I'm not in demon spawned bitch state, but they forgive me for that, so I'm sure you can as well).
Taking all this into consideration, I'm sure you will find I'm worthy a Christmas pressy - I certainly do.
It doesn't have to be a big fancy car. Just a small fiat or peugeot will do me just fine.
Many thanks in advance and have a very merry Christmas.
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The Author (ish)
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Posted:Dec 2, 2016 6:54 am
Last Updated:Dec 31, 2016 12:52 am
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Little bit about me – 40 something female enjoying life to the full. Actually quite a shy person, unlike what you might think when you’re reading this. Love my family, my friends, my home, my job and just very content with everything at the moment. This wasn’t always the case, but we all have our skeletons and mine are better off staying in the cupboard with the door locked.
For the last year and a half I have been taking part in the weird and wonderful world of online dating. It has been quite an adventure. And I am looking forward to what’s still to come. I met some extraordinary people, some of whom have become close friends. Been in touch with some really interesting folk from all over the world. And, you can’t really escape them anywhere I guess, the occasional nutcase.
This is the start of my book.....
Since I started blogging I found to my surprise I actually really enjoy writing these random bits and pieces and a few months ago decided to start writing a book. The front cover turned out pretty damn good (see below), even if I do say so myself - and I'm not usually someone who admires their own pictures.
Writers block on page 14 
Haven't put a single word down for about a month.
Think I'll stick to blogging.
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The Downright Sad
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Posted:Dec 2, 2016 6:31 am
Last Updated:Dec 9, 2016 4:13 pm
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Some people appear to be little bit clueless when it comes to adult dating….. Yes I’m on a sex dating site, but there’s a bit more to it than meeting every single moron who is looking for a shag. Despite it being a site for hook ups, I love the social aspect. I need to find the person attractive. I want to chat online and if we meet up have a few drinks first. See how we get along, before anything else happens. A small handful of people don’t quite get this. It really is a very small handful thankfully. Wouldn’t be on these sites if this was the norm.
“Wanna fuck?”
“Thanks for the offer, but will have to give it a miss”
“Why not?”
“You’re not my type and the wanna fuck opener doesn’t really do it for me”
“Well that’s a bit rich coming from someone looking for a fuck on a fucking website”
“You asked and I told you. Now go bug someone else”
Needless to say, this was the first and last time I replied to the “wanna fuck” message. And yes, they do come in quite frequently.
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The Bad
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Posted:Dec 2, 2016 6:29 am
Last Updated:Dec 9, 2016 4:38 pm
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Some first messages that did put a smile on my face, but for the wrong reasons.
- My dad thinks you’d be good for me
- You remind me of my alarm clock. I would tap the shit out of that every morning.
- You know why they call me the cat whisperer? Because I know exactly what that pussy needs.
- Let’s play barbie. I’ll be Ken and you can be the box I cum in.
- You like jigsaw puzzles? Let’s go to my room and put our pieces together.
- Can I come and sniff you senseless?
- You’re like my little toe. I would bang you on every piece of furniture I have.
More coming soon
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Threesome
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Posted:Dec 2, 2016 12:44 am
Last Updated:Jun 9, 2017 6:44 am
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Names changed for obvious reasons.
Something that had been on my bucket list for a while, but never dared - MMF 3sum. Now I’ve been back in the running again for a while and so ready for it! So added a meet request on the dating site.
“Looking for 2 handsome men to help me score MMF off my bucket list”
Chatted to a few people, but couldn’t find the right guys for me. Until someone got in touch that him and a friend would like to meet. Great pictures, great chat (with both) and we set a date! Both of these lovely men made it quite clear I was in charge. If I decided on the night I wasn’t comfortable with it, they wouldn’t hold it against me at all.
The next week I got in my crappy old car and set off on my cheeky adventure. When I arrived I was met by Dean. Tall, welcoming and such a genuine guy. Put my nerves at ease in no time.
About half an hour later there’s a tap on the door, heart started racing again…. In walks Steve. He’s one of those people you notice as soon as he walks into any room, no matter how crowded. Confident, funny and incredibly handsome. After the initial, little bit awkward, introductions we had a great time. Chatting, drinking, listening to music.
It was Dean who suggested we move into the bedroom, think he was little bit worried we’d end up getting completely pished before anything happened Yeah, ok, let’s do this! With slightly trembling hands trying to get my clothes off. Steve stopped me and took over, gently kissing me.
Before I knew it I was on my back with 2 hot guys kissing me, touching me, I started to get a little bit dizzy. Probably a combination of excitement and rum. I wanted both of them so so bad! When Steve stood next to the bed I couldn’t wait to taste his perfect cock. Dean behind with 2 fingers inside me. Now where I thought my squirting was a bit extreme before, it was nothing compared to that night!! He definitely knows how to press the right buttons. Both of them do. Even after they stopped (briefly) I was still gushing.
I’m not sure who went where after that, it was just immense to have these men take me in every which way. One of the things I’d said while we chatted online was that I wanted to try dp. I am really quite new to anal, so wasn’t sure if it’d work out. Well, it did. And the feeling of being filled up like that was just unreal. Been trying to come up with the right words to describe it, but don’t think I can. All I know is I want it again. And soon!!!
Steve had to leave at some point during the night unfortunately. I wish we could have gone on for another day or so. Dean and I still had a good couple of hours left for more kinky fun.
Glad I held off with that 3sum until I met these amazing men. It was even better than I hoped it would be and doubt that would've been the case if I'd gone for other people. Hopefully one day get to do it all over again.
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High to low
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Posted:Nov 29, 2016 12:22 pm
Last Updated:Feb 13, 2017 1:50 pm
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The adult dating sites have been incredibly good to me. It's strange though, how it can make you feel so confident and then all of the sudden knock you right down on your arse.
Testimonials I find oh so important. It's that bit of security you get that someone is real and decent. However, it can also knock your confidence in a massive way.
So here's what got me yesterday.....
Someone I'd been meeting up with a few times, kind of started seeing him as my friend with benefits, had a hot date. I don't mind at all, I don't expect exclusivity and I'm not a jealous person. However, couldn't help myself having a look on her profile when I saw he'd met her. Just a healthy curiosity nothing more. And then found this:
"Met this gorgeous looking sexy woman last week - and OMG has to be the best meet so far .. words fail me. - I now know why I came back!! Tall sassy blonde, body to die for - definitely a model  - and boy was I VERY lucky that night (and the next morning ). I "had" her in every way imagineable, all night and all so very very wet & hot! - Perfect tasting P*s!y, could have licked and caressed it all night long and as for her perfect toned ass, I do not think I have had it that "tight" for a while - beautiful - If Carling invented Women, then K is the blueprint that he followed. See you when I return gorgeous"
Now to say that someone is the best meet ever and the reason you're on the site is quite risky. Odds are people you met before, and had a good time with, will not see you again, because someone's seriously outranked them there - which is what my first thoughts were.
In my opinion testimonials should confirm people are real, attractive, genuine, fun, sexy, etc. It's not about going into details of what you were up to.
Because we are quite close I think - for online dating standards anyway, and made plans to meet again in a few weeks time, I thought I'd let him know that if these young, tight girls are what he's online for he's got no business with me and we'll just forget about the whole thing. Not being angry or nasty and wishing him all the best.
Sleepless night over this one though. Just feeling quite degraded and old. And worried how I must have come across sending him a message about it. Even though it was never a telling off, I figured he'd pick it up that way and think I'm a jealous greedy bitch (which I'm really, really not - I'm very good at sharing).
I know deep down I'm no less than the , but this made me doubt for a while there.
Even though my pride at the moment says "no fucking way", our date's still on. We cleared the air. He even admitted he was thinking with his dick when he put that testimonial on. And that night was no better than the times he was with me (and I'm fully aware that is his dick talking again, but hey ho, that's what we're on here for).
Update - Pride definitely got the upper hand to seeing him grovel. Should've been this way from the start, but just took me a few days to realise. Postponed our date to some time in the new year. But it's all gotten a bit awkward now and a lot of the fun gone for me.
Am I being over dramatic? Don't think so. I definitely won't be made to look lesser than anyone else on here, but that's exactly what he's done.
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