How many is too many?  

SophieNew98 23F
327 posts
1/3/2020 2:03 pm
How many is too many?

So a friend made a casual passing remark that I was a slut. It was not meant to be a hurtful comment but it did get me thinking. I’m still young and enjoy the fun and attention of being with different guys but how many do you think?

LimerickJohn 67M
1047 posts
1/3/2020 2:10 pm

I love it.

There is no such thing.

There is a woman who has worked hard at discovering her sexual appetite and now appreciates it. I wish there were lots more out there. You are welcome in my company anytime. ☘

dspskall 20M  
20 posts
1/3/2020 2:15 pm

Thats a number only you can choose, you do you other people cannot make proper informed discisions about such a personal aspect of your life

undercover_bi469 57M

1/3/2020 2:20 pm

Get as much as you can while you can. You are only young once. All my regrets in life are things I haven't done when I could have, nothing that I did.

69ereatwetpussy 59M
6196 posts
1/3/2020 2:28 pm

As many you want it your life.

ColtonKC 35M

1/3/2020 2:34 pm

Just get checked often!

samuel31919 30M
12 posts
1/3/2020 2:35 pm

There's no limit in my opinion.

SophieNew98 23F
76 posts
1/3/2020 2:35 pm

    Quoting  :

So k owing the number of guys I’ve been with wouldn’t be a turn off?

LimerickJohn 67M
1047 posts
1/3/2020 2:55 pm

    Quoting  :

Sophie knowing the number wouldn't bother me. ☘

SophieNew98 23F
76 posts
1/3/2020 2:55 pm

    Quoting  :

So k owing the number of guys I’ve been with wouldn’t be a turn off?group_id=764609

1hardcock00 58M
31 posts
1/3/2020 2:55 pm

More pussy the better

mayzz 66M
525 posts
1/3/2020 3:00 pm

That number is for you to know and to share if you choose to.... Most men will not care about how many men you were with prior. Enjoy yourself and play safe.... and you will be happy. A Slut is not a negative thing. All it means is that you enjoy having sex .

SophieNew98 23F
76 posts
1/3/2020 3:00 pm

    Quoting  :

I’m not sure what you’re asking

SophieNew98 23F
76 posts
1/3/2020 3:05 pm

    Quoting mayzz:
    That number is for you to know and to share if you choose to.... Most men will not care about how many men you were with prior. Enjoy yourself and play safe.... and you will be happy. A Slut is not a negative thing. All it means is that you enjoy having sex .
Thanks I am having fun and happy so far 😊

SarahLem80 41F
128 posts
1/3/2020 3:10 pm

I wish I’d done what I’m doing now when I was younger! Enjoy!

scorp6926 59M
87 posts
1/3/2020 3:10 pm

depends on some things. how it affects you and the people you give a shit about. Is it hurting you or your relationships. Will it affect your future. Myself, I am kind of wondering why your asking, if you were cool with "it" then...
If you were a guy would you be asking?
health wise, wouldn't it be better, safer to have a couple regular dudes to fuck?,
Anyway....good luck and have fun, lifes tooo fucking short!

AlexCFL 49M
7 posts
1/3/2020 3:11 pm

Happy friday

SingleItalianGy2 49M  
1196 posts
1/3/2020 3:16 pm

Lol.... If a guy brags about how many ladies he has fucked he is considered to be either a liar or stud. If woman brags about how many men she's fucked she is considered to be either or SLUT or a PROSTITUTE. For those of us who love fucking we will never win and almost certainly branded or stigmatized in some type of negative light. Personally I say " Fuck You" to those who want to try and label me "Male Slut, Player, Perve, etc" fact of the matter is I am all those things and many many more. For the longest time I thought I was a "Sex Addict" when in reality the simplest way of describing me is..."Pleasure Addict"

**** Next time someone makes a casual remark grab there hand and pull them close to you and whisper in there ear. I've fotgotten about more Pussy/Women then most men will ever have ( then step back and observe the reaction. Respond accordingly to said reaction.

flirtyv34d 46F
35 posts
1/3/2020 3:36 pm

keep sucking and fucking hun lifes too short

14852 posts
1/3/2020 3:38 pm

Hey, Sophie.

*Have A Slutful Weekend*


tresennui 67F  
2482 posts
1/3/2020 4:04 pm

You are still young, but after many years of being single...As I blogged some years ago...
Triple Digits

Succumbing to me at tresennui

licknsuck1234 64M
104 posts
1/3/2020 4:40 pm

Tell me about each and every cock you have had fuck you, all while I lick and suck your cum filled pussy......

MaturemaleOnt 66M
7 posts
1/3/2020 4:49 pm

Some women think being called a slut is a compliment. I don't care how many she has fucked. I prefer women with experience as I have an imagination. lol>>!

AmorDivino202 58M
50 posts
1/3/2020 4:51 pm


ProfessorNaught 108M
1395 posts
1/3/2020 5:14 pm

    Quoting SophieNew98:
    So k owing the number of guys I’ve been with wouldn’t be a turn off?
Yes, it will be to the right guy.
But what's the right type of guy? ... for you.

only you can answer but you should see my other comments.

ProfessorNaught 108M
1395 posts
1/3/2020 5:51 pm

This is a question that should never be asked or answered - by and between partners.

Up until now, you've accomplished nothing but the skills to learn (on your own). Not even your brain will be fully developed for another five or six years.

You have nothing, accomplished no great intellectual achievements and basically have nothing to lean on or claim of expertise. (well for most at 21)

A hard truth but something to recognize as you tell yourself, "I can have/do anything I want"
and then making the effort to reach those goals.

My point is, it will not always be that way. You'll grow, mature, educate and reeducate while discovering new interest and deeper desires/passions (not sexual) for life, career, family and other fun stuff.

However, with nothing gained and to loose your aversion to risk (and consideration thereof) really doesn't exist. Yet sex with endless numbers of partners is the biggest risk you take as this can lead to death or worst living with an std and not capable of having the sex you enjoy now. And random partners are never randomly honest or even knowledgeable when they themselves engage with endless numbers of random partners.

Back to "it will not always be that way". The only thing you need to think about is who do "You Want to Be?" in ten years. The mature Sophie is who I'm talking about. How will endless partners play out in your head in five, ten and twenty years and how will that affect your relationship when you want to settle into the life you're creating now?

Otherwise, ignore all those that cheer for the slut. They simply envision bedding you with nothing more than burn and churn techniques that get them off ( damn the woman's needs ).

And, you and your friend may be confusing the term slut with a more articulate explanation of what you enjoy. I'm willing to bet you're not too sure about what that really is. But don't latch onto the term slut because everyone who likes/engages in sex could be equally labeled the same way - especially men and then most men here.

Cum_Happy 108M
2810 posts
1/3/2020 8:01 pm

Enough is enough!

I guess the real question is, how much is enough and how much is too much for you?

Some of us never seem to have enough, no matter how much we get. And some, never seem to get enough, even when we have had too much.

When our lifestyle negatively affects our home, our family, our health and well being, then it is too much. And by then, sadly, it is usually too late.

There are more sexually transmitted diseases today than there are partners, and many of them are incurable.

If you've had a good time, and you still have your health and your sanity, maybe you should consider settling down some.
There is nothing wrong with having been a slut, but there is nothing worse than a has been old slut.

Do what most professional fighters, race car drivers, football players don't usually seem to have the good sense to do. Get out while you are young, while you are ahead.


Anything done half-heartedly will net you an equivalent result. ~CH

SophieNew98 23F
76 posts
1/5/2020 3:41 am

    Quoting  :

I need more guys like you in my life 😉

SophieNew98 23F
76 posts
1/5/2020 3:41 am

    Quoting flirtyv34d:
    keep sucking and fucking hun lifes too short
I’m having a very good go at it so far 🤪

SophieNew98 23F
76 posts
1/5/2020 3:42 am

    Quoting PAWAPh:
    Hey, Sophie.

    *Have A Slutful Weekend*

I have thank you 😊

SophieNew98 23F
76 posts
1/5/2020 3:44 am

    Quoting tresennui:
    You are still young, but after many years of being single...As I blogged some years ago...
    Triple Digits
It is amazing how quickly the numbers add up yes! 😮

SophieNew98 23F
76 posts
1/5/2020 3:56 am

    Quoting  :

I’m not sure I should answer that publicly!!

aFuckedupfilthyM 36M  
5 posts
1/5/2020 5:12 am

Really wouldn't bother me no matter how many, it fun to experiment and figure out what you like, as long as you're having a good time where is the problem? up for chatting with you if you want to add another one into the mix!

undercover_bi469 57M

1/5/2020 9:34 am

I would love to have a GF like you. She could have all the guys she wanted, as long as I am there to lick her clean afterwards.

SxyLatinJazz_4u 48M
152 posts
1/6/2020 10:46 am

Sophie, the older you get the easier it is to read people. You'll find some who don't care about the number, some who do, and some who find it kinky you've had so much experience.

If you want a steady in your life, you'll have to share more how you view sex. One woman I met said, she views sex almost like a hug. She doesn't have to be in love to enjoy their company, just if they were fun.

She said what surprised her was how many men rejected her advances. She eventually understood that many guys don't have the confidence or do not believe it's that easy so they thought she was kidding. So, it's really up to you if you want to share how many. Just treat yourself well, be safe, be healthy.

Let's just say she and I had our fun, until she took a break from the lifestyle to have and raise kids.

Johnyeverha00 34M
1 post
1/6/2020 2:48 pm

The answer will always be “not enough “

IVFalternative 50M
630 posts
1/6/2020 9:30 pm

If anyone asks me how many women I've been with I tell them the truth: I haven't counted.

Anyone who asks your number is probably not the right guy for you.

Following my advice may cause injury, insanity, financial loss, hemorrhoids, death and superpowers

Freeguy611 60M
44 posts
1/7/2020 7:21 pm

Doesn't matter what people think its about what you think about yourself . If your ok with the number of guys or girls you've been worth than fuck what everyone else says

NeedFun484 40M

1/7/2020 7:27 pm

As long as your safe tested regularly it wouldn't bother me. Do whatever makes you happy enjoy life while you can, but be smart about it....Not a turn off at all.

LakeRidgeBBWSeek 61M
3847 posts
1/7/2020 8:12 pm

My FWB often refers to herself as a slut, and she definitely thinks it is a bad term. Now her daughters, at least three of the four, all have had & continue to have multiple partners, and her three adult grand-daughters, OMG, they swear they have had any guy in pants within 50 miles ! BUT, she NEVER calls them sluts! She on the other hand, acknowledges a grand total of less than 10 in her entire 60 years of life! I exceeded that as a guy before I was FIFTH-TEEN ! SO yeah, as a guy I must be a slut, or a man-whore, as a few gals of my past have called me! And ya know, I have no regrets on that whatsoever! As to YOU, so you ENJOY sex, and with multiple partners too!! ENJOY !!!
The only thing that could came close to making that bad is if you accepted payment for it, and went around bragging about it! And even that is subject to opinion !

poohbare69 46M  
23 posts
1/7/2020 9:18 pm

never to many honey!!!!!!!!!!! xoooxxxooo...\8

purpleman2986 47M  
133 posts
1/7/2020 10:04 pm

Wow. You are a very sexy hot and beautiful slut! Which makes you even more desirable! Because you know that you like fucking a lot and want more of it... that’s very hot!

badboy3819652 56M
137 posts
1/8/2020 12:00 am

never too many, keep on fucking

Cayene55 37M
27 posts
1/8/2020 6:45 am

There's no such thing, its the other person's problem and not yours

plano_eli 37M
7 posts
1/9/2020 3:00 pm

Nobody says before they die, I wish I had less sex.

Buffsabs84 37M

1/9/2020 9:50 pm

"Too many" is stupidity made up by those who get zero.

HornyOldFucker76 64M
201 posts
1/10/2020 12:33 pm

Fuck as many people as you want and enjoy each and every one. It should only matter to you, and if someone else thinks it's their business and thinks being a slut is a bad thing, that's their problem. Knowing the ever-growing number of your partners wouldn't bother me. If we were married, I'd love to have you as a hotwife.

W3shoodhookup 50M
80 posts
1/11/2020 3:18 am

I see nothing wrong at all with having a high amount of sexual partners! I did it when I was young! Lol don't waste it! Use it baby!

MarriedVC 65M
36 posts
1/11/2020 9:40 am

I will give you a number but it will only be given while we are fucking

UncutChris72 49M
24 posts
1/11/2020 4:20 pm

If you are happy with ypur choices. Well then fuck everbody else.

nomdeplume111 40M
76 posts
1/12/2020 9:38 am

Well, I'm not marrying you so you can have as many men as you want, as far as I'm concerned The world needs more sluts to serve men, I say carry on!

Ironycastle789 39M
8 posts
1/12/2020 5:29 pm

you get em girl!

indio1375 55M
189 posts
1/12/2020 5:41 pm

Hey our bodies r ours an to enjoy sex or pleasure with it or from it is only for us to decide how or with whom . We all love to be seen an it ok

rubysaloongirl 38F
5 posts
1/12/2020 6:41 pm

Never to many. That is not possible. I have been with over 1500 men or women starting at 14 and still going. If that makes me a slut then I'm proud to be one.

whipandspank 51M
4 posts
1/13/2020 1:01 am

Post 4285259 Have as many as you like but don't catch anything doing it.

HornyOldFucker76 64M
201 posts
1/13/2020 12:48 pm

You sound like my kind of woman!

fuegovital 57M
5478 posts
1/13/2020 7:32 pm

People who only want to fuck you will tell you that it doesn't matter how many guys you have been with, because they don't care about you, they just want your body. But there may come a day when you find someone special with whom you would like to share the rest of your life, and perhaps your sexual past is too heavy a burden for that person. Think about it.

Si quieres escribirme, este es mi... Buzn Para que no te dejen sin palabras

Letshavehavfun69 53M
20 posts
1/14/2020 12:26 pm

As long as you enjoy it. The more the nerrier

Fesxcvgbvd 30M
2 posts
1/14/2020 1:41 pm

How many is too many? Hmmm I'll go ahead and set a number that if I were informed of how many you have fucked I think 100 is too many. IF .. you're not in porn but that is just my opinion... Anyways.. fuck and suck away all day every way I'd say don't make em pay to play with you bootay! Okay? Lmfao 😍 you're gorgeous btw

ncjax 57M
50 posts
1/14/2020 2:16 pm

Don't worry about what others think. Enjoy your life now. Someday, you may find the one, but until then, enjoy the many.

bluebean69 52M
140 posts
1/14/2020 2:49 pm

Count me in!!

Gitanicethickone 51M
18 posts
1/14/2020 4:59 pm

Never too many but be safe in sex so you don’t catch something and get some experience in but when you think you find someone worthy of you that makes you happy and feel special then settle down with that special person

Fesxcvgbvd 30M
2 posts
1/14/2020 10:12 pm

fuck until you cant walk

GrahamLind 46M
31 posts
1/15/2020 2:29 am

Only you and time can answer that question.

GrahamLind 46M
31 posts
1/15/2020 2:29 am

Only you and time can answer that question. post 4285259]

deku457 29M
11 posts
1/15/2020 10:07 pm


Hawkfan533333 32M
687 posts
1/16/2020 5:18 am

As long as ur having fun, there is no number.

Feel free to message my private mailbox

biassme 31M

1/17/2020 12:41 am

I guess, as many as it takes until u r over with it. YoLo

DonR401 56M
31 posts
1/17/2020 5:41 am

Its your business and unless somebody is kissing and telling then do as many as you is short

Mjh8787atOutlook 40M
35 posts
1/17/2020 11:31 am

Ya I’d say that’s something you get to decide for yourself. I’ve never had issues with numbers of partners, for me it’s more about if the person was safe about it.

Subby93 28M
28 posts
1/17/2020 1:23 pm

I don’t think their should be a number cap put on this stuff. Just live your life!

AliOrbit 65F
624 posts
1/17/2020 8:26 pm

Enjoy being a slut. You have a high sex drive . You enjoy yourself. Nothing is wrong with that.

1Sexygoodguy11 56M
1892 posts
1/18/2020 5:08 pm

If you are being called a slut, it depends on how you react to it and the situation that you are in. You have to put it into context and understand why you were called one. Was it out of spite or anger? Was it in a joking manner? Was it during a hot and steamy sex session? It is ultimately up to you whether or not you embrace being called one or not and how you react to it.

As far as do I want to know how many guys you have slept with? My answer is, No. Ignorance is bliss as long as you are clean and that you have the freedom of having sex whomever you want.

Stay Sexy My Friend.

Dilf45247 44M

1/19/2020 1:34 am

I found the best sex was with woman
i fell for. I didnt do that till age 44.
I realized i want one woman for sex..

Dilf45247 44M

1/19/2020 1:35 am

its all good

Justaverageone 36M
4 posts
1/19/2020 11:48 am

As long as your having fun that's all it counts

hornyhusband1969 52M
55 posts
1/19/2020 2:13 pm

No, knowing the number of men you've had sex with wouldn't be a turn off.
Women who like sex are the best

BamatopGuy 30M
4 posts
1/19/2020 7:02 pm

number is no issue, Enjoy life and all its pleasures.

BullforWivesMia 36M
9 posts
1/19/2020 9:47 pm

I say have as much fun as you can the world is made for beautiful women to enjoy and take what they can, and just lie to whoever u date

Jhlff 41M  
3 posts
1/19/2020 11:58 pm

Just enjoy yourself and be safe about it.

slaveyearning 39F
45 posts
1/22/2020 8:57 am

I am a confessed slut and I love it. I have been somewhat of a slut since high school. I wish I had been more of a slut when I was younger.
you've been given good safe always and have fun

been told by more than one older person you do not regret the things you did when you were younger nearly as much as the things you missed out on

so fuck and suck them all if you can..........have fun and stay safe and just dont tell how many until you find the one to settle down with.........don't hide it just dont advertise it

Click4U 74M
34 posts
1/22/2020 5:59 pm

Enjoy yourself the way you want to while you can. We don't live forever.

Click4U 74M
34 posts
1/22/2020 6:08 pm

A gal that was one of my best friends was divorced (neither of us were interested in marriage). .
After a while, we became friends with benefits. She revealed to me that since her divorce she has slept with over one hundred men. That didn't hurt our friendship. .
Unfortunately, she had a stroke at age 62 and passed away in a hospital 36 hours later.

Dumbfounded518 39M
16 posts
1/23/2020 12:06 am

Its ok to have a big appetite I guess haha

Pleasure14me87 45M
41 posts
1/23/2020 6:45 pm

All men and women are sluts. It's our nature.

after2night 49M
153 posts
1/24/2020 4:15 pm

I have learned in life that the best products are Finished ones. If a person does not accept the finished version of you (basically when you Are Done, then and Only then You Are Done!!!) Then he is not worth dealing with. I will accept that Whomever I am with, is ready to be with me because the are Finished.

Pleasurecook83 38M

1/25/2020 2:52 am

First off to hell with that friend..... and are you a slut, I doubt it a Nymphomaniac Probably..... There's nothing wrong with that.... hell have fun and stay safe

OttawaMale4545 37M
18 posts
1/25/2020 7:10 am

I don't think it matters anymore (or shouldn't anyway).

CuriousCouple4xx 43M/43F
2 posts
1/25/2020 9:42 pm

Who gives a Fuck it's your life you only live once Do what makes you Happy as long as you play Safe💃

garykaye 57M/57F

1/26/2020 9:29 am

why bother what other people think, Enjoy life

1968justme2 53M  
20 posts
1/27/2020 6:15 pm

wow damn your so hot, wish I was close to you, would enjoy a great time

conspicuous01 43M  
50 posts
1/28/2020 4:06 am

you need to learn how to lose count, just like people do with their age

9deepBy7around 51M  
14 posts
1/29/2020 3:00 am

At one time, like in a gangbang, or one at a time over many years?
The truth is you are only as slutty as you feel, and there is no right answer. Everyone one is different, so do what makes you happy, content, and find your happy place. People that call you a slut, are usually the ones you aren't giving any to. People come and go from our lives constantly, be what you want to be!

SunnyDayToday49 67F
1 post
1/29/2020 4:14 am

As a 71 year old woman I applaud your curiosity as well as your libido. For far too long women were made to feel badly about their sexual desires and needs. Guys could go out and get accolades and pats on the back for nailing that secretary from work or the waitress at the restaurant. Studs, Lothario, Cocksman are all endearing terms applied to men who got laid frequently by various women. When a woman behaves the same she gets a demeaning label like slut or whore. What is wrong with equality among the genders. In my opinion honey, go ahead and try to wear it out (you won’t, god knows I have tried and I have no regrets, just some wonderful memories and a few yucky ones). Carolyn

keif2011 42M
41 posts
1/29/2020 9:18 am

Never to many and nobody has a right to judge.

Johnxtoward1 29M
19 posts
1/29/2020 9:29 am

You are looking very acceptable and responsible I love a girl to watch tv and I suck her pussy and ass and in the end she leave my home happily and tell me we will meet again. Maybe you are that one 🥰🥰

tsn4fun2 45M/43F
259 posts
1/29/2020 5:16 pm

    Quoting SarahLem80:
    I wish I’d done what I’m doing now when I was younger! Enjoy!
That exact comment has been said between myself and my husband several times now. I think we would have had much more fun back in the day. How many is too much for you? That’s all that really matters as long as you stay responsible.

Johnxtoward1 29M
19 posts
1/30/2020 1:05 am

Hi sweetheart

ruddyduck2010 69M
15 posts
1/30/2020 6:09 am

you only live once enjoy each time x

249SAWgunner 31M
9 posts
1/30/2020 9:35 pm

Didn't know there was such a thing

seeusseeu 41M/40F  
27 posts
1/31/2020 12:20 am

if your not committed to any one person, too many is when you start to think its too many.... not when others do..

everyone is different and enjoys different things. too many is exactly when you stop and decide to settle down.... you will know

Bahman1205 51M
160 posts
1/31/2020 9:19 am

theres never enough \8b

sexytxbabe 56F  
4 posts
1/31/2020 4:38 pm

Enjoy your sexuality! Be sure to protect yourself in all ways.

James69Valentine 42M  
148 posts
1/31/2020 6:09 pm

I wanna be there when you gonna get new record 👅💦💦

James Valentine

Lovethepussy7778 36M
57 posts
2/1/2020 1:04 pm

Enjoy it we all love a good slut

tdw720 61M  
34 posts
2/1/2020 2:32 pm

Please put me in your count total, Numbers do not bother me in the least so long as we are both having hot fun at the time

306krusty 53M  
115 posts
2/1/2020 7:22 pm

it doesn't matter what others think of you but what you think of yourself

soccerpro98rmu 50M
2 posts
2/1/2020 7:57 pm

When I met my wife, I was looking for a slut first, then a relationship. When she turned 30, she did have a reflexive moment asking if she had been too much of a slut to find true love. I ensured her that I loved the slutty version of her too and made her promise to be a hotwife in marriage. We have continued to have our fun and she is still a very proud and sexy slut, even 19 years later. Never change who your true self is for another person because you will eventually end up frustrated and longing to be true to yourself.

licknsuck1234 64M
104 posts
3/29/2020 1:45 pm

I met this woman, within minutes she told me she has this hangup, one that just wont go away......I had a look of confusion, and asked her what that hangup was....she told me she is addicted to suck cock and was a cum addict......I laughed and said well why didn't you tell me that sooner.....I unbuckled my pants, and she slid to her knees and finished lower my pants and underwear, she them proceeded to give me a superb vacuum inspired blowjob, she showed me my load on her tongue and in her mouth before she swallowed, she then told me I was the 83rd cock she had sucked. She saw me again about a week later, I was walking down the street when this car pulled up, it was her, she said.....hey you I could sure use a nice cock right I jumped in we went to her place, we got naked, I played with her big tits for a bit, then asked if she had any out her vibes and dildos, so played with her for awhile, licked her pussy.....she then told me she was still a virgin, never been I was her #1 fuck.....I brought a couple friends over to her place where she had us come into a separate room where she sucked each of us, while the rest drank beer in the kitchen.....when it was my turn, she said you are fucking I did.....

Bu22er20 29M
40 posts
4/13/2020 6:34 am

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