New here but not impressed. Offering a lot on here is wasted on fake accounts, games or unnoticed  

TallHandsomeM4U2 44M  
13 posts
10/8/2021 2:30 am
New here but not impressed. Offering a lot on here is wasted on fake accounts, games or unnoticed


Well I thought I would try a different type of dating site. Bad mistake. Most of this site when it comes anyone my type is fake or other.

It's my birthday today but coming is frustrating and depressing. I'm at a crossroads in my life and ready start a new adventure but there are no roads here visible!

I am way taller than average, athletic, accomplished, educated, eclectic and never had a hard time meeting women in the past...but after a long relationship and CHOOSING be single for 1.5 years, I thought I'd try because possibly sex would also be something a wonderful lady might also value part of something real.

I was open minded as what I could find . I am not really a swinger, but I'm open fun until I find Mrs. Right. But I have standards. I'm not looking for people my age or less that look like they've been smoking cigarettes and drinking since birth, or eating at Burger King every day. There are people who look great younger and older than I am...but everyone here who I've found attractive is either a fake profile or overloaded with replies.

So far here's my experience....
a) pretty women who are cam girls looking for money
b) pretty women who are fishing for your contact information for spam
c) pretty women accounts who are actually men or an unattractive woman
d) women who are much older or don't take care of themselves
e) women who are unattractive or a body type I'm not interested in
f) women who just want talk about nothing 2 replies a day, going nowhere
g) women who are overwhelmed with guys and there's no way get them

Couples I'm open until I find my Mrs. Right, just for fun but with that, 's what I've experienced
a) a husband pretending be the wife, getting off and disappearing
b) couples who are overloaded with attention and don't notice
c) couples who are way too far away
d) couples who want make the sacrifices, no shared effort
e) couples who are creepy or unnatractive
f) couples who are not safe be with in my opinion
g) couples who just like talk with no intent

I thought I coudl find a woman who also valued sex top of the rest of the things we look for in a real relationship. I give that about a 1% chance on this site. So I think this 2-3 month experiment will be it for me .

Plus I've looked at so many gross pictures that it's almost turning off of sex altogether...and the sexy ones are fake or a waste of time.

Prove me wrong please!

Otherwise peace out!

HAMONMAN 62M
12913 posts
10/8/2021 3:51 am

hopefully you signed for the shortest period possible.

also be aware of unwanted renewals by this site on your credit card - regardless of what your auto-renewal settings might be - it just happened to a friend of mine here


Humanity peaked during the 20th century.
We can't even make a decent starter solenoid any longer.


Brownie202 64F  
2593 posts
10/8/2021 4:37 am

Like online will be different. Offline there is no fakes? Everyone is honest? Everyone is your type? Why do people think online is different I don't know.

Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth.

If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.


author51 58F  
126353 posts
10/8/2021 4:51 am

Welcome to Blog Land. You came to the right place for meeting genuine, honest and real people in blogs, for the most part. Unfortunately this site is rift with fakes, flakes and scammers, yet one can find that diamond in the rough and especially in blogs over just in profiles. This site can be what one makes it. I hope you find that rare gem you are looking for..


ltrskr 73M  
5067 posts
10/8/2021 4:56 am

It's a struggle to meet real people on here!


author51 58F  
126353 posts
10/8/2021 5:03 am

Happy Birthday to you..


TallHandsomeM4U2 replies on 10/10/2021 11:15 pm:
Thank you for the kind wishes. I hope I can find that gem. I will start blogging more xx

Granny872 69F  
4038 posts
10/8/2021 6:23 am

I'm not open to couples (never have been, never will be) but everything you criticize women about on this site is also true for a LOT of the men on this site.

I'm not every man's cup of tea, but my biggest pet peeve is that there have been a lot of guys who will make a date, or make noises about wanting a date, and they don't man up. Ghosting, last minute cancellations, etc etc.

It's a craps shoot, for sure.


TallHandsomeM4U2 replies on 10/10/2021 11:22 pm:
that's too bad. a lot of guys probably lie on here and then when theyre about to meet, chicken out because they'll be embarassed. sorry to hear that

positively4you 72F  
4521 posts
10/8/2021 2:01 pm

You look like you would have no problem attracting women in real life. You have the look and if you have charisma to match, I wonder why you are here. The women in your faves, most look like fake instsagram pics and may be stolen pics.


TallHandsomeM4U2 replies on 10/10/2021 11:21 pm:
because I want to find a woman who is sexually compatible as well. I wastned a lot of time on a girl who was amazing, but sexually it was tough and over time it tore us apart as well as a couple other things...so I want to meet someone we can be open about everything up front. I thought this would be the perfect site for it.

jajo696 66F
4040 posts
10/8/2021 3:30 pm

oh yeah.....and Happy Birthday🎉🎂


TallHandsomeM4U2 44M  
7 posts
10/10/2021 11:49 pm

I wrote many of you back on a bad browser I guess.. I dont see them showing up here. frustrating


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