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Some couple are RABID! Don't take your frustration with others out on me! Inaccurate profiles etc  

TallHandsomeM4U2 46M  
17 posts
11/13/2021 2:18 pm
Some couple are RABID! Don't take your frustration with others out on me! Inaccurate profiles etc

So I had a couple go from 0 hero in 0.9. I did was search for a couple in my range that is looking for a male join them. They looked classy and friendly and sounded fun.

Their profile interest settings include "searching for couples, single males, single females." In their text they mentioned they'd like find a couple. They didn't mention singles, but also didn't say they WEREN'T looking for singles. That being said, they have a couple single males as friends so it stands reason they're probably at least open being friends.

So I wrote, complimented their page and pics and gave a brief intro and asked them at the end if they were looking for a single person. I told them that their settings said they were, but it didn't say either way in the text. If not, no worries and I wished them luck.

It turns out looking classy turned out to be assy, and not in a good way. They wrote back saying YOU'RE BLOCKED. You don't respect a couples wishes when they make a profile.

I'm like "WHAT THE FUCK?" I literally was more respectful than 99% of the guys who probably wrote them...I was trying to figure out their wishes....and its THEIR FAULT they don't even check their settings for what their interests are. And it's not unreasonable to just politely inquire if you have a couple single males in your short friends list displayed.

And to be honest there are tons of couples who don't have men listed, but say in their text that on occasion they do like to add a man (or something different from their interest settings). They just don't want a flood of replies from the type of person they rarely include...or get flooded by. I get it!

I could care less if they hadn't been interested in me specifically...big whoop. But that they'd come back with this douchery is ugly and makes nice people not want to write the very least when its a hard to decipher profile.

Please people of all types, check over your profiles so you don't confuse people (men women and other). And recognize when someone is approaching you wish atypical sincerity and consideration.

This couple is probably rightfully pissed they probably have an<b> inbox </font></b>consistently flooded with an explicit sausage fest thirsty fest...but that's not my fault. My guess is they are just seeing single male and copy pasting all the way down to everyone.

So, it's NOT always the guys here folks! Others can be jerks too. And for god's sake, I just wanted the chance to write them once more to let them know their settings might be wrong, and to change it so they don't get all the unwanted attention from single men and women.

Thankfully I don't have an issue with self esteem or lack of people to talk to and see if we might click (haven't found anyone yet a few weeks in, or gone far enough to know), but what about the poor guy or girl who may be single and hurt from a recent breakup and just looking for fun right now and to try something new and smile, and someone comes back at them like this?

Prejudice isn't just ugly racially, it's ugly in cases like this too.

Just as well I dodged a bullet with them. They're obviously very inconsiderate...or even if they're not...they've got too much baggage from past disrespectful people writing them.

It might not even be your fault people...just double check your cupid settings and interest settings people. It will save you from getting most of the unwanted messages from people who don't match your needs.

That being said, I hope everyone is getting past the fake accounts, spam and bots, dreamers and those who lead you on in a just for their masturbation fun and ghost....and find real fun with great people!


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