I have a question  

Tennbroad 68F  
662 posts
2/5/2020 10:44 am

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2/7/2020 4:49 pm

I have a question


Hello fellow lovers of every thing sexual. I was wondering if you could help a sister out on something. This is for the men and the ladies. When you set up a meeting do you take safety precautions? Like meet in a public place like a park or a coffee shop. I have a friend that for what ever reason decided meet the gentleman at her home. Well it did not turn out good no one was hurt but it could have turned out badly. I have had men come my home after talking them several times but it's always a day time meeting. I have nosey neighbors and if anything looks funny they will call the police. But what do you thin I still get the feelings when I talk men online. I know this is a sex site and you would think men or ladies would like know something about you before you embark on a sexual journey. I carry my own condoms, lube anything for my safety. If the man refuses use the condom then games over. I want protect myself as well as him. Am I being over scared? i have been in this game for a long time and I am older than when i first started this journey and I would love enjoy it a little longer. So if you happen come by my blog drop me a note I am about start this journey again and i want make a good impression . Stay safe have fun.

HAMONMAN 62M
12914 posts
2/5/2020 10:51 am


do you take safety precautions? Like meet in a public place like a park or a coffee shop


Yes, usually a coffee shop, usually Tim Horton's, because by Canadian law, there has to be a TH every 200 ft along major arterial roads and public highways.


Humanity peaked during the 20th century.
We can't even make a decent starter solenoid any longer.


randi19563 65M

2/5/2020 10:59 am

You have men come to your place who you have never actually met? BAD idea! It will burn you one day. You should always have the first meet in a public place. Coffee shop, Mall, Restaurant, Bar-whatever.


spwildbill77 63M  
83 posts
2/5/2020 11:10 am

Gone are the days when you could trust people at their word...still many out there, but the ranks have been infiltrated with the jerks of the world and how can you tell them apart beforehand? I get so many people saying "no endless emails" etc.... I have found those impatient people to be the "jerks". Additionally, those that constantly reply with one liners that tell little or ignore your previous comments...you know they have not really read your messages...those are jerks too!


seems6666 51F
4761 posts
2/5/2020 11:18 am

I prefer to meet in a public place. I have had men come to my house, BUT I have chatted with them a long time before that happens. Safety first


Tallandsmiling53 60M
301 posts
2/5/2020 11:24 am

Always always always a public place!!! You may hit it off right away and go back to your place or his place but always have that buffer zone!!


hardguy0051 69M
461 posts
2/5/2020 11:27 am

Always ask yourself, "What could go wrong?"

That's why I have a Concealed Carry permit. 😉


Hawkfan533333 32M
687 posts
2/5/2020 11:49 am

I personally never meet up in a public place first, but I'm a guy, and have trained in kickboxing, and did mma. That being said i posted something similar on the advice line, and herd some disturbing things. Will I now meet in public first? Probably not. The odds of someone targeting me are not high, but you being a female its different. A predator is more likely to go after you then myself. I dnt know that meeting in public first does much, since you will be going to a private place anyways, but maybe you cld let someone know your having company over, and to call at a certain time, and if you dnt awnser they will know something is wrong. You cld also carry pepper spray. Now all that being said, odds are nothing bad will happen, but it cant hurt to protect yourself some.

Feel free to message my private mailbox


FresnoWoman 50F
883 posts
2/5/2020 11:50 am

I always insist on meeting somewhere public for a meet 'n greet. Usually Starbucks but Jamba Juice or a bar to have a drink also work fine for me. If the man complains about it, too bad, I won't meet him at all then.


Allhard4u50 59M
1703 posts
2/5/2020 12:01 pm

In this day and age with all the wackos out there..it is best to meet in a public place 1st. Years ago I talked with a lady for awhile and when we were ready she asked me over...luckily we were both on the same page.....we fucked soon after I got to her place......it was so hot....and yes I wore a condom....


MMXX2020 50M
174 posts
2/5/2020 12:19 pm

Of course meet in public first. And a meeting will be arranged only after getting to know a little bit about each other during chats.


Hawkfan533333 32M
687 posts
2/5/2020 12:39 pm

I personally never meet up in a public place first, but I'm a guy, That being said i posted something similar on the advice line, and herd some disturbing things. Will I now meet in public first? Probably not. The odds of someone targeting me are not high, but you being a female its different. A predator is more likely to go after you then myself. I dnt know that meeting in public first does much, since you will be going to a private place anyways, but maybe you cld let someone know your having company over, and to call at a certain time, and if you dnt awnser they will know something is wrong. You cld also carry pepper spray. Now all that being said, odds are nothing bad will happen, but it cant hurt to protect yourself some.

Feel free to message my private mailbox


superbjversion2 66F
23707 posts
2/5/2020 2:30 pm

I insist on a public first meet. I'm appalled by the men that find it "stupid".

Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!


sensualmaninmn 60M  
517 posts
2/6/2020 7:34 am

On a few occasions I have been invited over by women that I have not met. While there was a sense of anticipation, I have always felt uncomfortable with that arrangement-- not knowing if there will be chemistry or attraction, or worse case scenario.. which I will leave to your imagination. I prefer to meet at a public place, where we can more accurately and safely establish interpersonal chemistry. Because I am seeking a deeper connection beyond just the act of sex, it worth asking the time and being selective.


Tennbroad 68F  
330 posts
2/6/2020 8:38 am

I never ever bring anyone to my home and I never will when my husband passed I promised my daughter if i ever started dating i would never have sleep overs in our home.


Tennbroad 68F  
330 posts
2/6/2020 8:39 am

Smith and Wesson are my best friends they have a license to protect and defend


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