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Just thinking out loud about why interracial dating in the South is still taboo and how I try to fix it.
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Hello Dear Friends
Posted:Nov 6, 2021 3:09 pm
Last Updated:Nov 28, 2021 1:32 pm

It has been a long time since I have posted a blog so here goes.
I have been struggling with a lot of things but I am glad most of the world is back to normal. I hadn't been on the site for a long while due to working Ii had retired but went back to work after a failed relationship thus the reason for this blog. I have a notice on my profile that I do work but it might be a or two before I get back on. I am a creature of a full heart and when I thought this relationship would work it didn't and I guess it's my fault for falling for someone that wasn't that much interested in me. I know this is a sex site and we hadn't go to that part but we had lovely lunches and would ride around and talk but as for being intimate in just never happened. I know I am not a beauty queen but i have a heart and treat everyone with respect. But men you are something else but not to go into that just glad to be back on line and hope before I get much older I will be able to make new friends and get and socialize more.
It's truth talk time
Posted:May 14, 2021 6:50 pm
Last Updated:Nov 28, 2021 1:32 pm

I thing I have addressed this subject before but maybe I need be enlightened. I get a lot of hits from younger men and that all well and good but why? I still love have fun but I prefer men in my age range I have found they are sort of more gentle, understanding and not in a hurry get you in bed. I know I probably won't get anyone answer this blog but I want your opinion do I look like I am desperate, ready be scammed, and or just want be with a black woman? I am just doing some catch up getting my feet back on solid ground and seeing what I have do get a nice date, not a romp in the bed a nice lunch or evening out some good talk a walk in the park things like that for starters. And another thing if you are single and unattached why do you need be discreet? Are you hiding something I am one of those ladies that feel you can tell me I won't put you in a bind. I am good friend material if nothing happens i am not a snitch. Snitch who? Anyway thank you for your time and your eyes. I was looking back at all my blogs from yesteryear and i had a good time when i was younger. maybe I should take this one gentleman's advice and give up my membership if i am not going hook up save yourself time we will see

Hello Again
Posted:May 13, 2021 4:46 pm
Last Updated:Nov 28, 2021 1:32 pm

It's been awhile since I have posted anything and seeing that things are looking better in my part of the country it's time start enjoying life again. I hope all those in my age range took the shot if not for you but for your family. I had to go through my profile and make a few changes. I am cresting on 70 and living my best life so I had to bump up my age limit. You young ones want to much and I can't give you that much and had a couple young men that were in my opinion trying to scam me but I am a little to smart for that. For that I am looking for the 50 and up at least we can almost see eye to eye. The other rules still apply not looking to break up anyone's home, out to have a nice meeting, I am still working but that will end later this summer then I will be able to spend more time finding out what I really want in life. I know most men want that one woman that is all that and a bag of chips but I can only be me. I an honest, sincere, reliable and a great friend. So here's to good friends we are about to start dating again and I am excited.
Hello everyone
Posted:Mar 26, 2021 7:13 pm
Last Updated:May 28, 2021 8:56 pm

I hope all is well with everyone. Soon things will be where we all will be able to get and socialize. I just have a couple of things to say then I will be of your hair. Please be safe, if you belief in the vaccine please get it, if not for yourself for family and friends. I hope you all are being safe and socially distancing for those that don't that don't have a partner. Love and kisses
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Just Checking
Posted:Jun 25, 2020 10:31 pm
Last Updated:May 28, 2021 8:56 pm

Just checking to see if everyone is still staying safe and healthy. I really want to make sure we are still family and lovers of all things sexual and happiness. I know things are sort of off the wall right now and a lot is being said about whose life matters but I feel we all matter and we all have to get along in this big old world. So just remember before all this madness happened we loved one another, played with one another and had fun with one another and we were happy. Some day we will be able to do that again in peace and harmony.

Love to you all be safe stay happy
Missing you all
Posted:Mar 26, 2020 7:41 pm
Last Updated:Mar 29, 2020 7:19 pm

Well it has been a rough time in my life here in Nashville. First it was the tornado, we were with out power for 9 days and the destruction it did to my neighborhood was more than a picture could tell. Next came the virus and the lock down. It's something to not be able to get out but I have been talking to some nice people here and i was hoping all my fun bunch was staying in and taking care. I want all of you healthy and ready to get down and have safe fun when all this is over. Give yourself some time after the ban is lifted to make sure it's safe to play again. Take care funsters be careful as my tells me health is wealth. Love and kisses
I have a question
Posted:Feb 5, 2020 10:44 am
Last Updated:Feb 7, 2020 4:49 pm

Hello fellow lovers of every thing sexual. I was wondering if you could help a sister out on something. This is for the men and the ladies. When you set up a meeting do you take safety precautions? Like meet in a public place like a park or a coffee shop. I have a friend that for what ever reason decided meet the gentleman at her home. Well it did not turn out good no one was hurt but it could have turned out badly. I have had men come my home after talking them several times but it's always a day time meeting. I have nosey neighbors and if anything looks funny they will call the police. But what do you thin I still get the feelings when I talk men online. I know this is a sex site and you would think men or ladies would like know something about you before you embark on a sexual journey. I carry my own condoms, lube anything for my safety. If the man refuses use the condom then games over. I want protect myself as well as him. Am I being over scared? i have been in this game for a long time and I am older than when i first started this journey and I would love enjoy it a little longer. So if you happen come by my blog drop me a note I am about start this journey again and i want make a good impression . Stay safe have fun.
Jingle All The Way
Posted:Nov 20, 2019 6:46 pm
Last Updated:Feb 5, 2020 10:15 am

hello my fellow lovers of all things sexual. It's that time of year again and I hope all my guy friend and friends have been good for Santa bring them some joy this holiday season. Me? Well i have been down but not I have had fun reading all the posts and wondering if i was ever was going get again. I not what most men think as dateable due looks and size but I going keep on trying but for now I here wish all the dudes and dudettes happy Thanksgiving if you celebrate and it not have a fantastic fall.
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Wasted afternoon
Posted:Jun 17, 2019 8:38 pm
Last Updated:Oct 3, 2019 7:24 am

Had a meet sort of this afternoon but I saw the on his and I knew I had wasted his time and mine. That's what happens in the world today. A few years back I would have been upset and questioned why this was happening to me but you know I am OK with it. I am not the all american woman of color I am curvy short I keep my hair cropped short . I am honest I am an older woman going on 66 I love going , it possible I will buy a gentleman dinner, I have done it in the past. Everything is not about sex. I would think I am worth the time get know, don't judge me on my looks alone, talk me, ask me what you want I am going tell you the truth. But I have noticed the men turn me down the most have girlfriends or wives. If you have a woman of color fantasy like a lot of my friends have told me just say so. I have been with several men that just wanted to be with a black woman. No harm no foul. Just say so. But today I saw it in the gentleman's , he could have turned around and walked away. oh well I had a great time shopping. Just some observations, about being a plus sized woman in the dating world. No need comment a lot of the comments I get are mean and nasty I just delete them and move on.
Once more with gusto
Posted:Jun 10, 2019 8:35 am
Last Updated:Jun 11, 2019 7:34 am

I am not a sub or a dom I am me. Don't ask me to be nothing more or less. I was't going to put this out there but I sort of feel I must to hold down misconception about me. I have a health issue going on right now and as much as I am missing going out right now I can't but I have so many wonderful friends here in Nashville they have kept me laughing and kept me in good spirits. Got a couple of messages from men thinking I was flaky, well I am but I think it's I love making love I love a good fuck and right now the memories of all that is comforting. Being made love to is the most wonderful thing I can think of and the feel of a man sliding in and out gives me goose bumps just thinking about it. Feel free the comment I just needed to , no I just felt like I needed to comment on me. I am so loveable, kind hearted and a fireball and a good friend. Love you all Talk to you soon
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MY last request
Posted:May 31, 2019 11:30 am
Last Updated:Oct 4, 2019 9:20 am

Hello Family,

Just hanging out and was wondering if you were about to give it all up, tired of the games, the name calling and being stood up what would your last request be before you called it a day on this web site without finding someone to share fun times with? I have been thinking about calling it a day every since I turned 65 men are not interested in old fat women any more or that is what my mind is telling me. Another reason the doctor is telling me my lady parts will not stretch so sex is very painful. I know you are saying to much info but I have always been an open book on this site and the men seem to appreciate it. But if and when I call it a day this is my dream of all dreams. Now remember this is my dream so if you get hot and bothered remember I gave you that hard on. You are most welcome.

It's a hot muggy night clothes are optional and in this case I choose to be naked. A breeze begins to flow over my breasts giving me a case of the "feelings". I stand to look out the window when I see Mr. Williams my next door neighbor taking his garbage out. I really don't know him well but I feel today is the day. So I slipped a long shirt on and went out to empty my trash. Mr. Williams is in a loveless marriage but he is dedicated to his wife, this I knew from talking to the neighbors. As we were talking my shirt slipped open a bit I hurried to close it but he was looking at me with those big blue eyes I wanted to leave it open but out of respect I excused myself and went back in the house. About 1 hour later I didn't know if I was dreaming or that I heard a soft knock on my door. It was a soft knock on my door, it was Mr. Williams. It had started to rain and he was soaking wet. He had went to his car and locked his keys in the car and he didn't want to wake his wife (yeah right). I asked him to come in got him a towel and he proceeded to dry off. He took his shirt and I saw the most amazing hairy chest I love a chest were I can rub my face in it and just have my way. He turned red when he saw me looking at his chest. He apologized but I felt a rush of passion and kissed his lips lightly at first then as hard as I could. I dropped to my knees unzipped his pants and took his hard cock into my mouth. It had drops of love juice on the tip and I licked it off with pleasure. I heard him moan under his breathe and I kept on licking and sucking till I knew he was ready to explode. He took me in his arms took me to the bedroom and kissed me all over, first my lips then my breasts ,my stomach then he started a trail down to the lips of my love canal. I was trying to be calm but it had been so long since I let a man touch me I was ready for him to love me, make passionate love to me and only me. He started to kiss the lips of my love canal and gently inserted a finger in her that I about lost my mind. I wanted him so badly but I could see he was enjoying himself so I let him have his way with me. He slowing inserted his precious cock in me I came as soon as it went in but now I was wanting more and more and more. His breathing was hard and he was sweating so much it was like it was raining on the both of us. He fucked me ever so gentle he was so tender and when he was about to cum he pulled out and started to kiss me licking his juices out of my love canal till I was crazy. I was crying and I didn't know why but one thing I was sure I didn't want him to stop. He slid his cock back in me to finish the deed. He took me and pumped harder and harder till he exploded with such a force the bed shook. He collapsed in my arms continuing to kiss me ever so lightly. We stayed like this till the first hint of sunrise peaked into my window. He quickly dressed looked over his shoulder with a slight smile and walked out my door. We never spoke of this again but I am sure from the sounds I have heard coming from his bedroom his wife sees him in a new light. You are very welcome
Asking for a friend
Posted:May 17, 2019 8:13 pm
Last Updated:Jun 4, 2019 7:38 am

Lets play a game. You, my other family be the therapist and me the patient. Now I am a very curvy woman, some may say I am fat with a good attitude, some say I am short ,fat and sweet. When I meet a man I choose to drive myself to where we are meeting, if it is to dinner I try to be a pleasant dinner guest. I am an equal partner I will for dinner or let him for dinner if he so chooses. After a nice dinner and time is late some men have thoughts of cuddling after dinner but and let me say in caps BUT if it is not the desire of the lady or the man ( yes there are some shy men there) why is it hard to understand the word NO? Maybe it's too soon, or nerves are in the way or you just didn't click. But the word NO should be respected and not held against your date. I have been in this situation more times than I care to count. If I feel something is not right I going to politely excuse myself and leave but as I was going the door( this happened a couple of weeks ago) my date of the evening said something his breath. See I didn't listen to my inner voice, I should have declined the date but I felt it is time for me to enjoy life go and have fun. But I chose the wrong date. I had talked to him online for a few weeks, felt alright about it and went. This is why I drive myself. I never let my date pick up I funny way. He was mad, he said he had got a room and thought after dinner we would go there have a drink. I don't drink( sometimes I wish I did). Now doctors, if you are single and live alone why you to get a room, you live here or so you said. But why is No such a hard word to understand? I didn't hear what he said but he was mad should I have said something more? I just walked away got in my car and went home. I didn't cry I felt good about my decision and by the time I got home he had wrote me an ugly message, so ugly I had to block him. I love this web site the men, well most of the men are nice, they are picky but I have learned how to handle this. When I get my life back I will get back to writing steamy love stories but I your help. I advice. I wrong to be suspicious of all men? should I tone it down or do I to let inner voice run with it? Ok doctors the ball is in your court I help. You can now talk among yourself but don't take to long I will be 67 in 2
Let me tell you a story
Posted:Mar 13, 2019 8:34 am
Last Updated:May 9, 2019 12:50 pm

I realize this is a sex site but every now and then friends make new friends just to make friends. But I had the opportunity to do a day trip with a female friend and her boy toy. Well it was supposed to be a day trip but it turned out to be a 2 day road trip. Seems my female friend had hooked up with a man here and she wanted to meet him but didn't want to go alone and didn't want to drive. Any other time her hubby would have drove but he was busy so of course i was willing to go and boy toy wanted to go just to be nosy( really he was hoping to score some fun for himself while there). Well we got to our destination and the man seemed to be very nice clean cut preppy looking. He put us up in in a 4 star hotel and found something for me and boy toy to do while my friend and her new friend got to know each other. well as we entered the room we heard such a commotion moaning, groaning little yelps and this was coming from him. Boy toy was biting at the bit to go in and off he went to peak or so I thought he never came back. Well being a woman and curious I just opened the door and what I saw was amazing. Girl friend and boy toy was sucking dude off his eyes rolled back in his head and looked toward me and I told him I am the baby sitter i will just watch. Now comes the good part girl friend laid on her back new friend was fucking her like it was going to run away, boy toy was getting his cock sucked by girl friend. I thought he was going to faint. I guess you are wondering what or why I wasn't over there in the action, I had my toys and I was gently massaging my pussy I didn't realize it was so wet my nipples were hard wanting to be sucked then boy toy came over and sucked my nipples and I fucked my pussy with my vibrator, I was cumming over and over, new man was fucking girl friend with all that hard cock in and out in and out he would pull out then shove it back in harder and harder and when they both climaxed it was the loudest moan of passion I have ever heard. I am glad we were in the lower end of the hotel. Here we are 4 naked people spent from an afternoon of fun. I am not sure if girl friend is going on another road trip but I am all for it, i haven't been out in a long while and these trips can be "educational". I am not one to participate in multiples but i will watch for days. Thanks for listening remember have fun be fun

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