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Tips for guys #3 the profile  

Tru524 54F
1 posts
8/28/2021 1:38 am
Tips for guys #3 the profile

The profile is a way get people know who you are and what you are looking for. This is the place where people meet you even before you with them either via email or IM. You will catch attention or drive people away here. Basically, it's important.
1. Fill it out. put "I want fuck" as the only line on your profile is not really helpful. We are on meet someone for encounters. Don't state the obvious, it is boring and shows a lack of self-knowledge and willingness be open with who you are
2. Be honest. The beauty of is that you can be honest with what you want and what you are looking for. If you like being tied and coated in liquid latex good for you. There will be someone who loves this too (maybe more than one person if you are lucky). Tell who you are (not too much) and what type of person you are. A would say a minimum of one paragraph would be helpful to those reading your profile. Just so I am clear, men look at pics then read the profiles, on the other hand women glance at pics then read the profile pretty close.
3. If you have anger issue or just hate its time to get some help for that. Don't feed these negative feelings into your profile. I have read many profiles that show the man has major anger and resentment issues. This is a major red light. If he can't control his seething anger when writing a profile what will he be like in person? I pass on those profiles no matter how nice the pics are. I am sure other women do too.
4. Be honest about what you want in a woman. If you want at BBW say so or if you like only small Asian women say it. Nothing is worse than chatting with someone a bit and after finding out you are not what they are looking for. I try to be honest when I first realize the person is not what I want. Usually the cause for this is due to the person not being honest on their profile.
5. If you are married say it. Many women who are just looking for a regular FWB don't care if you are married, but it is a shock to find out afterward. If you are stepping out on your wife/husband be an adult and just admit it. If you can't then maybe you don't need to be seeking assistance outside your own bedroom.
6. Humor helps but don't overdo it. Leave the juvenile humor out. Just lighthearted humor
7. Be confident, don't apologize for any shortcomings your have, be honest, but don't apologize. For example "I am 5'11 and 240lbs" not " I am overweight"

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