Word Fluff  

VenusRedux2 46F
324 posts
3/25/2017 5:50 am
Word Fluff

Simply vomiting more words on the screen does not mean you are having a meaningful conversation.

One of the more common types of guys here are the guys who, in an effort to keep the conversation flowing, will throw all kinds of words on the screen thinking that qualifies as a conversation. Too often, this type of guy gets frustrated when the word count discrepancy between how much he is saying and how much I am saying is almost 50:1, or even 100:1.

The reason he’s saying so much and I’m saying so little is simple: For all those words, he’s not saying anything that’s advancing the conversation.

Take this snippet of conversation for example:

Him: What are you looking for?
Me: Nothing specific
Him: I’m looking for a FWB situation. I’m not looking to change your situation, just someone I can talk to and have fun with from time to time

Here’s the question to consider guys … How much information actually got conveyed here?

Virtually nothing. It’s word fluff. Let’s break it down:

“I’m looking for a FWB situation” – That could have been safely assumed simply from your being on this site. That’s the default status for most people when they sign up here. The ones who are looking for something else recognize this and will specifically say otherwise. So unless you're saying otherwise, it's not telling me anything.

Personally, I'm against even asking this question. If you're looking for something you already know I'm assuming you're looking for, then we're already on the same page. No need to waste time stating the obvious.

“I’m not looking to change your situation” – I certainly hope not, I’ve only been talking to you for 10 seconds.

“Just someone I can talk to and have fun with from time to time” – That’s just restating what a FWB is, simply using more words than a simple acronym.

How is a girl supposed to respond to this?

Yup, you guessed it, we respond with the dreaded one word grunt-ish response. Something like “Cool” or merely “Ok.” Seriously, what other response are you hoping for? This isn’t rhetorical, what is the range of responses? There really isn’t any.

This is just one example of how one line which seems to give information really tells me nothing. Most conversations have line after line of this. I may do future posts with more examples of this.

Take a moment and consider if those words are actually conveying anything useful. Consider if the words open up conversation, or have only a limited range of responses (or no response at all).

itsallfantasy 55F  
1081 posts
3/25/2017 6:34 am

Oh this is sooooooooooooo true!! Too many get here and think "wanna fuck" is the only thing they have to say followed by shoving their dicks in our faces. I am not turned on by men that think we are mindless whores that chase a guy based on he shoved his dick in our faces and said he was horny. ALL men seem to be that.

VenusRedux2 replies on 3/25/2017 7:20 am:
It is kind of interesting that they push so hard for sex, yet the poofing phenomenon seems to be getting worse, not better. Interesting trend.

Ienjoythetaste 73M
2561 posts
3/25/2017 5:58 am

Sorry to hear that you have been down with the flu but good that you are recovering.

It sounds like "Word Fluff" is related to "Bum Fluff". Something that shouldn't be there.

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VenusRedux2 replies on 3/25/2017 7:12 am:
Quickly googling "Butt Fluff"

VenusRedux2 46F
557 posts
3/25/2017 5:51 am

I don't usually post on weekends, as considerably fewer people are around, but being that I've been laid up with the flu the past week, gotta get back into the swing of things.

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