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There's more to me than just a few holes  

WaHotWifeCouple 44M/45F  
31 posts
2/3/2022 8:46 am
There's more to me than just a few holes

I write in the hopes to not upset others that may disagree with me but rather to start conversations (which includes opinions that may differ than mine ... I'm cool like that).

Today I come with a question. My husband and I have been in the lifestyle off and on like 18 years I'd say. In that time, we have met with different individuals to fulfill our kinky side, but one thing that gets our juices flowing is my husband watching. Yes, we play together but him watching me is a real turn on for the both of us. With that said ... when we are messaged I find that most men, in particular, are not aiming to try to woo me at all. I get the, "hey want meet up, you're hot and look like fun" as if I'm some kind of carnival ride. Yes, I like a good ride; however, I want to have a quality ride too not just give you a good ride. I am not turned on by a random "here's my dic pic" no offense but most work the same and often resemble the next, what I want is someone to try a little harder at working my mind over.

If you have a special interest in someone, I assume that you go through the motions to interact, try to connect, and throw out the flirts ......... so my question is,
Are the individuals on here, past trying to flirt and connect on a<b> mental </font></b>level or is it because I am married that individuals think they are stepping on an invisible line that it would be wrong to flirt with an attached married woman?
If I can't connect on the same level I end up not being satisfied sexually. Thusly, the other party leaves quite sated, and I'm left still wanting and disenchanted. I am stomping my feet and saying that isn't fair. I need to get something out of this as well.
Please tell me what is it that people are scared of to actually try to woo me and to get to know me (a little more) and not just my holes? I promise I would give a "hole" new meaning on Tilt 'o' Whirl if you went the extra step.

nymphwanted2 58M  
60 posts
2/9/2022 7:46 am

you bring up some interesting points and you are very right on all levels you brought up, you are married so most people think that means you want to just fuck and go, it is also a hinderance to some people who might want more than that, like they may be nothing but a third wheel,

that being said, reaching out to a married lady is also a double edged subject, most times that kind of action is met with rejection which is and can be a big let down to someone who is really interested in getting to know you on more than one level... ''

as for your beautiful holes, as you refer to them, i think any guy would be honored and privileged to experience any of them

ok now ill show you some interest with flirts, lol and please remember it can be a struggle to weed through all the fakes and assholes or pic collectors there are some of us on here that are sincere and not just looking for a quick fuck and run,

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