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Make a new friend
Posted:Sep 21, 2021 2:08 pm
Last Updated:Sep 22, 2021 3:55 pm

Wouldn't it be great to find the one particular person that you were right for each other right from the start? In societal norms there is the concept of - What would a reasonable person do in any given situation?

This is a concept I have battled against time and again simply because a "reasonable person' doesn't exist.

Each person is unique in their own right. Sure, it's well acknowledged that individuals can share some characteristics, mannerisms, physical features, illnesses, and genetic traits.

Although their make-up maybe close - its still a unique "special blend" of these items.

Also, each person can be influenced by others, their own insecurities, cultures, values and living environment. And since these change at a more rapid rate it creates yet again a different "special blend" of contributors that further add to an individual's uniqueness.

Can you imagine life bland, vanilla? To be seen just like every other person and not standout? Same color, shape size, features, income, work, home, car, etc?
I find joy and comfort in being unique as everyone should.

Life is like the weather, is cyclical. Some sound the alarm and argue the global warming is dire and yet they find more history in every inch of ice that disappears. Others say climate change and we're in a cooling cycle. Everything happens in cycles, just at different rates and durations.

Clothing trends come and go, then cycle back in again. Everything ols is new again, lol.

Relationships can be looked at this way as well. thousands of years ago it was socially acceptable to have multiple partners - separately or together. The same might be said about homosexuality. For years early man, king's, Mormons, African tribes and others practiced this. Then it dwindled down. And now its back in the form of open marriages, polyamory, etc.

I posit that while one relationship is fine for some, others need more. Maybe one for each small or large cycle of their lives. Maybe more frequently for another group.

I do know with a reasonable amount of certainty most people are here because, a portion of their lives are unsatisfying, vanilla, without passion. Some desire more experimentation or want to try something more kinky. Other's maybe feel ignored all together or it's time for a change fue to abuse or other things. And some, believe it or not are looking for that one - which they're probably not gonna find here.

So, enjoy the features here that are free, use some points, chat, read blogs, like or friend someone. You don't have to remain anonymous or voyeuristic. Put yourself out there - the worst you make a new friend, at best you change your life.

The only constant in life is change.
Life is about perspectives
Posted:Sep 15, 2021 12:32 am
Last Updated:Sep 22, 2021 3:55 pm

There were three ants scouting about a house. they made their way to the bathroom and were tired. It was dark so they decided to rest for the night and continue tomorrow.

One ant found the sink and decided to rest there.

The second made his way to the edge of the tub and found a spot between the inner an outer shower curtains.

The third on found his way to the toilet, it smelled fragrant and the small trickling sound of water put him right to sleep.

The next morning they met back up to continue their journey and began conversing.

"Oh man! What a great night's sleep," said the first ant.

"Yes, it was," chimed the second one.

"Are you kidding me? You didn't hear it? The thunder and lightning and rain - if it hadn't been for that log last night... I would've drowned!"

The grass is never greener on one side of the fence than the other. It's how the light shines on the grass from your perspective that makes it look more appealing than it really is.
Sometimes the simplest....
Posted:Sep 11, 2021 12:23 pm
Last Updated:Sep 22, 2021 3:55 pm

Recently, I had an unusual response that upon reflection brought me profound joy. Oh, we all know the adage - "The simplest things in life are free" "The simplest things in life bring great joy." I'm a very detailed, observant person and always take note, but express my observation in appreciative manner others...and yes even am on the receiving end as well. This however, I did not expect - a detailed, articulate, intellectual, sophisticated, succinct adulation of something I naturally do and think of it. It does wonders for one's ego and selfworth. I thought perhaps, just perhaps that might be beneficial in a myriad of applications... personally and professionally. Not too often as it would be too laborious and cause an over inflated ego. Occasionally though, a nice extra touch. Try it out, but not so much as to create a monster.
Conversation starters...versus outright vulgarity
Posted:Sep 10, 2021 1:25 am
Last Updated:Sep 22, 2021 3:55 pm

I know humor for the most part can be easily misconstrued using the written word. But what do you use as a conversation starter?

I try to listen well, be inquisitive, (but not too much), and enjoy the back and forth in a playful manner. I portray up front my frankfuless, honesty and truthfulness. And even that is often misunderstood - what's up with that?

Often times people ask what am I doing here, duh, it's an adult site and obviously I'm here for the same reasons as them. If you want to just date - go to a dating site... not here. If you're single, married or otherwise and looking for a change, hookup or a better right fit... you're here.

Then there is the topic of "bad boys". You probably already learned bad boys are abusive, egotistical and self involved. They are not anykind of relationship material. Naughty on the other hand - is really fun, in & out of the bedroom, furniture, car, or public. Very similar edicts, but totally different ethics. Plus you get the benefits of knowing you'll not be harmed or threatened and treated as an equal with dignity and respect...and the flavor you desire. It's not a dichotomy.

Ladies, what is your preferred method of conversation starters? Gentlemen what methods do you employ?
Preparation is necessary
Posted:Sep 7, 2021 12:12 pm
Last Updated:Sep 22, 2021 3:55 pm

Have you ever actually talked to a person from here?

I have, sometimes it seems awkward as if they were unprepared yo actually talk to a live person. Oh, its easy enough to chat in a chatroom or via text, but when the reality of the fact there is actually a live person on the other end of the phone sets in they tense up.

Sometimes, they are shaken by the fact they told some untruths and are called on it. Other times it seems rehearsed all to well and red flags start flying, bells or sirens ringing in your head. So, be honest. If one will lie to you they will steal from you and vice versa.

Then there are the times when there are no expectations, both are at ease and it feels like you are catching up with a long lost friend, bit in fact you've simply made a nee one. Those are the best times.

This is the approach I take - be guarded to an extent, no expectations, put the other at ease. Nothing will forced or go beyond the boundaries without permission. I personally, have neveret a stranger, (so to speak, lol), I make myself at home wherever I am and find humor can break the ice. And I show interest, ask questions to engage the other party and put them at ease.
Fu*k, fun*k me, Now that I have your attention...
Posted:Sep 7, 2021 6:17 am
Last Updated:Sep 22, 2021 3:55 pm

Men want a hook-up, women want something more - usually.

Every now and then the alure, attraction or desire does take over. Then there are those rare disorders of nymphomania, but more common bi-polar or split personalities which a chemical imbalance.

A lot of men have misconceptions of a hook-up, an affair not unlike do so many concerning BDSM - that its raw, abusive and they're done.

There reality is that both men and women are not getting all of their needs met physically, emotionally or sexually It's more common to not communicate, bury it, hide it or swallow it to maintain the status quo. There is nothing wrong with enjoying sex alone, with your partner or multiple partners. Be safe, respectful and enjoy whether its discreetly or out in the open.

The younger are rebellious, quick to experiment over zealously. The middle aged have regrets and anxieties they have too much to lose only not to realize they are a prisoner of their own device. The older are quick to call it as it truly is, - if it walks like a duck, talks like a duck and looks like a duc.. its a duc

If one had a better study of a true BDSM relationship they would understand the amount of communication, importance of the little things that are required to gain the trust, maintain the health, well-being, boundaries, and the passion such as aftercare, cuddling, reward and punishment.

This is oversimplified I know, and there are exceptions to every rule, but I'm not here to write a book about it. If you want or need that little something else, laugh with, extra passion, sex and touch...we are here for that. Do be an ass to make yourself feel superior at the cost of demeaning or hurting another...enjoy the passion.
Do your due diligence, but have fun
Posted:Sep 4, 2021 3:02 pm
Last Updated:Sep 22, 2021 3:55 pm

It's important for your safety and financial well being to be discreet on here, your phone, and your computer. In the world today lowlife's are phishing any and everywhere. It may be for financial gain, identity theft, blackmail, etc. It also may offend some people in various ways and they just put your photos or information out there for everyone to see or.benefit one-way or another. Some call it cheating, others immoral, etc. But folks, people have been having sex for thousands of years and it's just sex..Single people are busy building their careers, others may have married into a situation where their mate may not have the same sex drive, others may have a higher sex drive, some have spouse's that for medical reasons can no longer perform at all. Be discreet for yourself and/or those you are interested in bas well as your financial stability. If you're here obviously you fall into one o .more of the things 8 just mentioned. Young, old o Do your due diligence, but have fun. r in between expand your horizons with someone outside your age, height, build and you may be surprised as to how good the sex can be. Experiment, be safe, find someone outside your norms discreet, honest, reliable and communicative and enjoy the sex!
Ladies, dick pics or not
Posted:Sep 1, 2021 10:46 pm
Last Updated:Sep 22, 2021 3:55 pm

Ladies - dick pics or not

Personally, I find it in poor taste along with rude comments. I prefer to show the pics if you ask to be non offsetting. Also, I choose a more alluring, erotic, seductive, intellectually stimulating vocabulary...anyone with 1/2 a brain can say - f**k you. Does that cause you to think yeah, I want that guy.
How do YOU find a scammer?
Posted:Sep 1, 2021 5:09 am
Last Updated:Sep 22, 2021 3:55 pm

I find it interesting that some people will spend more time, energy and effort than they would getting an actual real job. I personally, research names, numbers, texts or messages. It I engage in any conversation - I keep it light, casual and unrevealing until everything checks out. I find that a scammer will not post much or anything of substance in there profile nor will they actually read yours. Tell me your thoughts or experiences.
Pet peeves?
Posted:Sep 1, 2021 5:04 am
Last Updated:Sep 22, 2021 3:55 pm

I realize we are all here for relatively the same purpose- albeit for various reasons. But I believe it is essential to communicate honestly and definitively. Polish a turd and it's still a turd - a somewhat shinier one but still a turd nonetheless, lol.

So, if someone puts they are a non-smoker in there profile and they smoke,(a little or a lot), it is not good communication or honest. Doesn't mean people cannot be friends, but some people have allergies to the smoke and therefore are not a compatible match. Same goes with other facets of life. Some people are for specific ages, others don't care. Some people look older, others look younger, etc. What are your pet peeves or thoughts?
Public sex?
Posted:Aug 29, 2021 9:29 pm
Last Updated:Sep 22, 2021 3:55 pm

It's the thrill you may get caught doing something that is natural, but socially unacceptable. Thoughts? I have enjoyed various venues and never been noticed. On Main Street, in the woods, in the car, at sporting events, restaurants and theater's
Something new, something different
Posted:Aug 28, 2021 5:16 pm
Last Updated:Sep 22, 2021 3:55 pm

After lunch Sara sat reading when George walked in. He made small talk as he moved around the kitchen. Clomp, clomp, clomp of his new boots as he moved around and yet he received no failed get a response from Sara.
Determined get a response from her he left the kitchen and and disrobed with the exception of his new boots. Clomp, clomp, clomp as he moved around again making small talk. Once again he got no response from Sara.

Frustrated he stomped around the room and asked, "Notice anything new?"

"No George, nothing new - it's still hanging down," was Sara's dispassionate response.

"It's looking at my new boots!," George stated proudly.

"Should've bought a hat George, should've bought a hat," disappointed Sara stated emphatically.
A trip to the Doctor
Posted:Aug 27, 2021 3:01 pm
Last Updated:Sep 22, 2021 3:55 pm

A trip the Doctor

A woman goes to a new gynecologist. A young Doctor walks in and is visibly nervous. The woman is thinking something is unusual, but sets quietly and listens.

The young Doctor asks, " Ma'am please climb up on the examination table and put your feet in the stirrups." He explained further, " "I'm fresh out of medical school, just started my practice and you, dear lady, are my very first patient. "

Okay, she thought "What's the worst that can happen?" She then said, "That's fine."

The Doctor then said, "If it will make it more comfortable for you - I can numb the area and you won't feel a thing?"

"That will be fine, Doctors usually don't do that, but okay" she said.

"Well, as I told you, I'm just out of school, with a new practice and your my ver first patient I want you to be comfortable," je again said.

She replied, "Okay, fine then."

With that being said the young Doctor dove head first towards her vagina and all the woman heard was, "Num, num, num, numb,, " as the young Doctor feverishly lapped and fingered her pussy.

She thought with a smile as she moaned, " damn visit the gynecologist ever!"

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