What are we looking for?
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Posted:Apr 7, 2020 10:22 pm
Last Updated:Jun 14, 2020 10:46 am
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It's one of the most asked questions on here...."What are you looking for?" Sex, sex with no strings, sex with no names, one on one sex, 3 way sex, group sex, gay sex, bi sex.....sex without emotion? Is there such a thing? For men, maybe. For some women, maybe. Isnt it emotion that elevates regular sex to amazing sex? Or is it just women who feel this way? And is it possible to have emotions involved and not get attached? What am I looking for?
We post our pictures and videos so we will be admired. And then, we get angry or irritated when men respond to them. I personally am guilty of this if you catch me in a bad mood. We want the attention and then resent being viewed as a sex object. So, what are we looking for?
I don't know the answer. I keep hoping it will come to me in some epiphany and great meaning of life....some knowledge that will make me wiser, happier and more content than Ive ever been.
So, what are YOU looking for?
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What are we looking for?
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Posted:Apr 7, 2020 10:17 pm
Last Updated:Jun 3, 2021 7:49 am
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It's one of the most asked questions on here...."What are you looking for?" Sex, sex with no strings, sex with no names, one on one sex, 3 way sex, group sex, gay sex, bi sex.....sex without emotion? Is there such a thing? For men, maybe. For some women, maybe. Isnt it emotion that elevates regular sex to amazing sex? Or is it just women who feel this way? And is it possible to have emotions involved and not get attached? What am I looking for?
We post our pictures and videos so we will be admired. And then, we get angry or irritated when men respond to them. I personally am guilty of this if you catch me in a bad mood. We want the attention and then resent being viewed as a sex object. So, what are we looking for?
I don't know the answer. I keep hoping it will come to me in some epiphany and great meaning of life....some knowledge that will make me wiser, happier and more content than Ive ever been.
So, what are YOU looking for?
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How Many is TOO Many?
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Posted:Apr 10, 2017 2:15 am
Last Updated:Nov 27, 2019 11:32 pm
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So, what's YOUR number? You know what I'm talking about. How many sexual partners have you had? 2? 10? 100? How many is too many? And, what is a respectable number?
Let's think about this....when deciding whether or not you are definitely a slut, do you take into account age vs. age when de-flowered? Or, Age when de-flowered minus years married multiplied by years you've been single since the divorce?
Are men given more lee-way then women? It seems acceptable for men to be promiscuous....they studs or ladies' men or players. Women who are promiscuous tend to be looked down on, although this trend seems to be changing. We are sluts or whores or tramps.
Would you ever tell anyone your honest number? And if you're partner was honest about there's, just how many is TOO many? Personally, I take my number to the grave! I was with 1 man for 15 years but I started young and I've been...."enjoying" being single. What can I say....I love sex! I feel like consenting adults should be able to have adult connections and relationships with no guilt. Or, maybe I'm just a slut!
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Is There a Polite Way to Say "I'm not Interested"?
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Posted:Jan 5, 2017 11:33 pm
Last Updated:Jun 22, 2021 3:46 pm
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We've all been there. You go to meet someone and they aren't exactly what you were expecting. Not just their looks....maybe they are arrogant, pervy or the worst....BORING! What is the proper protocol? I don't know. But I do know of some IM-proper protocols.
1. The fake family emergency: We've all heard of this one. The frantic phone call that someone was in an accident. Not very original, but effective.
2. The fake call from work: Big project due that I forgot about. Didn't know today was Wednesday...blah, blah, blah.
3. The "I have to get up early": Guys, if there is a possibility for sex with someone you want, is having to get up early ever an issue? Be honest!
4. My favorite....the "I'm going out to my car to get a condom" and disappearing. Even after asked "You're not going to bail or something, right?" He denied to the end! And went outside only to never return. (Um, this happened to a FRIEND of mine....not me!!) (Fine, it was me.)
Isn't an awkward," I'm sorry I'm not interested in you" better than humiliating someone by adding insult to injury? I would love to hear some of your stories like this and your opinion on the subject. Maybe this stuff only happens to me......
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What is with the Dick-ies?!?
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Posted:Dec 28, 2016 9:25 am
Last Updated:Jul 17, 2018 1:38 pm
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Definition of Dickie: A selfie of one's dick, penis, cock, etc.
There seems to be a growing epidemic on this site. Everywhere you look....dickies! Profile pictures....it's there. Albums.....it's there, from every angle possible. IMs....do you have a pic? DICKIE. Um, of your face? Dickies, dickies, dickies!
Am I the only one who is put-off by the over abundance of pics of privates? True, we are on an adult website. Does that not give me the right to only see your penis if I ask you?!? Or, am I obligated to view it at every whim of the sender?
What happened to manners? Would you walk up to me on the street and instead of saying hello, just unzip and whip it out? No? So, what's the difference? And by the way guys, what is this obsessive need to show it off? I, personally, like a little mystery. You are more than your penis.....I promise. After you've seen several thousand, they all start to look the same. And when you are in the medical field, the "seen one, seen them all" adage really does apply.
So, come on guys....keep it in your pants. Let us get to know you before we see your junk. Or at least wait until we ask you to see it. Happy hunting, everyone. Make good choices!
--Stasia
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Did you think I wouldn't notice?!?
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Posted:Nov 27, 2016 9:47 pm
Last Updated:Jun 14, 2020 10:47 am
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Have you ever gone to meet someone from TSdates.com and find yourself talking to someone you don't even recognize? They are shorter, heavier, older, more bald then any of the pics they shared. And now you find yourself with a dilemma...do you call it off then and there or do your manners force you to at least spend a liitle time...be polite? The more it happens, the more I resent being put in that position! I believe these deceivers count on the fact that we dont want to be rude.
I dont want you to think I'm hung up on looks. I'm not. But I do have a problem with liars. When you lie to me I take it offensively...how stupid do you think I am? And I would never see you again if you start out lying.
Just be yourself...whatever that is. Nobody's perfect. I'm too fat, have an overbite and a huge ass....but, this is me. Wouldnt you rather be rejected annonymously then in person? Good luck out there. Make good choices!!
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