Episode...oh hell, I lost count! An Evening of Flirty Fun!  

bustinout20202 64F  
766 posts
8/31/2021 1:28 am
Episode...oh hell, I lost count! An Evening of Flirty Fun!


I like the flirty fun that comes with this site. I am most attracted to those that can turn a clever phrase, write poetry or are quick-witted with one-liners that make me smile. That’s what caught me with TOG, if you‘ve been following my earlier posts at all. [See “TOG and The Bistro”]

Another hottie I chat with calls me his “Sherpa”; as if I could be his guide on this site, LOL!! We exchange some hot and hilarious comments/check-ins every month or so. We report to each other about our journey on here so far. We’ve yet to meet; tho’ I once got lost heading to see another friend [more on that later! ] and ended up turning my car around in the parking lot of his office. We’ve planned some excellent adventures and ventures, he and I. I think we would make excellent business partners!

So yes, I love the flirty, sexy fun of it. Stimulating conversation and/or simply being attracted to someone in the first place.

It just happened a couple weeks ago on a Tuesday night.

We were out listening to music at a neighborhood pub. We go there regularly for the open mic jam so the hubs has opportunity to play. The music is a variety, mainly bluesy. It’s a brew pub that has the music on the back patio with an outdoor seating area made up of a few sturdy picnic tables and benches facing the stage and behind them a row of cable spool tables [so popular when we were young folk back in the 70s] and chairs. Often, people bring their dogs.

There was one guy that I had seen there occasionally; usually standing in the back of the venue. I have noticed him before; most times he is there alone. This particular night he had a with him. It was a black lab, my favorite! I petted and scratched the dog’s ears as the pooch came my way to say hello. I found out his name; the dog’s name not the guy’s! He was named Jaeger after someone’s favorite liquor.** Jaeger liked me too. Enough so that he sniffed and then lifted his leg and marked his territory on the picnic table leg I was sitting at! He tagged my jeans too! The guy was very embarrassed at Jaeger’s behavior, and put the in the dawghouse [his truck]. I told him it was fine, no worries, it’ll wash.

The next thing I knew, the guy is coming towards me with a handful of napkins. I was thinking he was just going to hand them to me so I could clean myself off. Instead he gallantly kneels down in front of me. [yeah, think the prince kneeling to fit the glass slipper on Cinder’s foot!] With my hubs sitting next to me totally unaware of this scene, the guy gently but firmly holds the calf of my leg and starts dabbing at the marked spot on my pant leg.

It was an awkward, but totally sexy moment.

While he concentrated on the task at hand, I concentrated on studying him. He had closely cropped fine chestnut hair with a slight dappling of white on the sides. His hair was the soft and silky textured kind. The kind you just REALLY want to run your hands through. He has a chiseled jaw and strong arms. He has etched lines on either side of his mouth; that turned into dimples when he smiled. As he worked on the mark, his bicep flexed and stretched in the early evening sun; his shoulders and chest were defined and slightly exposed through his drab army green tank top. In that moment I fantasized leaning in to the crook of his neck to nuzzle and kiss and lic….at that moment, he was done. He looked up at me. The green shirt made his pale green eyes bright as they kind of bore in to me. For a second, I was transfixed. With that, I smiled and thanked him. The interlude was over. He then returned to his back of the house spot.

A few minutes later, he startled me as he came up from behind. I jumped when he came from seemingly out of nowhere. He placed his hand on my back and whispered in my ear. The music was loud; [what is it about musicians always turning up the volume as the night goes on??] so one is forced to lean in to hear. Okay, maybe for THAT reason, I didn’t mind the loud.

“Let me buy you a beer, please. I insist. Let’s see, you must be having a ‘Haz me, bro’, right?”

This place has some great names for their custom brews, from “Haz me, bro’” to “Needs More Cowbell”, the reader board with the current offerings always puts a smile on my face.

“Yes! I’m impressed you can tell just by looking at it”, I said, now fully recovered from the shock/joy of him bending down so near me.

“Can I buy him one too?” he said with his head inclined towards the hubs.

“Honey! He wants to buy you a beer! Do you want another one?” The hubs, so engrossed in the music, didn’t notice that the guy was so close to me…or maybe he did. Maybe he didn’t mind.

He came back with the beers and I invited him to sit at our table, across from me. He preferred to kneel between me and the hubs. They talked music for a bit. I sipped my beer and listened, joining in occasionally.

The house band played one of their usual songs, a danceable one. The regular dancers were there, along with a few new ones. The cute boho couple [*boho* a style reminiscent of the 70s, hippie movement.] The woman had a long flowing dress on, Birkenstocks, and a floppy brimmed hat. Her partner was decked in jeans and a t-shirt with a heavy metal graphic on it. There was our regular sweetheart 80-year-old! A spry wisp of a woman who can go so low and crouch down and back up without a hitch! Puts even the 30 year olds to shame! Turns out she’s a former go-go dancer from back in the day – Rowan & Martin’s Laugh-in! She loves to tease the conga player, and make him blush as she gyrates her hips close to him right at his eye level.

Two beers in and I was up there with them, hips moving, arms floating, hair tossing, feeling free and open, and sexy, and well, a little tipsy. I caught him watching me as I moved. Or maybe he was watching the guitar solo…hmmm, hard to tell. But there was a fresh beer waiting for me back at our table.

After the last set had finished I went to where he was standing to thank him again for the beers. It was then that I found out his name, and learned a bit more about him. I laughed at his words, gently touching his forearm as I did. I have an instinctive thing about touching an arm in order to secure one’s attention. I don’t even realize I do it, really. But this time it wasn’t instinctive, it was intentional.

All that flirting was fun. I’ve never done it right in front of the hubs before. It was harmless, really. As we walked to our car, I looked back at him. He was looking too. I turned back and smiled.

Hope I see him again…the dog, I mean


**If I had named my pet after my fav liquor…it would be Tito – would be a good name for a pet, dontcha think?

What about you? Are you a harmless flirt?

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~~~" Someone I loved once gave me a box full of darkness. It took me years to understand that this too, was a gift." --Mary Oliver~~~


lindoboy100 58M
23884 posts
8/31/2021 1:46 am

Great story, thoroughly enjoyed the read McBustster, you're a very engaging writer!

You do realise that Sherpas have almost super-human powers of stamina and strength in the face of extreme adversity and in very harsh environments dontchya? That's an almost perfect description of the weird and wodnerful world of a.f.f, no?

Flirting is always fun, not always sexy, sometimes harmless, sometimes not. It's difficult not to be tactile when you're flirting.......but, well, Covid!

Nada más que fallas......


bustinout20202 replies on 8/31/2021 9:30 am:
Thanks McKilty! Appreciate the comments! Yes, spot on descriptive of TSdates.com world!
So in a post Covid world, there should be lots of tactile flirting, winking and "come hither" eyes, no?!
~McBusti

bustinout20202 64F  
929 posts
8/31/2021 1:48 am

And which do you prefer...large dogs or little??
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~~~" Someone I loved once gave me a box full of darkness. It took me years to understand that this too, was a gift." --Mary Oliver~~~


spunkycumfun 61M/66F
39291 posts
8/31/2021 2:22 am

I've been told that I'm an outrageous flirt. Flirting is good fun whether it leads nowhere or somewhere!


bustinout20202 replies on 8/31/2021 9:31 am:
I totally agree with you, Spunky! How outrageous a flirt are you???

staci_19702 51T
2453 posts
8/31/2021 3:25 am

What a night! What a great read. I was almost there watching it unfold.
I’m a harmless flirt. Have to be. 😝
For a while, there was group of ladies who would go to ladies night at a local club. Somehow I wound up being their designated dance partner. Once a week I was in charge of making sure they had a great fun and safe night. Just fun to flirt.
We like medium size. Have a mixed retriever now.

Have a great day! 💋
Staci


bustinout20202 replies on 8/31/2021 9:33 am:
Hey Staci! I haven't gone out with the ladies in God knows how long!! Safety in numbers!
Thanks for stopping by!
~Busti

Uncutejosi 66M  

8/31/2021 4:25 am

I like big Dogs ...nice to see big one


bustinout20202 replies on 8/31/2021 9:34 am:
I'm partial to big dogs too...but that is a whole 'nother story!!!
Thanks for stopping by!
~Busti

Paulxx001 64M
21892 posts
8/31/2021 4:34 am

LOL... So you notice that 'thang' bands do with the volume knob? 🤔

We'd slowly crank the levels as the night matured. It was fun to watch men and women get up REAL close to each other just to be heard. Men do it — so's they can smell her. But by the time our 'slow dance' set began, whispers were irrelevant; lips were too busy.

I like the sound of that pub; I think I'd have a good time there. 😎❗ ❗

Harmless flirt — moi? Sure...
I guess it depends on what you mean by harmless. I was always ready to tap out a beat if she sang me a song I liked. 😶


bustinout20202 replies on 8/31/2021 9:38 am:
Ah, so there's a method to that volume madness!!??
I get it!
Come on over! I'll buy ya a brew! Bring your sticks and tap me a beat!!
I'd sing "Papa Come Quick" if that helps!

CleavageFan4U 64M  
68283 posts
8/31/2021 6:00 am

WOW, I wonder how long it took him to train Jaeger is that VERY sophisticated pick-up scenario!

For sure I'm a "harmless" flirt, but that doesn't mean the same thing as an "innocent" one.

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bustinout20202 replies on 8/31/2021 9:39 am:
I know,right?! Just the right amount on my jeans leg
Just the right amount of dabbing
Just the right kind of night, if we'd had more time!!

Realandready103 57M
17 posts
8/31/2021 6:12 am

You sexy flirt..


bustinout20202 replies on 8/31/2021 9:41 am:
Thank you!!! Back atcha!

Kalbi54 66M
1387 posts
8/31/2021 8:44 am

Not me, I'm not a "Smooth Operator"


bustinout20202 replies on 8/31/2021 9:42 am:
Well, just by your most excellent reply, you are!!!
Thanks for stopping by!
~Busti

spunkycumfun 61M/66F
39291 posts
8/31/2021 12:38 pm

    Quoting spunkycumfun:
    I've been told that I'm an outrageous flirt. Flirting is good fun whether it leads nowhere or somewhere!
I've got into loads of trouble with my flirting where people have mistaken my flirting for much more than the words!


Paulxx001 64M
21892 posts
8/31/2021 1:08 pm

'Accomplish', you mean the Bonnie Raitt version?
Yeah!

She's SO smooth. Everything she's ever done, is crystal . And really nice. Am I repeating myself? You know what I mean.

I'd listen to her all night. It would be extra special if there was a soft cheek leaning on my shoulder, with lips, periodically pecking me.

Do you know what I mean?

Tell me more about that pub. I don't need their set list.

I'll wing it. ❗❗😎
I'll bring my own sticks and some attitude.


Paulxx001 64M
21892 posts
8/31/2021 1:31 pm

Of course... I'd be polite and ask them, if I could step in... for a song or two.

When we'd play, occasionally there would be a ton of other bands, watching us, with their girlfriends and stuff.

At one point, it would be a throw away song, but we'd invite all the other musicians on stage — to take over for us... for THAT song.
What, a fucking classic! 👍
Yep...
I'd flip from my kit, to my brother, or another drummer in mid song ; we had to.

lol 😂 😮


tablesexisbest 46M
683 posts
8/31/2021 3:25 pm

Good read, im not a very good flirt in a stranger situation. Love a good flirty and play with words too. I'm a one ljners pun on what we're walking about, always manage to turn conversations into sex discussions no matter what te harness topic is.


citizen4722 63M  
73455 posts
9/1/2021 8:02 am

I very much enjoyed reading that.
I'm more of a hopeless flirt but I do need to get myself another dog.


bustinout20202 replies on 9/1/2021 9:24 am:
I'm tellin' ya, dogs will get the chicks everytime!!

DanielZwat1950 71M  
367 posts
9/3/2021 6:27 am

Some times! I love it when that happens!


bustinout20202 replies on 9/3/2021 8:24 am:
I know, right?! It was so fun!!

Erogedyne 69M
894 posts
9/3/2021 8:04 am

From the stage, I've witnessed countless similar scenes evolve in front of me. Not all work out so pleasantly as the one your describe. However the thing that I wanted to mention is that you should not underestimate the effect your dancing can have on the folk in the band! Part of the reason I perform is to people watch from a distance. (I'm a bit of an introvert) I've had dancers make me smile or even laugh. But, a dancing woman with "hips moving, arms floating, hair tossing, feeling free and open, and sexy" has on occasion, distracted me to the point of losing my place in the music. Sometimes I think they view it as a challenge to distract the musicians. I do enjoy it, but thank goodness they aren't successful all that often!

I really enjoyed your story, thanks for sharing!

Please check out my latest blog post "Happy Thanksgiving To One And All"


bustinout20202 replies on 9/3/2021 4:42 pm:
Thanks so much for the read, Eros! I have to admit, back in the day I was a bit of an exhibitionist on the dance floor. Okay, sometimes even now, I can be that way! But I do get a little reticent when I see the patrons' iphones in landscape mode! lol

Erogedyne 69M
894 posts
9/5/2021 5:16 am

    Quoting Erogedyne:
    From the stage, I've witnessed countless similar scenes evolve in front of me. Not all work out so pleasantly as the one your describe. However the thing that I wanted to mention is that you should not underestimate the effect your dancing can have on the folk in the band! Part of the reason I perform is to people watch from a distance. (I'm a bit of an introvert) I've had dancers make me smile or even laugh. But, a dancing woman with "hips moving, arms floating, hair tossing, feeling free and open, and sexy" has on occasion, distracted me to the point of losing my place in the music. Sometimes I think they view it as a challenge to distract the musicians. I do enjoy it, but thank goodness they aren't successful all that often!

    I really enjoyed your story, thanks for sharing!
Quoting bustinout20202 on 9/5/2021 8:12 am:
But I do get a little reticent when I see the patrons' iphones in landscape mode! lol

Why get reticent? It could be your shot at your 15 minutes of fame! LOL!

Please check out my latest blog post "Happy Thanksgiving To One And All"


bustinout20202 replies on 9/5/2021 9:01 am:
Ha! True!! My Andy Warhol Moment!!

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