Why so hard///  

decorahfun 50M
15 posts
11/6/2017 7:10 am
Why so hard///


Hello, have you ever wondered why its so hard to even get nyone to chat with you??? Is it the system not allowing messges thru? or is it they just don't get them? Well it seems like everytime i do finally get someone talking, the system acts up and i never see them again. Anyone else have this issue??

BiggLala 49F  
30157 posts
11/6/2017 9:33 am

No, you're the only one with this issue.

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redrockrascal 63M
23536 posts
11/6/2017 10:10 am

    Quoting BiggLala:
    No, you're the only one with this issue.
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Brownie202 64F  
2666 posts
11/6/2017 10:32 am

I am a standard member but can answer most mail. Every so often a answer will not send. Once a month or so I am notified I have mail but it's not showing. Used to show up later or the next day. Now not at all.

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MissCinders 56F
1533 posts
11/6/2017 1:07 pm

Did you ever think that no one is obligated to chat with you? Men, women, here do what they want, when they want, with whomever they want. You might want to chat with the person you are attached to and see if you really need to be here.


lyavu 48F
1537 posts
11/7/2017 4:47 pm

Most pple just ignore messages.


funplay4couple 58M/58F  
6 posts
10/16/2020 2:37 pm

lyava is correct.... After having been on here a very long time (nearly 20 years) and knowing that chatting is just a waste of time we haven't looked for them in many-many years. While we are always looking for more fun friends we have found that when someone contacts us with a good email the chances are a lot higher that we could have a connection. Especially if that first email gives a good first impression. Actually a great email to us pretty much gets our interest.


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