She thinks the Desire Means I Don't Love Her  

desire2share63 58M/55F
35 posts
2/4/2017 5:09 pm

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She thinks the Desire Means I Don't Love Her


Stuck in a crossroads. I have burning desires to see my wife shared whether it is in my presence or maybe even on her own. She has my blessings. As this discussion comes up periodically, she tells me that I am strange all while her pussy gets sopping wet. The occasions the discussion continues she eludes to the fact that I can't love her and want her shared. I have not been able to convince her otherwise. Sadly we get older and she is missing out on a pass most would love to have.

Mr Desire


whymeanu2 65M
22 posts
8/4/2017 1:23 am

well said wild bill


desire2share63 replies on 12/2/2017 5:06 pm:
Yes it was

desire2share63 replies on 12/17/2017 9:19 am:
Thanks for taking the time to stop in and respond

spwildbill77 63M  
83 posts
8/1/2017 7:38 am

What she may not understand is the male maturation process. When we are young, men typically adopt a greedy attitude.."it's mine". They don't even want other guys to look at their wife let alone touch her. Some of this stems from immaturity in the belief that they may not be good enough and the wife will leave them for a better man if she finds one. Over time, the man realizes his wife loves him and does not want to leave him. The man advances to the next level which is trying to prove her desire to stay, no matter what. He desires to tempt her to see if she will go or stay.The more he tempts her and yet she stays, he comes to realize she will not leave for a "better" man because she wants to retain the memories or the past with you. So now that he knows she will never leave, he desires to make her happy in every way...including sexual satisfaction. However, because time has passes, he can no longer go all night or cum 6 times a day, yet his desire is to see her satisfied to the point of complete surrender. He crosses the line into the next level - separating sex from love. If sex is fun for her and becomes recreation rather than a display of "love", anything that gives her stimulation is good. It goes in degrees. Since men are stimulated more by sight and then by thought...seeing her engage in sexual activity is the best - and live is better than toys. Thus another cock or two or more is the absolute best. Watching her fuck is wonderful to see. If you can't be there but get a detailed account - that is great. Imagining what she is doing on her own is a huge mental stimulation.


desire2share63 replies on 8/3/2017 10:38 am:
That seems to be one of the best descriptions of this that I have seen. It all seems to fit me to a T.

whymeanu2 65M
22 posts
6/5/2017 2:12 am

we live in the same state an have the same desires an unfortunately it seems the same results wanting to share my wife also


desire2share63 replies on 6/6/2017 11:59 am:
I hope it works better for you than me Why.

Rancher4unow 71M
9 posts
5/28/2017 11:34 am

Yes a Catholic up bringing and being from the Philippines it is very understandable that the women there are very sexy and hot, However reserved until they get here to the States. I thank Mindinao for my son. Been there at Dole fields and loved the three months in Country for sure.

Your lady is very hot and I would love to see her wet from the thought that you desire her to be used by others and to be a art of same. Come visit my ranch here in VA anytime folks you are definitely welcome!!!!!.


desire2share63 replies on 6/6/2017 11:58 am:
Thanks Ranch.

peachpicker64 57M  
6 posts
3/25/2017 3:38 pm

I say if it feels good do it as long as both of you are happy with the results


iwillravishu 57M  
80 posts
3/23/2017 11:33 am

There is a book and an article called "sperm wars" that describes the desire for men to witness this with those they love ... you may wish to share that with her.

I'd like to meet you both... even if just the flirting sends here sloppy wet pussy home to you!!


Leegs2012 48M
86322 posts
3/21/2017 5:55 pm

    Quoting Leegs2012:
    Go for it!! We need to have fun with other people. My feeling is.. as humans, we need to have sex with other people out side of the relationship...and that is a good thing for some people..not many. What ever floats you boat. I swing with my girlfriend...and I love watching her have sex with other guys and girls. Good luck, I hope all works out for you. BTW: Your wife has sexy...sexy legs!! Very Nice!!
You are so very welcome!!


Leegs2012 48M
86322 posts
3/18/2017 3:16 pm

    Quoting  :

Very Nice!! I would love to watch that!!!!


desire2share63 replies on 3/21/2017 11:27 am:

Leegs2012 48M
86322 posts
3/18/2017 3:15 pm

Go for it!! We need to have fun with other people. My feeling is.. as humans, we need to have sex with other people out side of the relationship...and that is a good thing for some people..not many. What ever floats you boat. I swing with my girlfriend...and I love watching her have sex with other guys and girls. Good luck, I hope all works out for you. BTW: Your wife has sexy...sexy legs!! Very Nice!!


desire2share63 replies on 3/21/2017 11:25 am:
Thanks Leegs

htflipwife33 52M/48F  
33 posts
2/14/2017 8:25 am

First of all, if your wife is Filipino it's a natural reaction due to her Catholic upbringing. I would suggest taking a vacation or a long weekend away. Florida has some very sexy couples places, and resorts catering to the lifestyle. What worked for us originally was sexy couples dance parties at upscale hotels. It gave us a chance to mix and mingle socially with no pressure. Your wife can dress as sexy as she likes as all the women there do. The dance floor can be a very erotic place. Couples get very frisky as the evening proceeds. We have always enjoyed these scenes which are very low pressure and safe. As the evening progresses, along with a couple of stiff drinks, all tension disolves with the pulsating beat of the music. Seeing that you're at a hotel, you can go back to your room and your wife can come back dressed in an even more sexy outfit as others often do. Florida has these types of places. And I'd suggest that you check them out. Watching is very erotic. Watching other couples, watching your wife dressed very sexy around them, and finally watching your wife loosen up and respond to it. Good luck.


desire2share63 replies on 2/24/2017 9:21 am:
Thank you, very informative....

BiVaCpl4u 62M/52F
86 posts
2/12/2017 9:18 am

We believe you have to love each other very much to share them with someone else without it destroying your relationship!!!


desire2share63 replies on 2/12/2017 12:20 pm:
Absolutely makes sense

desire2share63 58M/55F
68 posts
2/8/2017 1:58 pm

Love the way you think

Mr Desire


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