Meetups and hookups...  

dirtywifey1980 39F  
408 posts
6/2/2019 12:53 am
Meetups and hookups...

Have you ever met up with anyone from this site?
Nope, not yet.
Yes, once but we didn't do anything sexy.
Yes, once and it was HOT!
I've hooked up a few times with people I met here.
Hell yea, I fuck people from here all the time!
I'm not looking for physical meetups or hookups.

3649 posts
6/2/2019 1:35 am

KX450F2016 49M  
29 posts
6/2/2019 4:27 am

A few times, but was usually a one time thing. Maybe twice. I haven't in years tho

backpocket13 42M
7286 posts
6/2/2019 5:04 am

Hey Darlin,
..........I’ve probably personally met about Ten people from on here,.......Most of them bloggers but also a few single ladies and a pair of couples for the occasional threesome,..........
Sinfully Yours, backpocket13

downtown0669 52M
53 posts
6/2/2019 5:17 am

It's been slow going the last few years. Why wouldn't you meet at a public place first over a drink or coffee?

Mancrotchwatcher 57M
113 posts
6/2/2019 6:20 am

Twice. Fun.

CleavageFan4U 62M  
57161 posts
6/2/2019 6:38 am

I've learned that the blogger-babes are the most fun and reliable companions. I've met...well let's just say enough to make me sure of the previous statement.

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CleavageFan4U 62M  
57161 posts
6/2/2019 6:39 am

    Quoting backpocket13:
    Hey Darlin,
    ..........I’ve probably personally met about Ten people from on here,.......Most of them bloggers but also a few single ladies and a pair of couples for the occasional threesome,..........
    Sinfully Yours, backpocket13
I agree - the blogger-babe road is a winning one!

Natural Boobs are Everywhere
Big, Old, and Frankly a Bit Nasty, but
Own Thing, on HNW
Private Cleavage My Private Blog - Tell Me ALL Your Secrets

warmbuns46 72M  
12 posts
6/2/2019 6:59 am

meet him twice. first time face fucked and ass pounded.
2nd time face fucked

Traveldude999 60M  
94 posts
6/2/2019 7:52 am

In Las Vegas just the other week 😉

proteus_2a 53M
6820 posts
6/2/2019 8:22 am

Cheers- P

BobbyM36608 60M  
48 posts
6/2/2019 10:21 am

Met one woman, years ago. She was so drunk/high, I walked away. The only other time was a couple. Had a (short)good time with the lady, but the male half couldn't "rise to the occasion". He was embarrassed, she was embarrassed for him. I thought it best to quietly withdraw. Never went back to either.

One very hopeful prospect currently.

SingleItalianGy2 47M
758 posts
6/2/2019 1:07 pm

Yes....exactly ONCE. It went so horribly wrong that I NO LONGER use this site to meet.

MrPlayTime_ 39M
2 posts
6/2/2019 1:44 pm

Yes, met a few, through chatting and messages.

MyPlayBed80x120 57M
9 posts
6/2/2019 2:24 pm

I was going to vote but couldn't. You had no option for: "Yes, once but it was NOT hot".

zeke53028 60M
869 posts
6/2/2019 5:30 pm

I met with a woman from here once. IT DID NOT GO WELL. She has a nice profile and looks like her picture. Our emails were pleasant and a little sexy. But within the first 5 minutes of sitting down she said, "I need to know that whoever I get involved with can support me in the lifestyle I'm a-tuned too." She wants to know my net worth and expects me to support her! WTF!

Daddyluvs2lickit 68M  
26 posts
6/2/2019 7:10 pm

Yes.... and have had a few long term playmates..

olderboy48 69M  
50 posts
6/2/2019 10:20 pm

Its been sporadic, but I have had several get togethers with folks as a one time and multiple time encounters. I have met some very interesting people and had some wonderful encounters.

6427 posts
6/2/2019 11:59 pm



amkamk48001 51M/49F  
248 posts
6/3/2019 9:31 am

Yes and we ended up getting married

1quietguy35404 70M
22 posts
6/3/2019 11:08 am

a lot of talk but no meets

1seeking1 53F
1767 posts
6/3/2019 12:23 pm

I have made some good FWB.. people overthink hook up just go to nearest bar and see..I am looking for a little more then that.

bitchkitty2017 66F  
3956 posts
6/3/2019 12:31 pm

yes voted and met a couple nice single guys here who was and still is very respectful of my disability we always have alot of laughs and fun...

Carrion322 45M
2 posts
6/3/2019 12:41 pm

I guess I’ve met up with a couple women from here. One completely misrepresented here appearance online, and the other meetup was exhausting: Drove @3 hrs round trip to pick her up, then worked a full shift, then fell dead asleep. Next day drove her home again & back to work. All we had time for was @45 minutes of a groggy morning bone. I only did that commute for one reason: she’d mentioned her paternal twin sister would probably have joined us. Met her, but I wasn’t Abercrombie enough.

undercover_bi469 54M
236 posts
6/3/2019 2:01 pm

Been on here off and on for over 10 years. Met with 3, all one time things. A lot of talkers, very few doers.

idblueswoman 60F  
488 posts
6/3/2019 2:28 pm

I have met people through the years. Not really into "hookups" too damn old for that bullshit

Jay10063 55M  
148 posts
6/3/2019 4:26 pm

Haven't hooked up with you yet, ready to change that?

HoneySeekerFun 66M  
24 posts
6/3/2019 4:30 pm

Been here about a month as a standard member. I get many IMs, flirts, messages from individuals that are either phishing or from impractical distances.

Have had about six contacts that I initially thought might be worth exploring. One jumped from hello to claims of falling for me, only to admit later she was hoping I would move her across country and give her room and board in my house with me and my wife...🤪. A second one, still pending, may be more honest, wanting a fuck buddy relationship... but she is insisting on coming to my house... another non-starter.

The remaining 4 talked a good story up until they wanted me to go to an outside website to to verify that I was free from past offenses and STDs. All those sites were blocked by my cyber security service as high risk of phishing my financial information. They wanted me to believe that a website could clear a person for STDs without physical test. As prevalent as these devious (or ill informed) people are on TSDates, it would be nice to have a way to control this behavior.

There are ways to verify without depending on unsafe internet services. Would be great if TSDates gave us all the ability to report this behavior. If TSDates gets enough reports on an individual, they could have a rational basis to kick them off TSDates.

Similarly, too many profiles state they are from a particular location, only to find out they are hundreds and thousands of miles away. This is another misrepresentation that TSDates could control.

Yes, I know... wishful thinking. I may just have to accept the wild state here on TSDates...OR... just head back to the bars and clubs.

Maybe this site will feel different if I upgrade to Gold... thanks for reading.

Sbb4bbc76 42M
2 posts
6/3/2019 4:32 pm

Still looking to get fucked

blademaster70 48M
206 posts
6/3/2019 4:59 pm

Several ladies over the years, some a few times, others once or twice. Two or three were fwb that I still stay in touch with off site. Happy to add, the meets were definitely HOT!

sniflicksuck 53M
47 posts
6/3/2019 6:10 pm

Met a few people from here was talking and end up meeting and did what we did 😉 wasn't bad 😊 still wish i had that sexy freaky neighbor to cumm over😈

Nicolecd1966 52T
18 posts
6/3/2019 7:31 pm

I have met some really nice and fun people on here and we had some real fun when we got together!!

SouthernFreak91 28M
24 posts
6/3/2019 8:48 pm

wish it was more consistent

oralholic 58M
35 posts
6/4/2019 2:08 am

Met a cpl of real people,lot of bullshitters though

brandini734 24M
96 posts
6/4/2019 3:42 am

Yes, I have had a few fun encounters with some of the l members here. Both singles and couples alike. Most of them were very friendly people and I really enjoyed my time with them.

prfctcock4u2 43M  
1 post
6/4/2019 7:14 am

YEs. Only been on here for a short while. Met one woman....very cute, sweet and sexy. Had some fun and looking forward to our next meet up!

SlutsHereICum 56M  
12 posts
6/4/2019 7:15 am

I've met some awesome ladies from this site, But still seeking a playmate for weekly hookups.

licklixlic 50M
23 posts
6/4/2019 7:38 am

met a few people from here, only hooked up with two of the many

Zozinni 48M
2 posts
6/4/2019 8:36 am

I love this site, but could attract more women.

idblueswoman 60F  
488 posts
6/4/2019 11:37 am

    Quoting  :

Idiots who won't meet in a public place should be more cautious. Too damn risky.

yumehole 53F  
37 posts
6/4/2019 1:41 pm

I have met with many from this site its been lots of fun.

moonie12556 62M  
35 posts
6/4/2019 4:09 pm

Most of the time it's difficult to find women because I travel for work to remote spots. Everything is miles away and it's always too far for most. I would drive out for the right person and host even. funny how profiles says willing to relocate but won't consider anything more than 20 miles.

looking4u69ca 58M  
451 posts
6/4/2019 5:54 pm

You needed an 'Other" option. Met more than one. None of it was good.
One was a complete hog and another just wanted to, borrow, money.

Tstststs68 50M
10 posts
6/4/2019 6:11 pm

Most people don’t even chat. I only get IM from guys older than me.

gypsy1121 55M
16 posts
6/4/2019 7:18 pm

I love this site! I have been here for a long time! I have made so many hookups from here .... It has been a really great sexy adventure. Girls and Couples. I travel a lot all over the world!! I have met people in almost every country I have visited!! Almost all of them have been some very wild sexual adventures! Many of the people I still keep in contact with!!

happytongueslave 48M
1 post
6/4/2019 7:20 pm

Yes, once, but it was a long time ago and in Cali. It was pretty fun, but not quite hot. Wish I could find someone near me.

Magosika3 29M
177 posts
6/4/2019 7:26 pm

2 times

welcome to my chats and spats

1Daddy60 61M  
22 posts
6/4/2019 10:07 pm

A gentleman never tells.

FixxerDerek 36M  
39 posts
6/4/2019 10:11 pm

Have a great prospect right now! Fingers crossed

ludo20061 28M
17 posts
6/5/2019 1:21 am

yes once, was fun

Yours_4A_knight 54M  
1103 posts
6/5/2019 2:03 am

I have met a few women but it was several years ago and I was and am notthe right person for them

Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.

Needseloveing 55M
1 post
6/5/2019 3:25 am

No not yet but I am sure looking forward to it

AnewWoman 60F  
21 posts
6/5/2019 5:10 am

I've met with several decent people over my 8 years on this site. All but a few became ongoing FWB's. Never went for travelers or those seeking one night stands. Had some good times.

Just another day in paradise living my dream
Standard members should be able to view my profile and message me.

Papawforyou 61M  
6 posts
6/5/2019 9:59 am

I have had several encounters with singles and couples, they have all been great. Communication prior to the meeting is the key.

Fun guy here for guys and girls, only 14 mi from downtown Nashville

puss1207 58F  
99 posts
6/5/2019 10:55 am

Heck yes but the fwb was trying to get way too serious had to say see yay ....

Patriiiick713 33M  
1 post
6/5/2019 11:03 am

Can't say that I have, unfortunately. I've had far better experiences using actual dating apps.

markymarky696969 38M
37 posts
6/5/2019 11:53 am

Haven’t got to the point where I know someone enough to meet them x

exit17couple 55M/49F  
80 posts
6/5/2019 12:19 pm

We’ve met a few singles and couples..Most didn’t get past the coffee date..take the keyboard away and people have no idea how to have an actual conversation..

fitguyinchi3434 34M
5 posts
6/5/2019 2:27 pm

Had some very hot times with some ladies and couples!!

Volcane1234 41M
2 posts
6/5/2019 3:12 pm

Got to meet a couple of guys who have really made me think about what I want, and do I care about gender.

Realised that I'm not bi, but that I am just open to the opportunities afforded me...

Mainly, a damn good cock sucking...

MomoBear1 68M/33F  
319 posts
6/5/2019 6:24 pm

Had over 100 men and 6 couples with dirty slut bifems like my wife from the site in past 6 years all of the men she sucked and took cocks in pussy and ass loving it all, and her skill with pussy eating, tongue fucking is amazing. My wife a a total cock, cum and pussy loving slut willing to take whatever we get her and happy to pleasure all

Fuklikedogs 48M
1047 posts
6/5/2019 6:31 pm

Nope. IDK if it’s because I’m a standard or my profile page. Just added a pic recently. I’m thinking most are flaking around.

Loves2Lick4869 48M  

6/5/2019 8:28 pm

It seems to me most on here are just talkers, I haven’t met anyone from here, doubt I will, about to quit.

happydance1979 40M
204 posts
6/5/2019 9:04 pm

Yes, always coming here looking for dating, but lately it is more and more difficult for standard members to chat with other members, and even more to date...

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longstroke4xxxx 47M
59 posts
6/5/2019 9:19 pm

I've hooked up in the past....looking towards the present!!!

barracuda05 49M
27 posts
6/5/2019 9:26 pm

I agree with you. Most people wont meet in public first for some reason. I think it is just more simple and easy to meet in public first. If all is well... go have some hot wet fun.. if not, bid each other a good day and be on your way.

Used to live in Durham, now in the Wake Forest Area.

barracuda05 49M
27 posts
6/5/2019 9:29 pm

    Quoting  :

Guys can be stupid about meeting like that. I like to meet in public first, enjoy a coffee and then see if we want to move someplace more fun or head our own way.

Wake Forest here.

Time4FunNMore 99M

6/5/2019 9:34 pm

Yes, I have met people from this site, but it was several years ago while living in New England, not in AZ. I haven't even upgraded on here yet, because so far I haven't even had anyone message me back. The site has changed quite a bit since I was on before.

stezy_ 35M
10 posts
6/6/2019 2:13 am

once wish it happen more oftten

shogun_269u_II 57M
78 posts
6/6/2019 5:13 am

I have three times...once with another married guy he came so quick in my mouth then just left it was not good! Second time was with another married guy was able to keep him from cumming in my mouth for about 20 minutes really enjoyed but have not had another chance. Final time was with a absolutely gorgeous sexy married lady! Absolutely incredible kisser! Fantastic lover with the most incredible tight pussy! Would love to meet up with her again but understand her husbands problem no longer is a problem so may never get the chance again

photispittas 38M
70 posts
6/6/2019 5:16 am

Well i guess in the States is more frequent to meet some one since the population is huge...but in small countries that is reduced dramatically.
Also another factor is membership and what kind of member you are!!

DLjustfun 34M
1 post
6/6/2019 5:56 am

Yes, however i stopped midway because of hygiene issue with the female.

Tpp50 50M  
2 posts
6/6/2019 5:31 pm

I looking to hook up

Tpp50 50M  
2 posts
6/6/2019 5:34 pm

Im looking to hook up

6567Cuda 53M
14 posts
6/6/2019 5:53 pm

I have met a few from time to time its been good so far

FkBuddy4u69x 35M
3 posts
6/6/2019 8:20 pm

Ive met a few from here, one was fun the other wasn't

FkBuddy4u69x 35M
3 posts
6/6/2019 8:22 pm


K1_Morisato 41M  
4 posts
6/7/2019 12:36 am

Have met people a number of times and a few of those times we've ended up hooking up. Most of the time though (especially in the last 5 or so years), either they never show up and stop responding when gets to the time we're to meet. These days 99 times out of a hundred the people don't respond. Not sure when the last time I actually talked to someone on here with it actually leading to meeting, much less hooking up.

K1_Morisato 41M  
4 posts
6/7/2019 12:40 am

    Quoting  :

All sites suck for meeting up these days.

mrsinfullysxy 52M  
7 posts
6/7/2019 1:45 am

One person twice and both times very hot. Nothing in awhile. Wishing for more but seems like IM keeps messing up and blocking messages.

Pal4Perks 58M  
34 posts
6/7/2019 1:51 am

Nope, not yet. Hopeless!

1 post
6/7/2019 8:06 am

can't even read messages sent to me in the hopes of meeting anyone!! sites like these are just false advertising to make money!!

johnt999x 57M
11 posts
6/7/2019 1:23 pm


its_only_me_here 47M  
3 posts
6/8/2019 12:47 am

There a couple of people I could meet. Still early, just came on here a couple weeks ago

hedonyst2011 53M  
4 posts
6/8/2019 6:45 am

It takes time and consistency but I have met some great people from here. Some have become just friends, others have become regular playmates. I do wish there were fewer scammers and bots, but there are enough real people on here to enjoy and have fun.

LongJ0hn022 28M
22 posts
6/8/2019 7:33 am

Just once

rubberbunslicker 44M
129 posts
6/8/2019 8:47 am

I am always down to make new friends...

ChopTank62 67M  
65 posts
6/8/2019 10:22 am

I suppose I have been lucky through selectivity. A plain Hookup does not float my boat as I no longer have an urge to put another notch on my headboard. I have met a wonderful and passionate man for love making every few weeks. I have met a wonderful couple but we have not gotten naked yet. But I repeat, it is all about selectivity and having my own Red Flags that are instinct and I listen to them. No real little head vs big head issues here. Sort of difficult when you are truly bisexual but love to eat pussy too! Scares the homophobic spouses away!

vortex3505 55M/54F  
1 post
6/8/2019 12:01 pm

We have been lucky enough to meet some great people here, I guess it totally depends what you are looking for.... We generally would rather get to know people a bit and enjoy all aspects of the open lifestyle rather than slam bam and see you later, we still laugh every time we get a message from guys that start out with.... Nice Tits or wanna Fuck..... It is what it is....

morbojugando 49M
33 posts
6/8/2019 6:48 pm

Aquí encontrarás con la mayoría mucho respecto

CocLuvr7in 60M
33 posts
6/8/2019 9:01 pm

i have hooked up with 3 different guys, sucked all three and swallowed there cum. but only 1 of them fuck my ass, i would love to be fucked more...

doubledownRC 34M
15 posts
6/8/2019 9:51 pm

A few, but nothing that stuck. Would like something for longer term but alas.

lborg 48M  
1 post
6/9/2019 1:04 am

I have hooked up many times with people from this site. Even dated one of the women for months the sex was so hot. I want dirty wifey to be next. What do you say sweetie pie you ready for me. Let's play

thorvelasco2 50M
2 posts
6/9/2019 6:12 am

I have had one successful meet from this site. It was after a long string of chats of getting to know each other. I know it's risky, but I met him at his place. I was a nervous wreck but he was calm about it, no pressure, what ever I wanted to do. I mostly make friends on here.

1Hemiguy1 56M
94 posts
6/9/2019 2:54 pm

Have met a few. Some good some not so good. I always say masting and even if only friends after that's ok by me. Always nice to have a new friend. To many people judge the book by the cover though. I say it's what's inside that counts more. Can you actually have a conversation !

need2chew 57M
18 posts
6/9/2019 4:05 pm

no yet but still looking for the right lady

1hardcock00 55M
10 posts
6/9/2019 5:36 pm

I have met a few women on here for sex was great

TongueRyder 48F  
6 posts
6/9/2019 8:44 pm

I've had great success on this site. Some one nighters/hook ups after meeting in public, Some not too much sexual chemistry but cool people to chat with. Had to 2 great FWB. Just having some clean, sane fun!

max_steel56258 35M
5 posts
6/9/2019 9:51 pm

the site is great

tastemeY 52M
30 posts
6/10/2019 3:19 am

I've met many wonderful women, men and couples over the years here. Some for friendship, and some for good clean safe sexual fun!

Luv4me33 54M
32 posts
6/10/2019 7:53 am

Never even talked to anyone local..... i guess they are not interested in meeting

Greyhawk48 49M  
68 posts
6/10/2019 7:55 am

I have met up with a few back when the site was decent and was part of a local group. It seems it’s gone downhill quite a bit in the last few years from what I’ve seen.

sdknudist 64M
43 posts
6/10/2019 5:58 pm

This site use to be easier to use then it is now. Too hard to now to hookup.

sexybunny4love 52F  
263 posts
6/10/2019 8:24 pm

Yeah, been a member for a while now, made a few friends and lovers, both men and women (bi). It's been a wild ride. Have travelled for fun as well, esp for swingers events with my lovers. Good clean fun minus the strings or hassles, you know. Cheers!

~ Dare to be different ~ sexybunny4love

giggitygoo04 33M
1 post
6/11/2019 11:02 am

It's been my experience that people talk alot but rarely follow through. I e met several off this site and I have never stood anyone up. 2 come to mind that were very fun and would wish they would start playing again.

lokingforfun82 38M
10 posts
6/11/2019 1:15 pm

It's been a long time since I've hooked up with anyone on here. would love to find something regular.

Nedwood66 53M  
1 post
6/11/2019 1:23 pm

Met one person in the pub. We had a nice kiss, but that was it.

I get the sense that all the cute girls get bombarded by thousands of messages, that I never have a chance.

dexthemax 44M  
2 posts
6/12/2019 8:31 am

Yes once and it was alright.
Lots of fake profiles trying to IM and IM's are not working on my end...
bit silly

johnm2475 43M  
60 posts
6/12/2019 8:51 am

If you are a married man on here, then you almost have no chance of meeting a lady that is married or got a bf or single, and no chance of meeting a couple either

pizzaguy692253 52M
24 posts
6/12/2019 2:31 pm

Have met a few women on here. Also have been with couples. One the wife kicked her husband out because he wasn't able to keep it up. We ended up fucking the whole night and I left telling him what a great fuck she was.

Dirkk2019 32M
28 posts
6/12/2019 4:00 pm

I’m new and still fishing lol

fahrenheit451x2 56M
44 posts
6/13/2019 3:26 am

The people and expectations on this site are somewhat unrealistic. I've spoken with several people and actually met with one person that turned into a passionate summer before they would end up moving away. Again, that was two normal people, with normal expectations.

TakeThisChance30 30M
11 posts
6/13/2019 11:12 am

Only once, so far. Hoping for many more. Especially with a couple.

kapsel1975 43M
6 posts
6/14/2019 3:45 am

One time after just 4 weeks...was a hot and long friends with benefits relationship...

rohit_1611 38M/43F
19 posts
6/14/2019 5:08 am

yes once.... but mostly people are fake

DETSwitch 55M
71 posts
6/14/2019 7:50 am

I voted:
I've hooked up a few times with people I met here

The very first from here that I actually met turned into LTR very quickly and we ended up living together for a little over a year. We each had kinks the other wasn't into, but had a lot of sexual fun just the same.

I've had multiple NSA encounters with several others I met from here, including my first FFM experience. However, these represent only a very small minority of profiles where two-way messaging was even established. Lots of sifting through and sorting out of phishing attempts, links to pay-per-view cam sites, and others who simply wanted to banter about sexual kinks and fetishes but nothing further.

As an on-again, off-again member for the past several years, I've noted a sharp decline in the quality of TSDates of late. I've been a Gold member before, but am having reservations about ever doing that again.

DETSwitch 55M
71 posts
6/14/2019 7:56 am

    Quoting Nedwood66:
    Met one person in the pub. We had a nice kiss, but that was it.

    I get the sense that all the cute girls get bombarded by thousands of messages, that I never have a chance.
Actually, most of those are models who are outright victims of identity theft. The vast majority of those profiles are merely fronts for scammers either trying to lure you to a commercial cam site (pay-per-view, of course!) or else they are merely phishing.

That said, there are F profiles here belonging to real women who actually do turn out to be who and what they say they are.

longstroke4xxxx 47M
59 posts
6/14/2019 6:30 pm


rm_milddomme 53F  
1 post
6/14/2019 10:33 pm

I met a woman from here and it was her first time exploring with another woman so she was very nervous. She got very drunk and passed out while I was using the strap on cock with her.

GentleTallMark 60M
2 posts
6/15/2019 4:52 pm

I first joined in 2000 and finding "real" women wasn't that difficult and most were very upfront and honest about height, weight, marital status, and their photos were date stamped since there were only digital cameras available then, no cellphone cameras.

This is my third time joining as a Gold Member since then, and the site is now full of scammers, fake profiles, and some real nut jobs. Finding one real, sincere woman to meet is like finding a needle in a haystack. They are here, but exceedingly difficult to find. The odds of finding a great FWB here are now astronomical.

Blueeyedfreak86 33M
4 posts
6/16/2019 12:28 am


bonehard6999 53M
13 posts
6/16/2019 9:10 am

Plenty but rarely anyone local,usually at least hours drive away

Hotkinkcpl69 33M/26F
13 posts
6/16/2019 1:47 pm

Just trying to get points

hirajind 37M
43 posts
6/17/2019 2:01 am

Meeting real people is difficult

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