Rudeness...4.C.O.L.?  

fkmeallnitelong9 50F  
153 posts
10/3/2016 9:08 pm
Rudeness...4.C.O.L.?


SERIOUSLY-- FOR CRY'N OUT LOUD !!! I received an email from a man outside of the USA today that was strange to me. He complimented me on my profile and pictures then asked for additional pictures. I informed him that all my pictures are on this site already (RIGHT...NOT). He then bothered to email me back again to say that the pictures I have posted "are crappy ones anyway". I then told him to stop looking at them. He actually replied back "OK". REALLY, just a bit ago they were cool. I've never had a person 'flip the switch' sooooo fast. Maybe I have just been lucky and not had to deal with rudeness. How about anyone of you??? Any stories you care to share??

GreenEyedGuy1968 53M
144 posts
1/8/2020 8:39 pm

WARNING: This may get long.

Lady F, I won't apologize for some other asshat's rudeness and immaturity. Male or female. The douchebag you encountered is the way he is for whatever reason. and we will never know why. Sometimes there is no fixing stupid, no matter how hard you try. Just block him and be done with him, like others have recommended.

As for MY own dealings, I have encountered women that were just as bad.
I saw a lady "Looking for a fun distraction! Busy working mom of 2 just wanting someone to explore with." that I thought I would hit it off with. (Yes, that is the sum of the parts of her profile, sue me. Mini-Me was hoping she looked like her picture.)
I messaged her a few times and sent her a FR after she checked my profile a few times. No responses. Friend Request? Same.
A few weeks later she accepts the FR and I send her a message saying thanks. And another 3 notes over the next 2 weeks. Again, nothing.
I figure one more time and thank her again for accepting the Friend Request and wanted to know when she was available to talk, at which time she says... she's not interested. So... "Why accept the FR?" says I.
"Numbers, sheer numbers." is her reply.
So why accept it if you're NOT interested? You guessed it. No reply. I don't get it.

I have another one which was pretty crazy on IM last year where the girl "Looking for discreet fun!" sends a flirt, and an IM request. But her profile was mostly empty. So I reply to the IM and ask her about the profile and say I was just wondering what she looks like and what she might be looking for in a partner, since it wasn't there. Here's a sample of the IM starting with her response:
HER:
when do you want to get together?
5/2/2019 6:09 pm
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ME:
Interesting question.
How about after we knock a few questions out first?
5/2/2019 6:32 pm
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HER:
what question do you have for me?
5/3/2019 7:38 am
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ME:
What do you look like?
There's a start
5/3/2019 11:17 am
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HER:
i;m very open minded. i love to try new adventures.
5/3/2019 2:30 pm
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ME:
I bet you are.
But that doesn't answer the question, does it?
So... what do you look like?
"I have photos upon request." should have made that easy to answer.
5/3/2019 2:34 pm
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HER:
dude what are you asking???? if you know what I like, read my profile. It is very clean. if you want a picture, just ask for it. that simple!
5/3/2019 2:55 pm
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ME:
Right. Simple. I asked you what you looked like since your profile doesn't say.
You told me bs about being open-minded and adventurous.
I repeated the question.
You give me more bs and say if I want a picture, just ask.
Then you started a new window and I ask again AND ask for a picture, then you give me more bs about collecting pics and then say you don't want to meet anyway. Sounds pretty fake. Goodnight.

Sorry for such a long answer, folks.
And sorry for your experience, Lady. But I really am glad that I'm not the only real person this bs happens to.
Thanks for listening, folks.
Happy New Year!


fordfire4 46M  
284 posts
10/31/2019 9:42 pm

It's the fragile male ego that so many on here seem cursed with that leads to the mentality of "how dare you to not drop everything you are doing to jump in bed with me right now!!!" Yes, it is a sex site, but way to my have forgotten that it is real people behind the screen names and that mutual attraction is paramount.
You are a beautiful woman, don't let the idiots get you down.


fkmeallnitelong9 replies on 10/31/2019 10:45 pm:
I agree with that insight..i appreciate the time u took to add to my thoughts

Iwanaliku2 59M  
68 posts
3/20/2018 4:01 am

Just proves theres an ass for every seat... don't let the bastards get you down...


fkmeallnitelong9 replies on 3/20/2018 8:45 pm:
thank you for your comment...I appreciate it

fadey66 58M
43 posts
2/12/2018 7:45 pm

you have a beautiful body and I have a beautiful and wonderful rod that can meet with some add friend thank you


fkmeallnitelong9 replies on 3/20/2018 8:46 pm:
thank you for the compliment

Apollorising2057 61M

12/12/2017 12:18 pm

Good grief how unromantic!

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fkmeallnitelong9 replies on 12/20/2017 5:26 pm:
I agree

Leegs2012 49M  
92525 posts
3/20/2017 4:41 pm

What a critic...oh well.. you look fine to me!!


fkmeallnitelong9 replies on 3/20/2017 4:54 pm:
...aaawwwww...thanks Leegs2012

Otis_Good 69M
4023 posts
1/8/2017 6:57 pm

He sounds like a big titty baby


fkmeallnitelong9 replies on 1/11/2017 6:35 pm:
I agree Otis...he's a BIG BOOB happyf;

rdy2try4 56F  
3305 posts
11/29/2016 8:08 am

I am going to post to this because honestly the rudeness level can't be explained at times. I just recently had a man contact me about helping him with his profile. Okay, no problem, that is what I am partially here for - helping out newbies and such. I did that and then helped on his photos. I noticed something he had posted in his blogs and I 'mentioned' to him that this may not go over well as it was posting personal type information on people. Although he didn't use names he was posting they had diseases and criminal records and stuff. Knowing that many people wish to have some sort of reasoning to why a person may quit talking to them, which he did have a blog about that as well, I VERY POLITELY told him that I didn't feel comfortable talking longer than we did for fixing his profile and photos and it was because of this blog posting and privacy issue to me. He then blocked me and is now going around telling everyone that I contacted him, I was rude and nasty, and saying that I have been calling him names. I have not said one bad word nor called one name.


Sadly, on the internet anyone can post anything they want truth or lie and people believe crap no matter what. There are too many people that can't handle being told "no" and get all childish about it and then go on to either insult like you posted or make fake posts twisting facts to try to justify their bad behavior. I do not condone it, but it happens constantly and especially online. As Bigglala said "Negging" is a big thing with guys no matter how many times we tell them no one wants that crap they are willing to hold out and continue bad behavior in hopes of getting one to listen and then get some p*ssy. They would rather go a year without anything hoping for that one rather than listen to what behavior is actually going to work and make an effort to get something rather than nothing.


I will never condone the fake posts whining about how they got rejected when in fact their own behavior caused it. It is sad that supposed adults do this crap too.


fkmeallnitelong9 replies on 11/29/2016 10:02 am:
thank you for your comments and I COMPLETELY AGREE with all you said...

goodatpoetry2 72M
16552 posts
11/24/2016 4:35 pm

It's a shame that many women here have to put up with rude comments.
Some men think that they are entitled to... something.
But they're not.

Just block any rude people that you see. Soon you'll be surrounded by really nice people.


fkmeallnitelong9 replies on 11/24/2016 9:41 pm:
thank you and I agree

scoupe42 58M  
13027 posts
11/14/2016 10:53 am

Some people are fu**ed up!


fkmeallnitelong9 replies on 11/14/2016 6:58 pm:
LOL....I couldn't agree more with that SADLY

N1c777776 42M  
208 posts
11/8/2016 6:48 am

Sadly men can be jerks sometimes. Please accept my apology by proxy for this sad member of my sex.


fkmeallnitelong9 replies on 11/8/2016 10:14 am:
thanks for the comment, I appreciate it{=}

proteus_2a 56M
7979 posts
11/1/2016 1:22 pm

Just a cross section of todaay's society my lady
Along with the elusive impression of anonymity
- not giving any extra thought there, just a case of
Road Rage. One handed, and on a keyboard


Cheers - P


fkmeallnitelong9 replies on 11/2/2016 6:00 pm:
well said...thanks

Trapper69 64G  
2612 posts
10/20/2016 10:12 am

It's best just to ignore idiots like that..... Sadly, there seems to be A LOT like him on here..... Perhaps, they get off on insulting others?????


fkmeallnitelong9 replies on 10/20/2016 11:03 am:
GOOD point, I didn't think of that{=}

BiggLala 49F  
30157 posts
10/4/2016 7:48 am

If you haven't heard of it, look up 'negging'. What dude did is an example of it...insult you (women) to get you to do what he wants by proving the 'neg' is not true (ex. you think my pics are crappy? well here, what about these pics?).

Negging doesn't work on some women, but it's effective on enough women that PUAs keep doing it.

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fkmeallnitelong9 replies on 10/4/2016 9:17 am:
GREAT POINT, thanks

Pasionnfun 61M
202 posts
10/4/2016 1:32 am

I would say the worst rudeness is not getting a reply at all of which I have had happen TOO many times.

]If I ate a pussy today Id be ecstatic
If I ate two pussies today its likely Id die of heart failer.


fkmeallnitelong9 replies on 10/4/2016 9:16 am:
now I do agree with that

dayzeeme 53F
7024 posts
10/3/2016 9:54 pm

yes, there are a lot of men like that here. You don't give em exactly what they want, they turn on you quicker than grass through a goose.


fkmeallnitelong9 replies on 10/3/2016 9:57 pm:
..well said, thanks

ProfPlayful 58M
3861 posts
10/3/2016 9:54 pm

My dear, all of your photos are beautiful, and that loser is full of excrement.

And your blog has a new reader.

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fkmeallnitelong9 replies on 10/3/2016 9:56 pm:
OMG thank you for the compliment!

fkmeallnitelong9 50F  
2465 posts
10/3/2016 9:09 pm

I bet there are a lot of these out there


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