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fkmeallnitelong9 51F  
152 posts
6/29/2016 8:02 pm

I've always wondered this...if your woman cheats on you BUT it's with a HOT CHICK, does that make it MORE ACCEPTABLE??

easyrider4008 66M
2563 posts
1/26/2022 8:36 am

It is still cheating and there is still the risk of std's

fkmeallnitelong9 replies on 1/26/2022 12:21 pm:
true words thanks

Freaky789u 43M

11/19/2020 8:03 pm

Beautiful ass baby

fkmeallnitelong9 replies on 11/19/2020 8:27 pm:
thank you for the compliment ..i appreciate it

Luckeylover8 65M
118 posts
7/27/2020 7:40 pm

I would not class it as cheating....In a way it would turn me on big time.

fkmeallnitelong9 replies on 7/27/2020 8:14 pm:
now that is the answer i thought i would hear from most for your time

discreteSteve62 50M
2169 posts
9/18/2018 7:09 am

Two year old question, but it's a good question, so here goes.

I have said that if she has the urge for a woman, just be safe about it. Specific permission in advance would be nice. Telling me the naughty details would be hot. If I can watch some of the time, that's great. And if the other woman is into men too -- and interested in me[i/] -- that's fantastic; I'd love to try a threesome, or just have a turn with her too. But as long as her fun with another woman doesn't interfere with us, no problem.

I'd like to say that I'd OK with her and another man too, as long as it's safe and pleases her and doesn't interfere with us, but I'm not, except maybe in the context of another couple where I get to play with the other woman. Intellectually, I don't want to have a double standard, but emotionally it's there.

As for cheating, that's when the agreed rules of the relationship are violated. In our case, it would mean an unsafe woman partner or taking too much time or energy away from us.

fkmeallnitelong9 replies on 9/19/2018 3:01 pm:
I agree with what you stated ….thanks for your opinion also

dafocker44 63M  
986 posts
11/27/2017 2:45 pm

Cheating is cheating! Him and her, her and him, him and him, her and her!

[I]Da Focker!!

fkmeallnitelong9 replies on 11/29/2017 4:03 pm:
that is what I think as well...thanks for your view

Travel_Couple69 56M
1604 posts
8/11/2016 1:42 pm

the joke is a man finds his woman in bed with another woman and hes pissed off he wasnt invited....a man finds his woman in bed with another man and hes pissed off she's cheating on him....

fkmeallnitelong9 replies on 8/12/2016 12:28 pm:
there's the rub, huh?

Yours_4A_knight 57M
1502 posts
7/27/2016 9:48 pm

I think I am a little late to the party, but if she is enjoying herself and it is taking nothing from me, unless she wants to invite me along, then it is no business of mine. Of course i would expect her to have the same feelings about me being with someone else.

Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.

fkmeallnitelong9 replies on 7/28/2016 12:36 pm:
that's the perfect open relationship

cutty240 61M
37 posts
7/3/2016 3:45 pm

Cheating is in the eye of the beholder. Some people don't want to know whats going on. Telling a lie is different all together.

fkmeallnitelong9 replies on 7/3/2016 5:45 pm:
excellent point

dan_nl_2006 40M
1117 posts
7/1/2016 3:41 am

Cheating is not telling. period.

If you care and share , then it doesnt matter if its man or woman

fkmeallnitelong9 replies on 7/1/2016 10:18 am:

Leegs2012 49M
96134 posts
6/30/2016 2:11 pm

I have an open relationship with my girl. I love watching her with men & women, and if she goes out with a guy or's all good

fkmeallnitelong9 replies on 6/30/2016 3:45 pm:
that sounds PERFECT

MikiBrasil001 34M
309 posts
6/30/2016 8:26 am

For a guy its sometimes acceptable,especially if it ends up being a 3some

fkmeallnitelong9 replies on 6/30/2016 10:36 am:
I can see where that would change things around

forgotforgetting 56M
8134 posts
6/30/2016 7:45 am

As you can tell, there is one answer to this question. It's all a matter of perspective and your circumstances. Perhaps the answer is in reversing the roles? If your partner was having sex with a good looking man would you consider it cheating? I think the answer to one should give you the answer to the other.

“Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.”
― Oscar Wilde

fkmeallnitelong9 replies on 6/30/2016 10:35 am:
good point

reallyready46 63M
1383 posts
6/29/2016 10:17 pm

Not if I get invited to join in.... All joking aside if you have an open relationship then its not cheating. So yes it still is cheating.

27 posts
6/29/2016 9:42 pm

if the couple is on here - no

fkmeallnitelong9 replies on 6/29/2016 10:03 pm:
HONEST answer there..thank you!

crownandlaughs 54M

6/29/2016 9:01 pm

what was that...preoccupied with that perfect ass!

fkmeallnitelong9 replies on 6/29/2016 10:02 pm:
funny there

pacouple0902 47M/43F
13 posts
6/29/2016 8:25 pm

Depends on your rules. We are honest and she could have a girlfriend without me and it's fine., but if I didn't know or agree to it, then it is cheating.

A hot woman would probably be less acceptable by most because then you are more jealous.

fkmeallnitelong9 replies on 6/29/2016 8:31 pm:
now that makes perfect sense

Oldyogi2022 59M  
25 posts
6/29/2016 8:20 pm

It's only cheating if you get caught , kinda like , it's not speeding till you get pulled over .

fkmeallnitelong9 replies on 6/29/2016 8:30 pm:

hottar69 66M
37 posts
6/29/2016 8:13 pm

My only rule is don't lie to me. If she want to bed a woman, just tell me. If she doesn't then we have a problem. I will not put up with lying.

fkmeallnitelong9 replies on 6/29/2016 8:30 pm:
thanks for your thoughts

benard69 64M/64F  
6298 posts
6/29/2016 8:10 pm

If she shares then it's OK....

fkmeallnitelong9 replies on 6/29/2016 8:28 pm:
good attitude

sphxdiver 72M
21063 posts
6/29/2016 8:03 pm

It's still Cheating, I don't care how you cut it, and say it.

Cheating is cheating, period !!

fkmeallnitelong9 replies on 6/30/2016 10:37 am:
thanks for your view

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