Do you like me?  

heartshapedcock2 38M
290 posts
12/20/2016 5:01 am
Do you like me?


Ladies; that is the question I pose to you. A lot of you are very nice to me on your blogs, but I can't tell if you're just being nice or you genuinely like me based on my replies and attraction based on pics. I am much better in person... Sorry if this post is weird, I'm just very lonely...

heartshapedcock2 38M
1863 posts
12/20/2016 5:02 am

Trying to get in better shape, on a vegan diet (worked in the past) so I can take new pics.


tangledup735 63M
86 posts
12/20/2016 6:21 am

Male perspective ... I'd almost adopt the lawyers' principle to never ask a question if you don't know what the answer is going to be. "Nice" responses on blogs don't count - at that level you simply can't know whether a comment represents interest or amusement at what you've written or typical "bloggers' enthusiasm".

You have to be proactive - reach out using email or IM, maybe following up on a blog exchange, make it personal without being intrusive, find a way to say that you're interested in and attracted by her and see what happens ... Of course, you need to be prepared for no response or an automated "I get lots of emails ..." message and nothing more.

Its also about mindset - don't think "I'm just very lonely", make a conscious decision that you are not going to be lonely any more and act on that decision. As cocksuckinmilf (love the name!!) says, presenting yourself as weak or needy or negative is almost guaranteed to be unproductive. Think of it this way: how is someone else going to be interested in you if you appear uninterested in yourself?


itsallfantasy 54F  
1063 posts
12/20/2016 6:43 am

I post and answer in blogs that interest me. I don't answer blogs because I want to fuck someone. Too many guys seem to think women that write in blogs are actually wanting their dick. I am not saying you are doing that, but you mentioned attraction and you are lonely. Hell, if a woman even says thank you or hello there is a number of jackass men out there that think it means we want your dick. DO NOT THINK THIS!! I agree with the others, don't ask a question you may not want to actually hear the answer to.


tangledup735 63M
86 posts
12/20/2016 7:00 am

    Quoting itsallfantasy:
    I post and answer in blogs that interest me. I don't answer blogs because I want to fuck someone. Too many guys seem to think women that write in blogs are actually wanting their dick. I am not saying you are doing that, but you mentioned attraction and you are lonely. Hell, if a woman even says thank you or hello there is a number of jackass men out there that think it means we want your dick. DO NOT THINK THIS!! I agree with the others, don't ask a question you may not want to actually hear the answer to.
Good comment. Indeed, some (many?) guys would do well to read some of those "wow, you answered me, can I fuck you!!" type posts and think "do I really want to appear to be like that?".


heartshapedcock2 38M
1863 posts
12/20/2016 11:30 am

    Quoting  :

Thanks, lol. Same here, although I'd rather have a drink with you.


heartshapedcock2 38M
1863 posts
12/20/2016 11:32 am

    Quoting cocksuckinmilf:
    Let me give you some advice.......NEVER ask if someone likes you or likes your pictures etc. Be confident enough to be yourself. Talk with women, send them pics etc, but never ask those questions. If they do you will know it, and if they don't you will know it. I hate when men ask me these things. Makes them appear weak and needy for a pat on the back.....or ass. Just my opinion. Good luck to ya!
I like getting pats on the back and ass. I might be a little needy, not weak though. It doesn't really matter, everyone who blogs is 1000 miles away anyways. I was just curious, no big deal.


heartshapedcock2 38M
1863 posts
12/20/2016 11:34 am

    Quoting itsallfantasy:
    I post and answer in blogs that interest me. I don't answer blogs because I want to fuck someone. Too many guys seem to think women that write in blogs are actually wanting their dick. I am not saying you are doing that, but you mentioned attraction and you are lonely. Hell, if a woman even says thank you or hello there is a number of jackass men out there that think it means we want your dick. DO NOT THINK THIS!! I agree with the others, don't ask a question you may not want to actually hear the answer to.
So, you don't want my dick? What the hell? Thanks for your comment.


BiggLala 49F  
30144 posts
12/20/2016 12:41 pm

I've complimented you on your cock before (based on your pic), and have commented a few times on your posts...I think I've been nice. Does that mean I like you? Nope, it just means the title caught my eye and what your wrote was interesting enough for me to comment. I don't know you or anything about you to know whether I'd like you or not.

I think this is a difference between male and female bloggers here. Guys primarily read/follow women bloggers they're specifically interested in sex with (some will deny this) or that they're sexually attracted to. Women primarily follow/read bloggers who spark their mind [male or female] or who they perceive as nice guys, they might also be attracted to the male but not always. I say all this to say...don't get wrapped up in thinking a woman interacting with you on your blog and being nice as indication of interest...unless she specifically says so.

Sorry that you're lonely. Hope you can find some company soon.

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itsallfantasy 54F  
1063 posts
12/20/2016 12:58 pm

    Quoting heartshapedcock2:
    So, you don't want my dick? What the hell? Thanks for your comment.
No, I don't want your dick. ALL MEN HAVE DICKS, NOT BEING A DICK IS THE TRICK!!

I will quote BiggLala here : I say all this to say...don't get wrapped up in thinking a woman interacting with you on your blog and being nice as indication of interest...unless she specifically says so.

There are enough men in love with their own dicks that they don't need women. You are more than welcome to worship your dick, don't let anyone stop you, just don't expect others to be as fascinated with it nor want it the way you do. LOL


heartshapedcock2 38M
1863 posts
12/21/2016 3:25 am

    Quoting BiggLala:
    I've complimented you on your cock before (based on your pic), and have commented a few times on your posts...I think I've been nice. Does that mean I like you? Nope, it just means the title caught my eye and what your wrote was interesting enough for me to comment. I don't know you or anything about you to know whether I'd like you or not.

    I think this is a difference between male and female bloggers here. Guys primarily read/follow women bloggers they're specifically interested in sex with (some will deny this) or that they're sexually attracted to. Women primarily follow/read bloggers who spark their mind [male or female] or who they perceive as nice guys, they might also be attracted to the male but not always. I say all this to say...don't get wrapped up in thinking a woman interacting with you on your blog and being nice as indication of interest...unless she specifically says so.

    Sorry that you're lonely. Hope you can find some company soon.
Mmmm, thanks for your compliments. I appreciate you commenting on my posts. I guess I posted this just out of loneliness, just to interact with women. I know you don't know me, but you and I are still real human beings interacting with each other.


heartshapedcock2 38M
1863 posts
12/21/2016 3:27 am

    Quoting itsallfantasy:
    No, I don't want your dick. ALL MEN HAVE DICKS, NOT BEING A DICK IS THE TRICK!!

    I will quote BiggLala here : I say all this to say...don't get wrapped up in thinking a woman interacting with you on your blog and being nice as indication of interest...unless she specifically says so.

    There are enough men in love with their own dicks that they don't need women. You are more than welcome to worship your dick, don't let anyone stop you, just don't expect others to be as fascinated with it nor want it the way you do. LOL
I was just joking with my reply, but thanks for replying nonetheless.


author51 58F  
126353 posts
12/21/2016 3:34 am

I like that you have posted on my blogs and appreciate it.I always return the favor when a blogger does that.One has to get to know someone more in order to say whether they like them or not..So far I do...


heartshapedcock2 38M
1863 posts
12/21/2016 3:39 am

    Quoting author51:
    I like that you have posted on my blogs and appreciate it.I always return the favor when a blogger does that.One has to get to know someone more in order to say whether they like them or not..So far I do...
Thanks baby, the feeling is mutual


itsallfantasy 54F  
1063 posts
12/21/2016 6:41 am

    Quoting heartshapedcock2:
    I was just joking with my reply, but thanks for replying nonetheless.
I figured as much, but due to some of your posts in your blogs and even this one I wanted to err on the side of "just in case" you were not. Some guys on here are NOT joking and ARE assholes like that. Trust me, I get enough emails from those asshats that I know it happens. It is sad that so many guys, not necessarily you, are just so freaking childish that they think everything revolves around them and their dicks and that women should be worshiping their dick. They watch too much porn in my opinion. LOL


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