Question for AFF Women...  

heartshapedcock2 38M
290 posts
1/2/2017 4:40 am
Question for AFF Women...


Have you ever interacted or got an email from a man on this site who at first you didn't like, but later on he grows on you? Maybe a few new pics or vids, or maybe you read his blog and liked what he wrote.

Conversely, maybe you meet a guy whose profile you loved, but then he turned out you don't like him. Has this ever happened to you?

heartshapedcock2 38M
1863 posts
1/2/2017 4:41 am

1st impressions...


author51 58F  
126353 posts
1/2/2017 4:45 am

Sure has and often..I have had wonderful chemistry online with a few then met them face to face and nothing.Vise versa as well with ones where online there was no chemistry but I met them anyways and had an amazing lunch date with them.One actually became my FWB I had for 8 months.


heartshapedcock2 38M
1863 posts
1/2/2017 4:49 am

    Quoting author51:
    Sure has and often..I have had wonderful chemistry online with a few then met them face to face and nothing.Vise versa as well with ones where online there was no chemistry but I met them anyways and had an amazing lunch date with them.One actually became my FWB I had for 8 months.
Niice! I like those kind of endings, I always root for the underdog.


Naughtypursuit 54F  
2736 posts
1/2/2017 4:59 am

Yes to both scenarios


heartshapedcock2 38M
1863 posts
1/2/2017 5:05 am

Thanks for your input


TicklePlease 53F  
13689 posts
1/2/2017 6:04 am

Honestly, my first impressions have usually been pretty spot-on. I'd never meet someone that I didn't have a strong sense of chemistry with beforehand... that just feels desperate to me. I've got to WANT to meet them, not just meet them because I don't have anyone else to meet.

But yes, there's been quite a few times when the online chemistry was FAR greater than the in-person version.


heartshapedcock2 38M
1863 posts
1/2/2017 6:27 am

    Quoting TicklePlease:
    Honestly, my first impressions have usually been pretty spot-on. I'd never meet someone that I didn't have a strong sense of chemistry with beforehand... that just feels desperate to me. I've got to WANT to meet them, not just meet them because I don't have anyone else to meet.

    But yes, there's been quite a few times when the online chemistry was FAR greater than the in-person version.
Thanks...


Jspydr 48F
68 posts
1/2/2017 7:11 am

Yes, works both ways. Sometimes profile sounds good but later when you converse you find nothing interesting. Other times you meet the person and there is no conversation. Stimulating r attraction gotta have when u meet the person, when you meet to get to next step.
Am pretty sure that is the same with the guys out there? And your experience?


BiggLala 49F  
30144 posts
1/2/2017 7:16 am

First question, just once, but I didn't change my perception about him because of 'new' pics/vids. The second question, happens quite often.

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heartshapedcock2 38M
1863 posts
1/2/2017 7:54 am

    Quoting Jspydr:
    Yes, works both ways. Sometimes profile sounds good but later when you converse you find nothing interesting. Other times you meet the person and there is no conversation. Stimulating r attraction gotta have when u meet the person, when you meet to get to next step.
    Am pretty sure that is the same with the guys out there? And your experience?
I've never met anyone from here for dates, just meet and greets


heartshapedcock2 38M
1863 posts
1/2/2017 7:56 am

    Quoting BiggLala:
    First question, just once, but I didn't change my perception about him because of 'new' pics/vids. The second question, happens quite often.
What did change it then?


heartshapedcock2 38M
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1/2/2017 8:23 am

    Quoting  :

Wow, he just asked you out of the blue to fuck in the car? They must be some crazy dudes up there in Canada...


BiggLala 49F  
30144 posts
1/2/2017 8:30 am

He was someone I was introduced to through the blogs and my first impression of him, based on his comment on a post where we argued ( lol ), was that he was an asshole. Over time, our take on various topics were the same or very similar, so we realized we shared many of the same views on things (speaks to the portion of your question about blogs changing your mind). Our friendship and attraction developed over time after that.

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heartshapedcock2 38M
1863 posts
1/2/2017 9:06 am

    Quoting freenez14u2:
    Well normally if something turns me away on their profile then that's the end of it. But I have had some that I found interesting or whatever who's real colors shown through after a few emails. But that goes for everyone and why it's important to feel out eachother first. Saves time and effort for later.
Thankyou for commenting...


heartshapedcock2 38M
1863 posts
1/2/2017 10:49 am

    Quoting  :

As fun as hooking up sounds fun,having a relationship is better.


heartshapedcock2 38M
1863 posts
1/2/2017 12:43 pm

Mmmm, well you should definitely be proud of what you have between your legs. So pretty, tight and shaved... As always I appreciate you stopping by and commenting.


heartshapedcock2 38M
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1/2/2017 12:44 pm

    Quoting  :

Sorry I forgot to quote you, that above comment was you babe.


itsallfantasy 54F  
1063 posts
1/8/2017 7:29 am

    Quoting  :

I can't agree with this more, sorry to day. I finally have that I am not even here to chat because even the ones I did chat with (or try to) have gone directly to let's fuck within 2 or 3 emails and that is not my thing. I could just walk into any bar and have a guy jump and hump me and it isn't a turn on to be seen treated that way. He gets off and I get nothing... NOT!! When they ask first and foremost for a blow job that is all I can think of - service him and fuck myself - NOT happening!! I like sex, but not feeling like that.

I agree porn makes men think this is what life is about, thank goodness not ALL men, but the majority of them do.


heartshapedcock2 38M
1863 posts
2/2/2017 1:25 am

    Quoting SunshineSmile6:
    It has happened. But usually the first impression helps me to decide.
Thanks for commenting cutie...


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