Why do women like big cocks as opposed to small cocks?  

heartshapedcock2 38M
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12/26/2016 11:06 pm
Why do women like big cocks as opposed to small cocks?


I was on a YouTube binge and came across a video discussing the subject matter. The guy said there was a study saying women in prehistoric times, when everyone walked around naked, women sought out dudes with large flaccid penises. Something to do with more chance of the sperm meeting the eggs. I've also heard bigger cocks feel better.

heartshapedcock2 38M
1863 posts
12/26/2016 11:07 pm

So what do you ladies think? Why do you like bigger cocks, or does it not matter?


rick315875 63M

12/26/2016 11:27 pm

I was on YouTube and came across a video that discussed that very same subject.
Does size matter? Some women said yes, because it just feels better. Some women said no, what matters is if you know how to use it. And some women said, thickness matters, not length.


porterpiper1 54F
3755 posts
12/26/2016 11:28 pm

It is almost the same reason men like women with large breasts, mmmmmmmmmmmm, But not all women want a man with a large penis, I am one of those women who can't handle a large penis it is painful to me, men always want to put their entire penis inside you, not all women can take 8 inches or larger


rick315875 63M

12/26/2016 11:52 pm

Then there is the question do you spit or swallow, when you suck a guys cock? Some women said they swallow. When asked why. They said out of courtesy to the guy, not because they particularly like it. Some women said, they spit. And some women said, they don't like the guy to cum in their mouth at all. And in some woman said, they don't like giving a guy oral sex. So the answers vary.


author51 58F  
126353 posts
12/27/2016 1:11 am

    Quoting porterpiper1:
    It is almost the same reason men like women with large breasts, mmmmmmmmmmmm, But not all women want a man with a large penis, I am one of those women who can't handle a large penis it is painful to me, men always want to put their entire penis inside you, not all women can take 8 inches or larger
I am the same.The largest I can take is no more than 8 inches and it is how you use it for me and not the size that matters...


heartshapedcock2 38M
1863 posts
12/27/2016 4:36 am

    Quoting porterpiper1:
    It is almost the same reason men like women with large breasts, mmmmmmmmmmmm, But not all women want a man with a large penis, I am one of those women who can't handle a large penis it is painful to me, men always want to put their entire penis inside you, not all women can take 8 inches or larger
What about it is painful?


heartshapedcock2 38M
1863 posts
12/27/2016 4:41 am

    Quoting author51:
    I am the same.The largest I can take is no more than 8 inches and it is how you use it for me and not the size that matters...
I just hear girls all the time talking about so and so had a big dick, all the profiles on here seem like they want a hung guy etc. I just think it's funny, especially when it's a super dainty petite chick saying she wants hung.


heartshapedcock2 38M
1863 posts
12/27/2016 4:47 am

    Quoting porterpiper1:
    It is almost the same reason men like women with large breasts, mmmmmmmmmmmm, But not all women want a man with a large penis, I am one of those women who can't handle a large penis it is painful to me, men always want to put their entire penis inside you, not all women can take 8 inches or larger
Mmmmm, so I think what you're trying to say is, when a woman sees a big cock, she just thinks it looks scrumpcious, despite whether it might feel painful. Kind of like when I see big breasts, I just wanna play with them, lick them, put whipped cream on them, do all types of things to them lol.


heartshapedcock2 38M
1863 posts
12/27/2016 5:08 pm

    Quoting  :

I don't remember how they discovered their theory, like I say I was on YouTube binge and somehow ended up on the video. The question have I have yet to have answered is why do women, such as yourself like long cocks? I can see why you wouldn't want a fat cock, your pussy looks super tight. I'm not soda can fat, but I'm over 2inches in diameter.


heartshapedcock2 38M
1863 posts
12/27/2016 11:59 pm

    Quoting  :

Mmmmm, thanks for your answer.


itsallfantasy 54F  
1063 posts
12/30/2016 10:29 am

Here is a medical fact... A LIMP, BIG PENIS DOESN'T GROW MUCH!! A SMALL, LIMP PENIS INFLATES MORE!! So why would anyone think something so ignorant, it amazes me it always comes back to size. I can see if it is so small it falls out - it mattes, I can see if it is so large it hurts - it matters. Only about 1% of the male population is over the average size and about 1% is under the average size. So why all this worry over it????? You can't change it so work with what you have and be happy. Learn techniques as you have seen many women prefer one thing to another and we are not all the same.

I think porn has people thinking about size more than anything and all our lives we have been told 6 inches is 8 inches etc...

BTW, why it hurts is that it feels just like you feel if someone kicks your groin area!! When a man is so huge and rams us it doesn't feel good.


heartshapedcock2 38M
1863 posts
12/30/2016 5:05 pm

    Quoting itsallfantasy:
    Here is a medical fact... A LIMP, BIG PENIS DOESN'T GROW MUCH!! A SMALL, LIMP PENIS INFLATES MORE!! So why would anyone think something so ignorant, it amazes me it always comes back to size. I can see if it is so small it falls out - it mattes, I can see if it is so large it hurts - it matters. Only about 1% of the male population is over the average size and about 1% is under the average size. So why all this worry over it????? You can't change it so work with what you have and be happy. Learn techniques as you have seen many women prefer one thing to another and we are not all the same.

    I think porn has people thinking about size more than anything and all our lives we have been told 6 inches is 8 inches etc...

    BTW, why it hurts is that it feels just like you feel if someone kicks your groin area!! When a man is so huge and rams us it doesn't feel good.
I don't really think your stats are accurate, you can looks at the videos here and see more than 1% who are above average. Also you can change your size, there are many procedures to get a bigger cock, provided you have the green. Tbhe point is, I see all types of profiles on here looking for hung men, but none saying "I'm looking for a guy with an average/ small cock.


itsallfantasy 54F  
1063 posts
12/30/2016 6:50 pm

The men that are on the site often DO make the photos and things look larger. It isn't that difficult to do if you know how to use a camera. They also are not the majority of the world on here. It is a well known fact the stats I quoted, not something I made up. As for changing your size, unless you actually have surgery it isn't going to change and MOST men are not going to do that. Messing with the dick is not really something many want to do when the outcome usually is a lack of feeling and performance in the long run.

As for the profiles, again, no one is going to write a profile and HONESTLY as for something less than what they perceive as the best, not even you. I have seen women, quite a few, that actually DO say they want someone that is normal not huge. I am sure you are not reading all the profiles on the site, no one could!!! There is way too many of them. As you noticed MOST women prefer a guy that knows what the fuck he is doing rather than have a big dick and BE a big dick. LOL Most women have never seen a 10 inch dick live as most women aren't out there banging 500 men!!! I repeat, we have been told all our lives 6 is 8 or 10. LOL It may be interesting when they see it, but once they find out he is a selfish asshole that only wants to ram it in with no regard for the women they are done. Normal guy that wants to get her off - IS IN!!


NickiH100 53F
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1/8/2017 6:03 pm

Hey there, wow, some of the answers are way out there, huh? I think we all have a certain size that feels best for each of us. Sometimes thickness or length will get to the right spot to bring us to orgasm, and let's face it, that's what we all want! However, some commented on knowing what to do as well. A confident man that can anticipate what a woman wants, as well as pace himself properly so that he can last longer, is going to be much better that a well hung man that cums quickly before the woman has been pleasured.


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