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Secret: How to Potentially get in my Pants :)  

im_soaking_wet 39F
4301 posts
5/21/2011 5:07 pm
Secret: How to Potentially get in my Pants :)

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funcpl4you696 55M/53F

5/21/2011 5:54 pm

AWESOME!!!!


im_soaking_wet replies on 5/21/2011 6:06 pm:
Thanks! I know some of it sounds harsh, but, my pussy, my rules lol

horny196364 58M

5/22/2011 8:35 am

love to chat with you sometime


im_soaking_wet 39F
1024 posts
5/22/2011 9:04 am

@ Blue.. nah, its how I always am lol


im_soaking_wet 39F
1024 posts
5/22/2011 9:05 am

@horny.. well, i would suggest you read the blog above and go from there


im_soaking_wet 39F
1024 posts
5/22/2011 1:11 pm

@ Blue... Leave it to you to find some way to turn my process into a way to play video games lol


im_soaking_wet 39F
1024 posts
5/22/2011 7:39 pm

@ Blue.... Clearly lol


im_soaking_wet 39F
1024 posts
5/22/2011 7:56 pm

@ Blue.. Shhhh already! or no postcard for you! lol


im_soaking_wet 39F
1024 posts
5/22/2011 9:49 pm

@ Blue.. lol I know


huntfunk 43M

5/28/2011 4:46 pm

Great blog!! and even better ass pic!! love it


im_soaking_wet 39F
1024 posts
5/28/2011 5:58 pm

@ hunt... Thanks!


floydman2015 54M  
3302 posts
6/1/2011 9:51 pm

After reading your blog it made total sense to me. There has to be trust in a relationship with chemistry that can potentially lead to a connection. Honesty is also important as well especially when meeting someone for sure and if there is something there both will know in that moment that takes place. When a meeting happens again things may happen or they may not it all depends on the communication that took place and then there is a continuation after wards.


rm_dgetzy 60M
27 posts
6/4/2011 11:49 am

How true that is they all want something and don't want to pay for it society at it's best.


im_soaking_wet 39F
1024 posts
6/5/2011 8:14 am

@ iam... Yup, I agree

@dg... Yup, everyone wants something for nothing


im_soaking_wet 39F
1024 posts
6/5/2011 11:18 pm

@ fern.... Lol you think it's a high opinion of myself? No. It's common sense. Pull your head out of your ass and wake up. There are a lot of people that have been burned badly on this site by NOT having a way of doing things. I've yet to have an issue other than the ass that decided to open his mouth


juice965 57M
810 posts
6/14/2011 2:16 pm

Hi, I think everybody has his own way of doing things. I also don't think you're the only one here trying to filter everything thats about to happen in his circle. Sounds positive to me


im_soaking_wet 39F
1024 posts
6/14/2011 3:22 pm

@ Juice.. thanks Better safe than sorry... at least thats my opinion


crusader114 59M
79 posts
6/15/2011 4:29 pm

like her blogs


im_soaking_wet 39F
1024 posts
6/15/2011 4:46 pm

@ Crusader.. whos? Mine??


im_soaking_wet 39F
1024 posts
6/17/2011 3:32 pm

@ Havn.... Thanks


im_soaking_wet 39F
1024 posts
6/18/2011 10:12 pm

@ rock... It's a list of the entire process, not just a first email


im_soaking_wet 39F
1024 posts
7/11/2011 8:36 am

@ Rod, I don't disagree with you. For sure there are exceptions to that rule. However, they are few and far between


mflater1 72M  
50414 posts
7/11/2011 10:03 am

I keep ever thing open. don't screen frinds I I don't want to talk to them I don't

This is not meant to offend any one in any way.








healthnutz 49M
179 posts
7/20/2011 10:10 am

Respectable rules to play by.


im_soaking_wet 39F
1024 posts
7/20/2011 10:48 am

@ Mf.. If it works for you, then it works for you

@ Health.. Yup, I think so


iwillkissubak 46M
40 posts
7/26/2011 9:43 pm

Hmm... what about second chances... does this include the gender of the person??? What if someone dupes you on a pic of a hot brown girl, and uses a gender-neutral name?!


im_soaking_wet 39F
1024 posts
7/27/2011 8:02 am

@ iwill... Whomever was brilliant enough to pull a joke like that off, should be commended


im_soaking_wet 39F
1024 posts
7/28/2011 4:22 pm

@ IKan... whatever floats your boat...


needmabman 69M
91 posts
8/2/2011 11:38 am

I totally agree with you that there has to be a certain amount of trust between two individuals before one takes the next step of committing to meet and perhaps try to get to know that one better. Emailing is also good, as this way one can ask frank and open questions to that one and if there is a reply that is booth satisfying and intriqing than it means that that one person is closer to meeting you for a coffee or a drink in a public setting.

Take care

Enjoyed reading your blog

Alan


im_soaking_wet 39F
1024 posts
8/2/2011 12:42 pm

@ Need.. Thanks! Feel free to keep up with it and post where you see fit. And yes, there has to be a certain amount of trust


SkinOnSkin_n_Sin 51M
578 posts
9/15/2011 4:43 pm

"I said: 'How the hell you get in them tight blue jeans?!', she said: 'For starters you can buy me a drink.' Uhhhh!"

Always liked that lyric....


SoulsCompass 57M

9/21/2011 7:00 am

After reading this post I wanted to hug you!! I have, or had, the same basic screening process and I can NOT tell you how often I'd get unfavorable responses to it. Reading someone else with the same is VERY REFRESHING!! Wonderful. ~Her


im_soaking_wet 39F
1024 posts
9/21/2011 7:48 am

@ skin... I like it!!!

@ soul... Awwww well... Virtual hugs atcha and woohoo!! We rock! ^5


ColosoDF 50M
45 posts
9/23/2011 7:38 am

Sounds fair. In this world you can never be too careful. Stay classy.


im_soaking_wet 39F
1024 posts
9/23/2011 8:52 am

@ coloso... I agree


Dunatis2k 38M
48 posts
10/11/2011 10:58 pm

Well, I kinda figured the list you gave would be reasonably standard not excessive. The only one I would say might be excessive would be #1 like was said before. He says that this is a crappy site? Man, I'm on a far worse one I found first unfortunately, but what do you do?

Here you can blog and chat in groups or respond to the blogs of others as a standard member which is a fair bit of activity by which you can get to know someone. However to be fair, if you have 100's of followers to your blog and have to sift through e-mails every day then that's a little different when compared to 1 a month from someone in another town.

Love/Hate me for who I am, not who you think I am.


rm_vansvans2 46M
29 posts
10/14/2011 8:09 am

i didnt read your blog maybe ill go back and read it.


im_soaking_wet 39F
1024 posts
10/28/2011 7:52 am

@ rock... If I don't get thru my list with someone, or if I lose interest before I'm don't with the list, I don't meet.

So, in a way, yep.., I go thru the process too.


Garryincalgary 60M
15 posts
10/29/2011 11:30 pm

Interesting Read..


unsure_curious 45M/44F
3 posts
11/9/2011 9:52 am

unsure that we've ever specifically made such a list, but other than the obvious "paying for the site" rule we would find most of our points the same. unsure if exploring our fantasies with others will ever take enough focus in our lives to have us paying for this site, though we do keep it on/updated enough to get a bit of access, because we are social animals after all. perhaps, if this site provided the view into this lifestyle that we know must exist and we have brushed by in past experience, we'd pay for it, but for years it's been not and ergo taking a backseat to landscapes more scenic. being 'professionals' in this lifestyle is not what our intent is.

we're perhaps a little more willing to share a bit more about ourselves in the beginning than your rules suggest, some might consider naive, but our intention is to determine compatibility as soon as possible, or rather weed-out incompatibilities quickly, and just recognize the need for give/take of some information to help expose ones' gravity - see if we're going to draw each other in physically. we've forgiven a few little lies in the past, because sometimes rules conflict and a fake name is exchanged, but there's nothing more frustrating than a deceptive pervert and like you we do tend to scrutinize... the fact we're a bit misfit and looking for friends we can trust to be intimate with as a couple means our experiences are limited, and we're ok with it.


lonelyazn83 39M
4 posts
12/1/2011 10:29 am

WOW. I somehow got into your blog but I couldn't stop reading. You are a such a good writer I wish I am like you. I managed to read pretty much all of your blog. I really liked your "7 day of SEX" series.


im_soaking_wet 39F
1024 posts
12/1/2011 11:48 am

Thanks lonely


sexynewf61 61M
2876 posts
1/29/2013 3:44 am

Hi Soaks, I just happen to stumble onto your blog & profile. I love what you have to say in just about everything you write. Love your pixs. Keep up the good work & I will be back to read more.

Please feel free to read my blog at Losnewf Thoughts


im_soaking_wet replies on 2/28/2013 9:25 pm:
Thanks!

wanna_plz 57M

2/28/2013 3:16 pm

One thing is for certain......you are really well spoken!
I completely love this write-up that you did for us. I think they are good rule not only for you specifically, but in general.

After all...Men and Women are truly wired differently. SO sometimes...we just don't get it. (Not "it"...you know what I mean)


im_soaking_wet replies on 2/28/2013 9:25 pm:
Thank you very much

Thickgemini 53M

6/23/2013 11:59 am

If you don't screen...you leave yourself open to all the douche and douchette bags out there. I have had a great time and I always ask for a phone call before I even meet in person. One woman told me this was a great idea as there are many men posing as women to get their rocks off by inviting you to cam so they can see you get off,etc. The only way to cull the heard is to have a good sense of what you want and know who you are...and ask people to meet those wishes...after all...this is about your pleasure and meeting people who are like minded to add to their pleasure if the chemistry is there. So many people just don't add up to their profiles in person...and some surprise us and meet and exceed our expectations. Why not ask for exactly what you want...lol...you may just receive it and more! I have trouble with those that say they have no expectations or go in with none. I have expectations to meet great people, no drama, no stress and no complications and have fun...which I think is common sense. It doesn't always work out...but at least I have an idea of what makes me happy and so should you! I like the approach...good on you for putting it out there!

The world is our oyster!


jayda415 34M
26 posts
1/27/2014 10:06 am

Cool

MisterMasterBlackBossDaddy


DoctorBooty 41M  
6426 posts
3/15/2014 12:28 pm

I screen in a similar way.

I rarely emailed anyone because they always reply back with "hey great, i want to see your face though". Fakes and bots ask for face pics instantly too, so its difficult to screen. I understand that ladies want to see my face first (as do i before i'd fuck) but I'm in a sensitive position and this is a small town, so I don't share those til I actually start chatting or I'm convinced someone isn't posing as something they are not. So since I almost never email first, I don't pay for membership. I like to perv pics but really if you don't email you're just paying for that, so I quit. I can find porn sites to look at pics.

So assuming she has emailed me, which itself is a screening process because those with low self-confidence won't ever email first, I wait til I see some ability to carry on a conversation in the emails and/or YIM. Preferably IM because email doesn't lend itself to flowing convo. Its only at that point I'd ever ask for a face picture. Obviously I'd want them earlier but I don't ever ask for them until I find someone somehow interesting. Sometimes when she's far away, I may not ask for months; I do just like talking to someone.

Usually if we've exchanged pics and can carry on a convo, the meeting is nearly a foregone conclusion. Whether we're sexually compatible comes out in the conversation so its usually great sex -- but I have been surprised.


Leegs2012 49M
96134 posts
3/29/2014 5:11 pm

Very nice read!!


khuXBFXM8u 60M
10296 posts
5/21/2014 4:20 am

Interesting method. I always wonder if I'm dealing with a picture collector when gold members requires a face and cock pictures as step 1. Just Saying.

Find pleasure in giving pleasure


porterpiper1 55F
3755 posts
9/13/2014 3:01 pm

Do you work for this site? I am not trying to be mean but, requiring someone to have a membership on here is out of the way don't you think, I had a membership on here, I didn't renew it, It wasn't about that I was cheap or strap for cash, It wasn't worth paying for fake profile, fake people, and rude immature people on here.


im_soaking_wet replies on 9/13/2014 9:28 pm:
Why should I pay for a membership so you can talk to me??? You want to have a conversation, you start it. Oh wait - you can't, because you do have a membership.

Pretty simple really.

travellerabc123 52M
3989 posts
12/15/2014 11:47 am

I'm with you on everything except the unwillingness to send an email. If it doesn't cost you anything, in principle why would you not? I understand not wanting to send one to everybody who asks. But I like to think I've made the most of standard membership, and being told that I have to spend money by someone who gets something for free seems wrong. I'd rather spend the money on something else that neither of us gets for free.

Again, I agreed with everything else you had to say.

Embrace the suck


Leegs2012 49M
96134 posts
1/29/2015 6:35 pm

All good points!!


Leegs2012 49M
96134 posts
4/18/2015 2:02 pm

Great post!!!!


NeedSomeWarmth 67M
9 posts
6/17/2015 2:56 am

i would like to try


Next2us 51M/49F

7/24/2015 2:50 pm

It don't mean a thing if it ain't got that swing...........


wanton_cpl 52M/52F  
27 posts
7/26/2015 11:33 am

I think we share a platform, soapbox, point f view .... However it's framed, we concur!


rickyspanish76 46M
7843 posts
9/23/2015 1:50 pm

You are a super hot woman.
I liked your profile .. hot photo

kisses


mrhd1 82M
4049 posts
9/30/2015 7:37 am

Wow Baby! You have such a wonderful ass for me to lick all day


urguy2015 44M
85 posts
9/30/2015 2:03 pm

Good set of rules - not too over the top - i too take a bit before i decide if i really want to meet and someplace "safe" for both of us. I don't want to end up as a dateline NBC episode and i know the women on here don't want to either


trythisagain66 56M
1918 posts
10/3/2015 3:25 pm

If you can't pony up the few bucks for a membership, why would I bother with you? Are you married and cant put the info on your credit card? Are you so financially strapped that you can't afford the $15 per month? ... Sometimes, people tell me that they don't pay for sex.

And sometimes people don't want to pay for piss-poor customer "service".

If you want to make paid membership a criterion for those with whom you will interact, that's your prerogative. Implying that all those who don't pay means there's something wrong with them -- not so much.

Lots of pix of Beautiful Bountiful Women: here come the pix
I wanna see: a minirant about BBWs
Message for haters (& request to the hateD)


amade1975 46M
53 posts
10/14/2015 2:32 am

this is a great blog


rickyspanish76 46M
7843 posts
10/31/2015 12:22 pm

WE WANT NEW PICS!!!!!!!!!!


hunterpt 60M
13507 posts
11/16/2015 4:52 am

awsome, thanks for poniting out whta is needed to get your attention. Pitty i´m too far awway. Kisses


ddiver2 67M
40 posts
11/18/2015 9:00 pm

Straight and to the point, can't get any clearer than that...so long as as a person actually reads what you've said...


mrhd1 82M
4049 posts
11/20/2015 8:44 am

You have a wonderful ass baby and want to lick it for you


mrhd1 82M
4049 posts
11/21/2015 4:00 pm

Love you ass baby


mrhd1 82M
4049 posts
11/22/2015 1:19 pm

Love to suck you nice ass baby


mrhd1 82M
4049 posts
11/22/2015 1:20 pm

I want to lick your ass honey


lucius8858 64M
847 posts
11/23/2015 3:30 pm

Sounds pretty logical to me.....if you don't have a process, you probably aren't worth the time or effort. I have a process as well, intelligence is important to me....my fuck buddies need to be able to carry a conversation....I mean I like to hear more than grunting and moaning. Very informative post, thanks for sharing!
Lucius

A story by Lucius8858


mrhd1 82M
4049 posts
11/24/2015 5:15 am

love to lick your ass baby


anjaan58 61M
1347 posts
12/2/2015 5:53 am

On reading your blog ..one term comes to mind " Dummies guide ,,,,,, "
what you stated is a must for any meaningful interaction in any Man - Woman interaction
Great to know a woman who knows her mind and is not afraid to say it
all the best


mrhd1 82M
4049 posts
12/5/2015 5:07 am

I want to lick your ass and your pussy


fitazsfuck 44M
7 posts
12/14/2015 12:47 pm

I like the idea that it's your pussy and your rules. I'd say the same thing about my cock if he didn't already have a mind of his own


InYourWay 54M
107 posts
12/16/2015 10:57 pm

Ok, I surrender in advance. I am married. Badly. But married. I won't try to get into your pants, especially given the fact that your pants are many hundreds of miles away from my erect cock.

Plus you kind of ruined it for me with all those rules. They are all pretty darn reasonable. So now I respect you. How am I supposed to objectify someone who I now respect, huh?


Kootie_Kat 106M
410 posts
12/21/2015 8:52 am

I try to find out these things, as well as other criteria.
What kind of person are they?
Are they honest? How do they act in public?
Are they mean or cruel?
Do they make scenes in restaurants and other places?
How do they treat people? How do they react to different situations?
What kind of drunk are they?
Do they have annoying, bad, careless, dangerous and/or unsafe sanitary habits?
Are they someone I would be embarrassed to be seen with?


northwestern85 38M

12/24/2015 7:30 am

The most annoying ones are the people who want a face pic immediately


ABBC12356 39M
2268 posts
12/28/2015 11:34 pm

GOOD


rokhrd2002 46M
103 posts
12/29/2015 5:45 pm

Was it motelnasunbeam?
You can add me sleddy1775


im_soaking_wet 39F
1024 posts
12/29/2015 5:48 pm

MoteInASunbeam .... Capitals


rokhrd2002 46M
103 posts
12/29/2015 6:14 pm

Hi Soaks, I tried it with the Caps but still no luck. Can you add me on there. Sleddy1775


ReallyNiceGuy102 65M
34 posts
12/31/2015 11:20 am

OH YES!!!!! PLEASE!!!

HAPPY NEW YEAR!


scoupe42 59M  

1/4/2016 1:16 pm

Thanks for the pointers, if we ever cross paths, I now know what to do and what not to do!


enderz_game 37M  
31 posts
1/6/2016 2:58 pm

A good set of rules for a good set of buns


vazzaam1 43M
614 posts
1/15/2016 6:19 am

hmm....nice.......
like a person who know what she wants......good way ......
complicated......but doable....

keep it real......


ladyluvneuropean 47M
9 posts
1/25/2016 3:42 am

What a wonderful way to start off the week by finding your blog. Hugely enjoyable, intensely sexual, funny, erotic, wry and honest. I look forward to reading more of it both in terms of new and older entries.


loverfidelis 80M
2548 posts
1/26/2016 12:47 pm

A great one!


Iwashotflash12 52M
108 posts
1/27/2016 5:13 am

wow!


FunPleasurable 58M
3997 posts
2/2/2016 6:20 pm

Are you on a vacation in Indonesia?
I noticed you were passing by Singapore and then suddenly your location is based in Indonesia. Unless TSdates.com really cocked up, the location indicator seem to suggest you are now in Indonesia or somewhere near the borders being detected as Indonesia.

If you are, welcome to South East Asia, land of smiles and exotic fun.
Do drop by my blog and say hello too!

Fun and Pleasure in Sunny Side Singapore. Come visit my blog and let's chat and explore.


passionateaction 53M
1575 posts
2/18/2016 11:15 am

Pretty detailed filteration process and I suppose warranted, though given the mismatch/imbalance in the male/female interaction would there be any women left for him if a man was to be so stringent?


mrhd1 82M
4049 posts
3/29/2016 7:44 am

Love to suck you tits and then suck your pussy baby


mrcock2u 47M
44 posts
4/1/2016 10:52 am

those sounds very reasonable requests, your safety is the utmost important.
I hope you have a lot of good luck with your quest.


Myron_Blatz 114M
464 posts
4/1/2016 9:41 pm

your post was better than any AAA map. Thank you for letting me know how to reach an enjoyable destination....love it.


craig47SC 55M
679 posts
4/6/2016 2:08 pm

Thanks for the guidelines.

Thanks for checking out my blog!

The Pie Eater


Zugnillinuc 42M
715 posts
4/6/2016 4:13 pm

A sincere thanks should go out to you for making these horny guys jump through hoops for you.

It tells me that you are a respectable woman and if I were to write "Hi, Wanna Fuck" you wouldn't be on the next plane down to Arizona (unless somehow by coincidence you were flying here the next day )

I would absolutely jump through your hoops if I thought that we were the right fit...I'd do it for anyone I'd really like to get to know....

...So if you get bitched out and shitty dudes tell you off...please know there in one guy out there who would appreciate jumping through your hoops...

LOL (lots of licks),

Zug


OH CANADA!


darknightssj 31M  
70 posts
4/11/2016 11:40 am

thanks for the insight but I am sure most women don't appreciate honest gentle men like you said you do in here


Zugnillinuc 42M
715 posts
4/20/2016 8:37 pm

Whenever I get an email, the must have my name Zug, and something from my profile in the email.

We meet at a well lit Starbucks (pity we don't have timmy's down here) were we talk over a coffee (I only drink soda)

if there is a connection I will kiss you ONLY
if not, no biggie, we can still be vanilla friends

Next time we meet it's a bit more--maybe a club, for drinks
Three times if there's no chemistry, not even for friendship then we both move on

most of the time be the third meeting she ready play


sometimes I'm called a prick for making women jump through hoops like this. Do other dudes do this--IDK


myrche6812 55M
48 posts
4/29/2016 11:38 am

very precise, detailed, factual and good blog with lots of smile making words and some good pics Like it lots and will follow often well done Graham


wacebook5 28M
808 posts
7/23/2016 1:52 pm


hd4rider 65M
25 posts
8/3/2016 4:24 am

You are one of the sexiest ladies on this site


Ronny411970 52M
76 posts
8/6/2016 11:55 am

Hi, fantastic sexy body


nerdygirl721 33F  
1176 posts
8/11/2016 12:07 am

I don't think your process is extreme at all. I used most of your process myself. Can't wait for the next blog.


121058 64M
85 posts
8/28/2016 1:03 am

hi, very nice


mandingo4pawg 57M
1 post
6/10/2017 2:35 pm

wish you were closer so we could see how soaked u become


3und6macht9 41M

4/19/2018 1:26 pm


Johnniebouie 64M
7 posts
4/21/2018 3:15 pm

It all makes sense too me


jaytr 48M
47 posts
4/23/2018 7:49 am

This post starts out with a perfect explanation of your position....quite the dialog now.


BEEZ393 44M
1 post
6/23/2019 3:33 am

I really appreciated being told the proper procedure to meet.


medouu69uuu 72M/53F
10 posts
11/6/2020 4:56 am

SO WHAT ARE WE TALKING ABOUT HERE ? LIKE WHAT IS THE BEEF ,,IF YOU ARE SOAKING WET GO GET YOUR PUSSY EAT..I LIKE WET PUSSY TO EAT MYSELF THE WETTER THE BETTER .I KNOW I HAD TO MISS SOMETHING IN THE FIRST PAGE OR SP..EVERY ONE DOSE A POINT THO,, IF THIS SITE IS LOW ON MEMBERSHIP SORRY I USED IT YEARSE AND IT IS WORK TRYING TO GET LAID ONLINE.. EVERYONE WANTS A STEAM CAR MONEY UP FRONT SHIT WHATEVER HAPPEND TO CASH I AM SICK OF IT A WORKING SHOUD WORK FOR IT NOT BAG WITH A CASHAPP. .I HAD GOOD LUCK YEARS AGO BUT TIMES HAVE CHANGED ..IF SOMEONE COMES UP WITH CRAGELIST 2020 THEY WILL BE RICH TILL THEN I WILL JUST PLAY THE FREE END OF THE SIGHTS BECAUSE IT IS NOT WORTH HAVING YOUR CARD INFO JACK AND BEING FORCED IN FORECLOSURE LIKE ME... MY WIFE PASSED AWAY IN 2018 SO I CAME BACK AND TRIED TO PICK UP THE TRAIL BUT YOU CAN'T TRUST ANYONE ANYMORE ..I GOT MY INFO JACK IF I USE EVEN ON E BAY .. SO I WILL TRY TO FIGER WHAT IS UP AND IF ANY OF WET LADYS NEEN SERVICED I AM IN CARTERSVILLG GA..


medouu69uuu 72M/53F
10 posts
11/6/2020 4:58 am

P S I GAVE GREEN STAMPS


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