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What's Your Process?  

im_soaking_wet 40F
4264 posts
10/19/2020 2:06 pm
What's Your Process?


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Man, times are a changin eh?

I ended watching "You've Got " with Tom Hanks last night and I had a good chuckle at the entire thing. Do you remember dial ? AOL? rooms? ASL? The sound of the dial as you waited for the connection ? The two main characters met in a room and then proceeded email back and forth with one another and eventually, decided meet.

For me, my process is pretty tight. I even went so far as outline it the blog here. There really, is no reason not meet the criteria (for the most part). That being said, there are always ways improve.

What do you do? What works and what doesn't work? What would you suggest newbies do keep themselves safe? I mean, at the end of the day, you need look out for you. Did your process change with covid?

I think overall, we are constantly evolving and generally doing the best we can. So tell , how did you evolve over the last few months?

im_soaking_wet 40F
1024 posts
10/19/2020 2:08 pm

Man, times are a changin eh?

I ended up watching "You've Got Mail" with Tom Hanks last night and I had a good chuckle at the entire thing. Do you remember dial up? AOL? Chat rooms? ASL? The sound of the dial up as you waited for the connection to hit? The two main characters met in a chat room and then proceeded to email back and forth with one another and eventually, decided to meet.

For me, my process is pretty tight. I even went so far as to outline it on the blog here. There really, is no reason to not meet the criteria (for the most part). That being said, there are always ways to improve.

What do you do? What works and what doesn't work? What would you suggest newbies do to keep themselves safe? I mean, at the end of the day, you need to look out for you. Did your process change with covid?

I think overall, we are constantly evolving and generally doing the best we can. So tell me, how did you evolve over the last few months?


SubIan55 68M  
10 posts
10/19/2020 3:30 pm

yes always changing .....

I tended to do more online chatting / playing through camming on here, ghangouts, skype etc.

bit of a different world then "you've got mail" but due to living in the midwest of West Australia thoroughly enjoying it, gets rid of my frustrations & meeting some great people along the way.

in a nutshell .... I having lots of fun


DoctorBooty 43M  
6426 posts
10/19/2020 4:31 pm

Process for meeting online in general is about the same no matter where from.

Gotta be attractive enough to get my attention. Doesnt have to be a supermodel, but need something. Might be a great smile, legs, ass, or great tits.

Gotta be able to converse. I give a false phone number and use an app to those who always wanna text. You dont get the real one unless you've proven you are real or after we've met. Otherwise its some messenger app.

But what really determines whether I meet is how you speak, whether we can talk about shit besides sex sometimes, and that I not think youre a complete idiot. I seriously will not meet up with someone who isnt at least moderately intelligent enough to go back and forth in a conversation. I'm a picker with people, if you can't take ribbing then you won't like me.

By that point the desirables have filtered themselves through.

None of that has changed via Rona. I had a date as soon as the shutdown ended in Nashville, didn't change anything I did except we probably chatted/texted longer than we normally would have.


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