So … I’ve started this for a reason…  

kvin14226 33M
7 posts
7/9/2021 7:23 pm
So … I’ve started this for a reason…


Ok so I’ve had luck on this site in the past for some NSA fun and have also had some back luck when meeting too. I thought this site was the cats ass in finding some great pussy all for “free” and have exciting times. Boy or girl (it’s 2021 can’t just assume your all boys) was I wrong. I’ve had to for sex at one point after the deed was done or cops being called on me for “R” word with “ape” at the end; disgruntled husbands; husbands that were more then just “bi” and ones that I don’t even think they were husbands. So after awhile this novelty worn off and I’m stuck to doing what I was in the past.. using my left hand for a few minutes and I’m sleeping.

Now let’s get to why I’m starting a blog. So I’ve recently been let down. Alright alright I’ve been let down way too many times but, this one was different. I was belittled and felt like I was back in high school. So what better way to get your self back then to start at the root cause .. my weight. Now I’ve never been a slim guy… ever! No better time then now to change so I’ve been working on that. I started back at the end of June by working out, and eating healthy. I started at a weigh in of 260.4lbs. Today as of 7/9/21 I’m weighing in at 247.4 which is 13lbs and I’ve never felt better. I’ll keep updating one week at a time Monday’s and fridays weight on Friday. My goal is yo be around the 200lbs mark but at this point I’ll be happy at 220 and let up on my restricted diet which I’ll get into it on another blog.

Thanks for reading my first blog leave comments and encouragement and I’ll keep it up.

Hey TSdates.com there is nothing about solicitation in here I’m not looking to make money. This is an embarrassment on your review staff for thinking that. You guys have fake profiles up all over with actual websites and .

HAMONMAN 62M
12914 posts
7/9/2021 8:50 pm

welcome to the blogiverse


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We can't even make a decent starter solenoid any longer.


Granny872 69F  
4035 posts
7/10/2021 9:08 am

Kudos to you for aiming for better health and for setting that goal for yourself. I'm not 'little' girl myself ... the only time I've ever been slim was when I was anorexic in college, lol!

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rdy2try4 56F  
3304 posts
7/10/2021 9:13 am

There is no place on the planet where you get sex for FREE. I am not trying to be mean, but if you pay for the profile, you paid. You pay to get there driving, you paid. If you thought you could just log on to any site and a woman would see your profile and meet you and just bend over with her panties down outside her car door for you... that is a fantasy. I am not trying to be mean!!! I really am not, but I am showing you how unrealistic the thought is that there is 'free' sex anywhere. Too many people sign in here thinking it is a free online whorehouse and the women that love sex pay the price for it as they get slammed by guys with bad approaches.

Now a critique on your profile - I get you say it isn't working - but I don't know what you had before so I am going on what you have now. You have 5 photos and 4 of them are your penis!!! Women do NOT choose men based on their penis. Quasimodo had a penis and no matter what it looked like no one is meeting him. If you are a jerk or a pig no amount of penis photos will fix that. Men need a location and women need a REASON!! You have to write a profile with the reasons women should want you. Now, that does not mean tell us you eat p*ssy all night and do doggy style. EVERYONE can do those things if they wanted too so what I am talking about is tell us about YOU.

You wrote about wanting to loose weight, you may actually get more attention with that and meet someone. I don't think the one and only photo you have of yourself is horrible. You may want to get out of the bathroom though!! Why men take so many photos in the bathroom is beyond me, but honestly, try taking a photo of you in a better setting and smile.

The site only works if you work the site. Be honest, be patient, and read profiles before you contact someone. My profile says I am not available so men using copy/paste messages are easily outted when they write "I loved your profile" lines. Actually read the profile and comment on it in your message to the person you are writing. If you don't get a reply don't take it personal!! Many idiots on here ruin it for good men with their childish antics of calling us names and being abusive when we say no thank you. Best of luck!


kvin14226 replies on 7/17/2021 8:22 pm:
i take it reading comprehension is not your strong suit? i guess you missunderstood where i wrote " boy (or girl this is 2021) was i wrong"

you can critique me all you want still isnt going to change anything. i also said that this site was a waste and im turing it into a weight loss blog because well why not i paid for something i might as well use all of it and that includes using it as a blog on my weight loss for complete strangers to come up with random and yet some how witty in their own mind comments.

i dont care about this site working for me at all to be honest anymore im past that point. thanks for your input and lack of reading maybe condense your profile a little because men are going to be bored with what you write on it to get your point across. we get it you found someone and now your thinking your helping others out to get laid when they can figure out that on their own. you only have one non flattering photo sitting on a log splitter with your "NOT LOOKING FOR ANYONE" all over it. ask any woman on here no matter how many times you say your not looking your going to get a response anyways. maybe youd have better luck not getting as many responses by taking a nice photo at the dinner table with your other half im sure that would cut down on the emails.

thank you for being so caring and thought full i really do appreciate it.

seems6666 51F
4761 posts
7/10/2021 11:41 am

    Quoting rdy2try4:
    There is no place on the planet where you get sex for FREE. I am not trying to be mean, but if you pay for the profile, you paid. You pay to get there driving, you paid. If you thought you could just log on to any site and a woman would see your profile and meet you and just bend over with her panties down outside her car door for you... that is a fantasy. I am not trying to be mean!!! I really am not, but I am showing you how unrealistic the thought is that there is 'free' sex anywhere. Too many people sign in here thinking it is a free online whorehouse and the women that love sex pay the price for it as they get slammed by guys with bad approaches.

    Now a critique on your profile - I get you say it isn't working - but I don't know what you had before so I am going on what you have now. You have 5 photos and 4 of them are your penis!!! Women do NOT choose men based on their penis. Quasimodo had a penis and no matter what it looked like no one is meeting him. If you are a jerk or a pig no amount of penis photos will fix that. Men need a location and women need a REASON!! You have to write a profile with the reasons women should want you. Now, that does not mean tell us you eat p*ssy all night and do doggy style. EVERYONE can do those things if they wanted too so what I am talking about is tell us about YOU.

    You wrote about wanting to loose weight, you may actually get more attention with that and meet someone. I don't think the one and only photo you have of yourself is horrible. You may want to get out of the bathroom though!! Why men take so many photos in the bathroom is beyond me, but honestly, try taking a photo of you in a better setting and smile.

    The site only works if you work the site. Be honest, be patient, and read profiles before you contact someone. My profile says I am not available so men using copy/paste messages are easily outted when they write "I loved your profile" lines. Actually read the profile and comment on it in your message to the person you are writing. If you don't get a reply don't take it personal!! Many idiots on here ruin it for good men with their childish antics of calling us names and being abusive when we say no thank you. Best of luck!
Great response. hear hear!
PS did Quasimodo really have a willy?


author51 58F  
126129 posts
7/10/2021 11:58 pm

Welcome to Blog Land and good luck with staying healthy and your weight loss goals...


rdy2try4 56F  
3304 posts
7/17/2021 4:44 pm

    Quoting seems6666:
    Great response. hear hear!
    PS did Quasimodo really have a willy?
Sorry I am so late on the response. Thank you very much. I do believe Quasimodo had a dick. ALL MEN have them and many seem to not understand that not BEING one is the real trick. lol


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