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Sugar and Spice
Variety is the spice of life. Sugar n spice/day n night/ying n yang. My blog is of my opinions and thoughts. If you do not like them do not read them.
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Private Messages
Posted:Oct 10, 2009 2:22 pm
Last Updated:Sep 28, 2016 4:40 pm

This is my private comment area, private meaning I am the only one who sees these comments. If you leave comments under a blog not regarding to that blog I will delete it. Some of my blog sections I have chosen to leave comments hidden. I usually will state that at the bottom of that said blog.
Preview of my profile
Posted:Aug 2, 2010 2:19 pm
Last Updated:Nov 29, 2020 1:15 pm
Just because I have a profile and pictures here, does not mean I am looking to hook up with every guy who thinks he wants to stick his dick in every female on here. I do pay close attention to many profiles. Many people on here don't care about keeping themselves clean. I care to stay STD free.
I much rather have quality than quantity. That means I won't be hooking up a day or two after chatting. If you can't have some intellectual conversations, than just keep going.
If you want to play head games and be dishonest, move on. Yes, I do know what kind of site this is. Even so, I have found in being here there is a wide variety of people. Sex is a part of life. Even full time moms enjoy sex. LOL I can sometimes come off as a bitch if you do not get my humor or do not understand sarcasm.
I get told quite a lot I'm funny and I don't try to be.
Sorry but if you are married or already involved with someone then please keep looking. I'm very open to expressing my views about anything but that is as far as it goes.
No, looks are not all that matter. Though there does have to be be some attraction that connects one another. When you seduce ones mind the rest will follow.
Please do not think of contacting me trying to get me to play on cam for you because I WILL NOT. If my cam goes on and I do anything it goes on because I want it to.
I am not really seeking to find for when I seek I will not find so I just wish to chat and make some friends.
FYI I do not share my sexual likes and fantasies with just anyone.

I'm also here to blog once in awhile.

WARNING: Any institutions, individuals, and/or third parties using this site and/or any of its associated sites for studies or projects, and/or any duplication (for any reason) and/or posting to any site - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile and/or blog/pictures/videos in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications under the Privacy Act, Copyright and/or other.

My Ideal Person My ideal person would be someone who knows what honesty is. Is respectful not judge mental. Whatever kind of relationship you are looking for begins with friendship. You have to know someone before things can grow. Someone who will lust for me just as I lust for me. Will feel that connection before meeting.
Posted:Nov 16, 2016 10:33 am
Last Updated:Dec 11, 2016 5:28 pm

Are there any laptops out there these days that have good cams? These little computers are not that great when trying to cam, so any suggestions would be great. Lets keep it under $300. Feel free to drop opinions/suggestions.

Thank You
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Strangest Email
Posted:Sep 21, 2016 4:12 pm
Last Updated:Mar 2, 2021 2:27 pm

Haven't blogged in a long time, so thought I would share one of the strangest emails I have gotten in some time.

You are quite impressive, Supergirl.
Here I was thinking that I had the most scathing and derogatory profile statement on this site; I stand corrected.Your own is leagues ahead of mine.
So, even whilst being among the plebeians of this Babylonian forum, you somehow feel offended when they seek to ply you with salacious offers? Ridiculous.
The very next time that you deign to exhibit yourself "on cam", do try to achieve a shot or two of your facial features. I understand discretion better than most, but attempt to comprehend that there is a difference between discretion and outright cowardice.
Better "quality than quantity"?
I do not see that your fandom deserves that accolade. I have found that any concept of "intellectual conversation" must surely be an alien concept among the Humans who choose to plague this forum.
Do you actually expect me to believe that you would refuse any offer of sexual congress with an anime character of my stature?
Again, ridiculous.

I myself am still trying to figure this out. Because I didnt show my face on cam this person sends me this email? Feel free to add your thoughts.
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Been Awhile
Posted:Jun 3, 2015 8:18 am
Last Updated:Feb 6, 2023 5:47 am

Thought I'd make a post seeing I have my laptop for two days. Having a 14yr old he seems to do more with the computer then I do so he has kind of taken over.
My has gone camping with his school till Friday and I dont know what to do with myself.
Sure would like to get out of dodge, but my vehicle is still broke. Would be nice to just get a vehicle that works. Though I don't seem to have that luck.
Hope everyone is staying out of trouble.
New Favorite Catchy Song
Posted:Jan 21, 2015 3:28 pm
Last Updated:Oct 4, 2016 5:13 pm

Mary Lambert

I've got bi-polar disorder
My shit's not in order
I'm overweight
I'm always late
I've got too many things to say
I rock mom jeans, cat earrings
Extrapolate my feelings
My family is dysfunctional
But we have a good time killing each other

They tell us from the time we're young
To hide the things that we don't like about ourselves
Inside ourselves
I know I'm not the only one who spent so long attempting to be someone else
Well I'm over it

I don't care if the world knows what my secrets are (secrets are)
I don't care if the world knows what my secrets are (secrets are) So-o-o-o-o what
So what
So what
So what

I can't think straight, I'm so gay
Sometimes I cry a whole day
I care a lot, use an analog clock
And never know when to stop
And I'm passive, aggressive
I'm scared of the dark and the dentist
I love my butt and won't shut up
And I never really grew up

They tell us from the time we're young
To hide the things that we don't like about ourselves
Inside ourselves
I know I'm not the only one who spent so long attempting to be someone else
Well I'm over it

I don't care if the world knows what my secrets are (secrets are)
I don't care if the world knows what my secrets are (secrets are)
So what
So what
So what
So what
I don't care if the world knows what my secrets are (secrets are)
I don't care if the world knows what my secrets are (secrets are)
So what
So what
So what
So what

(I don't care if the world knows what my secrets are)
So what
So what
So what
So what
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2015 Roller Coaster
Posted:Jan 18, 2015 6:51 pm
Last Updated:Jun 4, 2015 11:13 am

Thought I'd add a post since it's been awhile.

Let's see, I finally had gotten a car, water heater got put in... still paying that off.
So, it gets closer to New Years, my water freezes several times (would have helped had we have had snow) luckily it thawed.
I get my car, have it for 5 days. It sure is nice to have a vehicle to drive yourself around and not have to depend on someone. So, I go out on New Years Day and am on my way home and hear a loud ting and battery light comes on. Needless to say I make it home into the driveway just as my vehicle dies. Then, I notice I drop my phone where I had gotten out. Luckily someone picked it up....good thing cause we all know how many of us have pictures on our phone LOL.
Good thing for google, but now Ive been waiting for someone to fix my Serpentine belt and a pulley.
Then a wisdom tooth decided it wanted to finally show up. Not sure why they gave the name wisdom tooth. Only thing I can think of is, you finally realize how much teeth hurt when you were a baby.
That has been my year so far. I sure hope my doppleganger is having better luck then I am
Very Long Summer
Posted:Aug 31, 2014 10:57 am
Last Updated:Jan 18, 2015 6:05 pm
Not that I have to explain myself to ANYONE. But, if a few people on here think I've gone loony. Which by the way I already was lmao. But, if they thought I went even more let me explain a little.

Its been one long summer, the is now going back to school in a few days. So, I guess you could call it cabin fever is setting in. I will have the house to myself. Even though everyone else will be working. I have been setting my master plan in motion. "Oh wait, that's my evil twin"

So, just because I maybe teasing do not think I am wanting to meet up. Again it's been a long summer, I am NOT looking for any attention. I just am in the mood to be a tease, and I do know how to do it. (though that really is not meant to be bragging)

Some people just need to read that. Otherwise just don't talk with me.

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Pictures To Catch Attention
Posted:Aug 30, 2014 11:24 am
Last Updated:Aug 31, 2014 11:04 am

Ok, gentlemen and ladies that choose. In a conversation with someone. I decided to add a poll to my blog.

Question is, what pictures really catch your eye? Or perhaps what positions in pictures of females are ones that push you over the edge....the ones that make you cum?

And I'm leaving couples out of this's only the female pictures I'm curious about.
full body (no privates showing)
spread eagle close up
doggy style (either close view or side ways)
23 Comments , 319 votes
Roller Coaster
Posted:Aug 8, 2014 11:26 am
Last Updated:Jan 18, 2015 6:04 pm

You know sometimes life roller coaster is not very fun. I have been without a vehicle for over six months. Can not depend on the ex to help fix it, well cause excuse me yes he is the biggest asshole. Being a single mom on a tight ass budget isn't easy. Then, to turn around and have my hot water heater shit the bed. So, if it isn't raining, it's pouring.
Which ok in some cases is fine. I mean I do enjoying squirting or gushing. But really, I need some good luck for a change.
1 comment
Posted:Aug 2, 2014 12:16 pm
Last Updated:Aug 30, 2014 11:25 am

Alright so I'm pretty good with words and all; but, might some of you share your thoughts opinions on what you guys are thinking when you look at a picture and use the word "cute" or cutie".
Tell It Like It Is
Posted:Jul 19, 2014 2:40 pm
Last Updated:Jul 20, 2014 5:19 pm

I may be starting to come off as rude or bitchy in a few blogs, but I'm just starting to see things in a new way. Plus I am not on here very much. Again, if you don't like what I say. Do not read it.

I read somewhere Women fall in love by what they hear. Men fall in love by what they see. That's why women wear makeup & men tend to lie. Women are more consistent in their decisions while men change their minds 2 to 3 times more often than women.

So, with that said. I really do not have a problem being single at this point in life. The thing I find so funny is I already knew that because I pretty much am just a natural woman. Not someone who will chemical myself up just to impress someone who I know is going to lie. I am not that stupid. If a guy can't take me looking at me at my very worst, then really when I do dress up he wouldn't know what to do with himself. LOL.

As for guys who keep saying too bad we weren't closer or you were just a few yrs older or him a few yrs younger. I mean honestly. But, yet they will chat with someone of a way much younger age in different countries or the next state down. Yet will tell me I'm too far. Grow up guys. Yeah I do realize its a chat room but some of them wouldn't know they are being hit on if there life depended on it. Oh, and I will say it's not that they have not been interested as for that a reason for them to say I am too far. That is not the case, just so someone doesn't leave a comment about that.
Just a thought
Posted:Jul 17, 2014 5:42 am
Last Updated:Oct 24, 2014 5:54 pm

Ok, so here's a thought. Can't the site make a dislike option marker. I mean really don't you come across some pictures that you just want to
If people want to act the way they do, I have no reason not to be afraid to voice whatever is on my mind.

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