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Posted:Apr 19, 2017 7:10 pm
Last Updated:Mar 19, 2018 9:12 pm
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Hi,
I decided it was time to post another blog.
Only a few people in my life know about my swinging life style. I have enjoyed a handful of swinging parties and have met some cool people. Some parties I have attended solo and a few with a partner. The first one, I went with a couple who I had met here on TSdates.com. I have to admit I was shy about the idea, not knowing what to expect, what type of people would be there, etc. My first was a party in the Chicago area hosted by a bi racial couple. It was a very welcoming party. Met some really nice people who were there to just let loose and have a great time. It was mainly a group of mature people, all sizes and shapes and different races. No one judging each other but a very welcoming atmosphere of great people, food, drinks and lots of great sex. When I went solo I was always welcomed to stay the night and of course woke up to some really great sex, breakfast, shower and more sex.
I was happy that the party was mainly mature couples and few singles, though there were some young black males who preferred to play with older ladies. Every one was considerate and kind, no one was pushy. What I didn't want was a party of obnoxious 20 year olds getting drunk and disrespectful and ruining the whole mood. Jess (man of the house) was very selective in who was invited. He made it clear that we were all here to have a good time and drama be left at the door. Or be escorted out to not be back again. The lady of the house (Paula) was very kind and easy to talk to and became a very good friend of mine.
I met a really sexy guy Damon a few years ago at a swing party, WOW! I didn't know there were so may positions to get into. I think every muscle in my body hurt the next 3 days, but hey...a good pain We still keep in touch and see each other solo when our schedules work out.
I had always had this stigma when I was younger that when you became 40 that sex wouldn't be as much fun and no one would be interested in you if you were 40 and over. Boy was I wrong. I'm in my 50's now and I still enjoy sex, crave it daily. My age has not slowed me down much. I am also learning that not all men are looking for model stick thin women to play with. They find a woman with curves more appealing and a mature woman to be more real when it comes to sex. I guess maybe because us mature women know how to please a man. We don't have to fake anything. We know the art of a great orgasm. I love oral sex and it shows when I'm pleasuring that guy or gal. When you truly love sex you have great sex!
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Are young men really interested in older women?
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Posted:Nov 6, 2016 6:55 pm
Last Updated:Apr 9, 2019 11:44 am
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I have been on this site for quite some time. Due to the fact I'm pretty picky plus I want to be safe I haven't met that many guys. Guys I have met have been a lot of fun, maybe 2 not so much. I am more sexually attracted to professional, built black males over 45. But I get a lot of guys who are in their 20-30 sending me messages. So when one younger black male(TJ) kept being persistent. I asked him a hand full of ??. I was surprised by his answers. I asked why he was interested in me. I'm in my early 50's, full figured, not the body I had 20 years ago and so forth. By the time we went back and forth with emails it had been about a month. He said he enjoyed older women because his experience with them were amazing compared to younger women his age and younger. I knew where he was coming from. I was young myself at one time. Yes the 80's were good to me but the older I got the more it seemed I loved sex and it showed. Sexually,older ladies have the experience and stories to share that continue to make sex with others so enjoyable. To this day I crave sex daily, always on my mind. Age has not stopped me. Us older ladies know how to please and pleasure our mates, and if they are not doing the job well we know how to finish ourselves later. We have orgasms down to a science! Love giving a good BJ, I crave it. Nothing hotter than a guy looking into my big blue eyes and watching his expressions as I blow him. With my age comes with that kind of experience. Knowing what a man enjoys to make it a great experience for both. I have experienced some good swinger parties and have found my "bi" side. Yes, I love to eat a thick pussy, especially if her partner is watching. Again experience.
I have been a little shy due to body image. I mean you have the media, TV, Magazines making fuller figure women feel undesirable. So I always feel afraid of being judged when I meet someone due to being fuller figure not size 2. I guess I understand, because I'm not attracted much to large, frumpy men, it works both ways. Love nice hair, teeth and smile. Oh and completely bald guys...love! Yes I'm shy!
Well back to TJ. We met after a month of emails and phone conversations. Very handsome and everything I like about black males. We went out for dinner, a movie then back to my place. After a few hours of watching a movie at my place and a few glasses of wine both of us were on fire. We headed up stairs and cuddled on my bed before we ended our night/morning with some of the most amazing sex ever! I think I was exhausted and my muscles hurt for 4 days after that night. What made the sex and his time more special than some of the others I have met was he seemed very sincere, kind, giving and didn't rush out the door after. After freshening up we lay back down and he wraps his body against mine, strokes my hair before falling asleep. Actually, I think we both went into comas.
The next morning was a repeat of the night, maybe not quite as intense but still a great time with a younger guy who enjoyed being with an older woman. He made me feel young and desirable again. We still get together when our schedules permit. Middle age is great!
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