Ideal first meeting location  

nastytease4U 43F  
11530 posts
2/11/2018 7:32 am

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Ideal first meeting location

Here is an interesting question, what do you think is the best place to meet someone that you have chatted with on While you are pondering the question, this would be a good time to post any meetings you have had, (good and bad)

My first meeting locals:

2 guys were invited over to our house
4 guys and one couple we met at a hotel room
1 couple we met at a dance club
a large number we met at a house party
coffee shop
movie theater
adult themed club or party
dance club
I have never met someone from AFF or similar site

maybejustrex4 54M

2/11/2018 7:43 am

Back when Borders existed, getting a coffee there was a great first meet. In fact, on any given weekend night you could identify the guys waiting to meet someone new by the way they looked up every time the door opened.

CleavageFan4U 64M  
68357 posts
2/11/2018 8:13 am

I've mostly met new ladies at local bar/restaurants, as the provide a nice place to chat and we don't need to worry if the discussions become a bit naughty.

Three favorite "meeting" memories, that don't follow the scenario above:

1. The VERY FIRST lady I ever met via A*F*F - It was a classic story of starts and stops / conflicting schedules. FINALLY one day she just told me to meet her at a local park. We did, and she immediately grabbed my hand and lead me down a walking trail. Very soon, she lead me off the trail, pulled out my cock, and sucked me off till I came, and gave me the "look I swallowed it all" view. I was "thinking - MAN, A*F*F is fun!!"

2. The third A*F*F lady I ever met just told me to get a room. She showed up and we were having sex within about 5 minutes.

3. A blogger lady I'd never met, invited me down to her ranch for a long weekend. For reasons STILL not clear to me, she told me to get a room at a local hotel for nights 1 + 2, after which we'd go stay at her ranch. The week before my visit was full of mutual speculation as to how long till we were nekkid after first meeting. I reset the clock a bit, but being nekkid when she showed up at the hotel room.

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Adultmindedguy 44M
5 posts
2/11/2018 8:27 am

Home worls best for me! Comfortable mot creepy and good place to fuck!!!

HollyChatsNJ 63T
2792 posts
2/11/2018 8:28 am

Living in a shore resort area. I have it very easy to meet people. I just use the boardwalk to meet face to face.

I've been on on and off for about 6 years. I used to meet all the time.

What I look for now is so different than what it once was so I don't meet like I once did.

If I was still in my old ways. There is a perfect adult club here in Atlantic City called RolePlay.

Atlantic City, NJ

cyclingfool 59M  
6636 posts
2/11/2018 8:36 am

Much like Cleavage fan, I met a few off the old AOL chat rooms. Mom's online was a good one. Had a few instant connections if you know what I mean..
But mostly coffee or lunch meetings to start out.
Met one woman with her husband and played golf with them. Great time. Still friends today.

69foxman3 49M

2/11/2018 8:43 am

Hope more ladies chime in.

redrockrascal 63M
23349 posts
2/11/2018 9:10 am

I voted bar, but sports bars more specifically.

I've had about a dozen meets since I joined in 12/13. Most have ended up having sex in various places (hotel, park, their place, my place). Of those most led to multiple meetings. A couple became sort of regular things. A*F*Fs been good to me so far.

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happytmes2 65M  
668 posts
2/11/2018 9:29 am

The first meet was at a restaurant bar. The second was at my home. Two more at Starbucks

AZBiGuy480 58M  
27 posts
2/11/2018 9:36 am

I have meet at a restaurant, bar, hotel, a party at a hotel, there house, and my house.

DoctorBooty 40M
6420 posts
2/11/2018 10:04 am

I prefer to meet at a quieter bar the first time, after that a hotel is best.

funeye 38M
83 posts
2/11/2018 10:43 am

dance club.....

TravelingMan524 69M
241 posts
2/11/2018 7:06 pm

Coffee shop, restaurant, or bar if she is shy.
Hotel of the chat has been hot or if in a hurry.

gooodloven2 68M
381 posts
2/11/2018 8:13 pm

parking lot in front of restaurant or bar or at a park it is easy to see a car , so what do you drive .

tnt6969694 68M
221 posts
2/11/2018 11:09 pm

I personally prefer the coffee shop as it offers a neutral - no pressure location.

quest4thrills00 56M/50F
7 posts
2/12/2018 12:16 am

Most of the time we have met people at a restaurant. We did meet one guy at his hotel room.

21 posts
2/12/2018 10:06 am

House or Hotel would work best

submokey 66M/60F
10383 posts
2/12/2018 11:17 am

Always used to meet at a coffee shop, in public. Chat for awhile, to get a sense of them in person.

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fadey66 57M
43 posts
2/12/2018 11:51 pm

You have a beautiful body and I have a beautiful and wonderful rod that can meet with some add friend thank you

aniceride 51M  
117 posts
2/13/2018 8:33 am

my first meetings are always in public to make sure there is comfort can write or talk to someone till your blue in the face but you never really know until you actually meetings are always under the pretense of not jumping into to bed after two minutes lol.

hapamale 50M  
68 posts
2/13/2018 11:40 am

some kind of drink always help, even coffee.

Saranghae2 49F  
206 posts
2/13/2018 11:46 am

i won't meet anyone indoors. i just simply prefer meeting other ppl outdoors instead... usually at a park.

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dessertgarden 51F
33 posts
2/13/2018 12:29 pm

My most favorite, still on-going, was at a local grocery store. Multi-tasking, it worked out wonderfully well I will forever look for avocados every time I step into a produce section!

camperdude_69 60M
4618 posts
2/13/2018 1:57 pm

I think a coffee shop... for first meeting

tyrantcapri 48M
24 posts
2/13/2018 2:53 pm

damn, anywhere where the clothes could be shed withing five minutes, I hate formal interactions, and I found the best way to get past that is with a good fuck, suddenly, its as if we've known each other for years.

Leegs2012 48M
87018 posts
2/13/2018 3:24 pm

Usually meet at Bars or Sex Partys

slowrider136911 60M
269 posts
2/13/2018 6:56 pm

I like a coffee shop. Quick and easy. If it's a single girl, I'll do lunch as well. Couple would be coffee or maybe a bar. Pretty much a safe public place. Lot of flakes out there!

Cpllooking6671 55M/50F  
3115 posts
2/13/2018 7:23 pm

Our meets:
Wegman's cafefor coffee- 3 times all single guys
Dinner- 2 times with couples
Appetizers- 1 time couple, 1 single guy
Applebee's - 1 time couple

Pale_Guy 28M
66 posts
2/14/2018 1:46 am

Coffee shop or restaurant. I always meet people in public first.

asslover9988 51M
138 posts
2/14/2018 8:50 am

hotels, bars , mall

WantUToWantMeToo 51M

2/14/2018 10:22 am

Safe, neutral and non threatening environment. At least you get a coffee if it doesn’t work out or she’s a no show. Lol

JohnInNebraska 60M
186 posts
2/14/2018 11:04 am

I met a couple at a bar which worked out great, In regards to the question I believe the best place is at a coffee shop, bar or somewhere in the public is the best places to meet.


2/14/2018 12:31 pm

for security reasons, I never at anyone homes or bars (no alcohol) ...I always meet in a more vanilla place like a coffee shop or somewhere where there are a lot of cameras and people. safety first.

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sexydad1167 54M
1352 posts
2/14/2018 5:58 pm

Most I have met at my place Either talked for a while first or I made dinner or we went right to the bedroom. I have met some out at a restaurant. Or Her place,

sanots123 56M/55F
23 posts
2/15/2018 2:37 am

Of course, we meet only at a public place - restaurant, coffee shop, bar, park - anything.
Only once in Bangkok, we were invited directly into a condo for a group setting ------------- AND BOY, we did enjoy ourselves.

Ltnoman42 55M
74 posts
2/15/2018 5:43 am

the beach


fahiem2010 50M
67 posts
2/15/2018 1:19 pm

\8b if your meeting don't go well I'm in Orwigsburg let's me.

GIdontknow_134 64M
270 posts
2/15/2018 3:29 pm

Hi nasty:

I've met up with women (from online) at bars, restaurants, a pool hall, a coffee shop, a hotel, a mall, one woman's home, the home of a friend of a woman, Meet & Greets and probably a few other places that I'm forgetting. I think the most important thing is picking a place that satisfies her (and your) security needs. That tends to leave out meeting at your home.



nicelipss66 45F
24236 posts
2/15/2018 7:24 pm

I say Coffee Shop. cause if things don't click. still ok cause it won't take too long. and both can go on their way after that. short and simple.

But I have to say that I have met several members from this site at my my place. that is because I have talk to them some much over the blogs and talk to them over the phone that I felt comfortable to do so. but I always let my roommate know when someone is going to visit, that way he knows just in case. and sometimes he is here in his room just to make sure. but so far every meeting has been very pleasant.

playtoy484 58M
103 posts
2/16/2018 9:11 am

The ones i have met have been right in there own bedroom...

EvelynJMN 62T
8 posts
2/16/2018 10:36 pm

Always try to make it a public venue - bar/restaurant usually.

wincardium 59F  
8 posts
2/17/2018 12:01 am

I prefer meeting people in public for the first time. There's a great local bar that's near me and perfect for meeting people. I also like coffee shops and of course, Starbucks.

While I have done it twice, I just don't think it's a good idea for a female to meet a man she's never met for the first time in a hotel room. But that's me. Love, love, love!

McDawger 48M
49 posts
2/17/2018 4:25 am

I love to meet at a hotel...and fuck right away😘

Bmanus465 68M
46 posts
2/17/2018 5:42 pm

My first meeting was in a parking lot in my car. She was very nervous as we went to a hotel room. We spent the time in the room with me kissing her and talking about what I would do to make her happy. We never had sex that da but for every week after that for two years I got a room and we fucked for four hours each time.

nekkedcouple 61M/55F  
85 posts
2/18/2018 6:23 am

We usually meet at a bar. There have been several times when the guy doesn’t show up or he does and doesn’t look like his pictures, so it’s safer and easier to meet in public.

But we were at a hotel out of town on the last evening of a business trip/vacation this past Friday and we invited a guy over that we had chatted with online. He had sex with my wife for quite a while and then he left. We made love afterwards. Very erotic.

TongueRyder 51F  

2/18/2018 8:09 am

Always meet at a coffee shop that also happens to be near some hotels. First meet, we chatted for about a month before deciding to meet at the coffee shop. Once we met, we chatted more, liked what we saw and decided to head over to the hotel. He was already fingering my pussy while we were on the elevator and once in the room , he walked me over to the bed, bent me over and started eating my pussy from behind. Suffice it to say, we had a great time

One meet, was a guy who lived farther away. Again we chatted for about a month, decided to meet at a 1/2 way spot (park). Once we arrived, he came over to the drivers side, gave me a kiss and some flowers. We drove around in the park, me stroking his cock and he fingering my pussy until we decided to get a hotel room. Again, as soon as we entered the room, he led me to the bed, bent me over and started eating my pussy from behind, he was some of the best oral ever! 10 tongues up for him, LOL

poullaki1982 39M

2/18/2018 2:43 pm

I met that woman from at a bar in Athens. But nothing more happened

DiscreetAffairPA 45M
213 posts
2/19/2018 6:31 am

Any place public. First, it gives the woman more safety and security. Second, it gives either or both of you a way to back out easily if you're not comfortable.

CedarsPrince 42M
1530 posts
2/19/2018 7:17 am

I usually prefer a restaurant or a coffee shop. It's a public place so everyone feels comfortable. You also get to know how the person is by the way they eat and treat the staff.

fancy_legs 49F  
93 posts
2/19/2018 8:48 am

First meeting is a restaurant , somewhere that is public. Safe place. Try to get off the rush timing so you can actually hear the conversation without yelling over the sport bar places. Going to a restaurant gives you more time to have a conversation with that person. See if there is any interest or connection for anymore to follow.

oldman1973 73M/36F  
617 posts
2/19/2018 9:07 pm

We only ever meet others, Men, couples with bifems and single bifems or groups at our home, we enjoy a few days of uninterrupted sex fun every time

shag46514 72M
51 posts
2/22/2018 9:39 am

Coffee shop or local park is good for first meet. Her house is good too. I think the strangest place was a first meeting on a bench across from the local police station. She felt really safe there, but we moved on. Where ever the lady feels most comfortable works for me.

SummerDances 45M
23 posts
2/23/2018 4:32 pm

Coffee shops or smoothie bars are where I have met most of my dates

Bagbag86 61M
4 posts
3/3/2018 2:49 am

I want one pussy one blow job. An get it right. I dont care if in the ladies room just do

Bagbag86 61M
4 posts
3/3/2018 3:02 am

Cum now damit

Baltofriendly 55M/52F  
13 posts
3/3/2018 7:28 am

For me it was the mall, very public and alot of places to sit and have a nice conversation and even get something to drink (coffee, coke)
It's also nice to go window shopping as you can walk around and talk about things you wanted to know or ask

Iwanaliku2 59M
68 posts
3/20/2018 6:42 am

First choice - Coffee shop... Second choice - bar.... It's all about her feeling safe until we feel the connection...

lostboy4422 55M
24 posts
3/28/2018 11:17 am

First time was at a shopping center....worked out well...hotel was just next door

UrIceCreamMan69 67M
97 posts
4/12/2018 5:26 pm

A restaurant with a hotel close by.

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