what are your feelings about the new IM system?  

nastytease4U 43F  
11805 posts
7/18/2020 3:56 am

Last Read:
8/3/2020 4:05 am

what are your feelings about the new IM system?

Things I noted:

Sorting by distance means those who are farthest from you appear first.

I have open a before I can delete it.

It now glitches and doesn't show my friends list.

I have not found one thing that is better

What do you think?
They need to fix it or go back to the old system
I love it
I really don't give a damn


big54al 67M
2244 posts
7/18/2020 4:52 am

They still haven't fixed the missing words on blogs yet


maturem1967 54M  
18 posts
7/18/2020 5:36 am

Yeah, quite a lot glitches to be fixed still.


vindalooloo23 54M  
28 posts
7/18/2020 5:47 am

It is terrible


smurfalert99 65M
32 posts
7/18/2020 5:49 am

It's really, REALLY awful.

And they expect people to pay to use it.


jackdiane3 63M/55F  
1 post
7/18/2020 6:00 am

doesnt work for me


myxxxfiles 64M  
11 posts
7/18/2020 6:01 am

I use an older platform...unable to use IM now they locked me out... worked perfectly before.


CleavageFan4U 64M  
68421 posts
7/18/2020 6:17 am

I'd not even looked at it till you mentioned it.

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CaseyCat 56F  
70 posts
7/18/2020 6:45 am

Sometimes, I feel we are slowly seeing the demise of this site. First, they took the free IM chats away from the standard members. Second, they took free gold away from the ladies and icebreakers. Thirdly, they fooked up the IM, again. They are choking the life out of this site.


idahosmilin 69M
29 posts
7/18/2020 7:15 am

Go back to the old system.


coolpoolguy3 55M
3309 posts
7/18/2020 7:21 am

Worst version of IM yet!


piggmann 61M  
4 posts
7/18/2020 7:28 am

it's much worse than before. not that they listen. this is a total "take the money and run" site. run that credit card and its fuck us all after that.


2469gold 55M  
5 posts
7/18/2020 7:29 am

Many messages don't go through, and notifications are terrible when they do work. I liked it when it showed missed messages as well . new one is totally a flop. layout is good but beyond that.........


FenderGibson999 57M  
1 post
7/18/2020 7:34 am

It's a piece of shit as usual.


Wok2016 39M  
592 posts
7/18/2020 7:48 am

It's probably worse than what they replaced it with. Which is impressive, given it wasn't very good to begin with. That seems like something that should have been easy to fix....


DoctorBooty 40M
6420 posts
7/18/2020 7:55 am

I've been on this site 15 years, the IM has been shitty for all of them.

They will never get it right.


jan04005 63M/49F
9 posts
7/18/2020 8:05 am

this whole sight sucks


opnmnds2fnd 41M  
8 posts
7/18/2020 10:37 am

No real improvement in any way I can tell. It has its own issues that I don;t think they planned on like it switches you to "busy" if you simply refresh your main profile page or try to do anything else on the site as well as chat simultaneously. Ooops...


pentastar1954 67M  
3 posts
7/18/2020 10:38 am

At $100 per year the site is doing well for not working properly


Firebird81964 57M  
8 posts
7/18/2020 11:25 am

I am a former gold member under another user name, since I rejoined as a standard member I can't do shit. The cost for becoming a gold member is ridiculous. The last time I renewed my old gold membership I got it for $7 a month for 12 months. I hate to sound so cheap but $20 a month for a site that doesn't work half the time and half of who's members seem to work for the site with no other reason than to make you use your points, buy more points or get you to buy other shit isn't worth it. This used to be a really good site but I agree with some other comments that I have read, I think the demise of this site is soon at hand.


maybe1932 67M/52F  
44 posts
7/18/2020 12:26 pm

Ours hasn't worked since it changed


swfla56 65M
99 posts
7/18/2020 12:52 pm

They do anything to members from chat. BULL SHIT. IT worked fine before assholes.


avgkinkster 54M
70 posts
7/18/2020 12:54 pm

Clearly this site has become about nickel and diming everything. Frankly I don’t think they give a damn about I am unless it puts money in their pocket. It’s getting harder and harder to communicate with people for free. The reason I don’t pay is because they can’t even get the free shit right so why would I bother paying?


60satisfaction 64M

7/18/2020 12:58 pm

It doesn't matter a bit what they do...
its a wonder that it works at all.


Luv2bottom4u2 64M  
1832 posts
7/18/2020 2:04 pm

IT SUCKS !!!!


Tmptrzz 59F  
104465 posts
7/18/2020 2:37 pm

I really don't like the new IM..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


985bii 63M
1 post
7/18/2020 3:28 pm

I hate it. Whether the glitches are fixed or not, it's terrible. The old IM was so much easier.


mchlnwh 61M
339 posts
7/18/2020 7:06 pm

Tried it today. It sucks.


s2ndegree 62M  
9797 posts
7/18/2020 8:04 pm

I'm confused here.Is there a reason why people would rather
use a system that's never been reliable. I never sent any and the ones I
received were of the standard predictable nonsense.I do remember it very well
for a rather large amount of negative back and forth and ghosting reports often posted on blogs rather regularly.

Using more than all the road!


phonex12342 63M
2 posts
7/18/2020 8:10 pm

it sucks. period. Took away the free IM's for free members. Then took away the ability to look at the members locations and what they were looking for. Not worth the cost. The site is really going down hill. I was on here before for 3 years and it has only gotten worse. I'm only a free member now and I don't know if it's worth the money to go gold.


Calfitcouple 54M/54F
23 posts
7/18/2020 8:12 pm

doesn't work for me


tj4fun31 54M  
4 posts
7/18/2020 8:27 pm

If I sort by distance it makes ZERO sense to list those farthest away first. I mean thats so dumb it makes my head hurt!!


sg_hot_guy 51M
11 posts
7/19/2020 12:25 am

    Quoting Firebird81964:
    I am a former gold member under another user name, since I rejoined as a standard member I can't do shit. The cost for becoming a gold member is ridiculous. The last time I renewed my old gold membership I got it for $7 a month for 12 months. I hate to sound so cheap but $20 a month for a site that doesn't work half the time and half of who's members seem to work for the site with no other reason than to make you use your points, buy more points or get you to buy other shit isn't worth it. This used to be a really good site but I agree with some other comments that I have read, I think the demise of this site is soon at hand.
Yes ! You are correct.. They blocked my other nick the moment i did not renew my gold membership ! Also most of the profile are fake !


Imdirtnasty 51M  
3 posts
7/19/2020 3:08 am

I FUCKING HATE IT


SomewhereSE 64M
314 posts
7/19/2020 3:56 am

They never seem to proof test any “improvements” so nothing ever workS right when they roll it out, so that it’s broken is par for the course. Doesn’t bother me since I never use it, it’s a pointless waste of time, more scammers than real members there.

A poll isn’t going to help get it fixed, everone ought to find/complain to them in their site problems blog, no point talking to customer service, that never gets results either.


JeepMan1652 59M
1 post
7/19/2020 4:59 am

Instead of not working 98% of the time, now at least I can open it and communicate with people. But it has been broken for so long, I think that people have developed all sorts of risky work around solutions.


Eviloutlaw1 60M
4799 posts
7/19/2020 5:56 am

Haven't used the new version, then again I never really used the old one as it never worked for me.


bitchkitty2017 69F

7/19/2020 6:04 am

I dont come on here to bitch and moan about something i cannot do anything about like some people ..it is not that bad i wanna talk to someone i bring it up and talk to them ..get over it and get on with it


1seeking1 56F
3750 posts
7/19/2020 6:16 am

Seems to be slower then the old version....


cuminmyhairypuss 59M/57F  
8 posts
7/19/2020 7:54 am

sucks big time


older4young2020 53M  
30 posts
7/19/2020 9:04 am

What tickles me, is that I use to see so many people bitch and moan about the old IM system and all of it's problems. Now that TSdates.com has attempted to make changes, everyone seems to want to go back to the old system for which they despised soooooo much.

It's just too funny.


justaman4sex2 55M  
3 posts
7/19/2020 11:17 am

It is the worst! Constantly refuses to let me respond and everyone that has hit me up thinks I am blowing them off. I have been on this site a while but I think it's time to find a new one. If something wasn't broken then why intentionally fuck it up? SMPH!


simpleandrelaxed 56M
20 posts
7/19/2020 11:44 am

I get a blank page no matter how i refine the setting..


PreacherNHotwife 58M/52F  
4 posts
7/19/2020 1:01 pm

None of the above, actually. We wouldn’t have thought it possible, but it’s even worse than the old program. The new one is completely useless! It crashes before we can even post one reply. Absofuckinglutely worthless!


blackdude4white 61M  
104 posts
7/19/2020 2:11 pm

This is one of the shittest sites on the internet. I am fighting with them now because a friend invited me to watch his cam. Since I let my gold lapse, I had to pay 25 points which I did. But the damn cam never opened. Just the little dots going round. They have responded about this blaming everything but my kitchen sink for the problem. They basically have stolen 25points from me. See my blog. I come to this site to see cams. If it goes belly up something a find myself wishing for, no great loss. I have been a gold member for nearly 15 years and it has been nothing but a waste of money. Read my blog for more information on how they have tried over the years to rip me off. I truly hope their office building burns down with the site owners still inside!


slo2600 45M
245 posts
7/19/2020 2:13 pm

I've been on this site like twenty years. It's getting worse and worse and worse all the time.


blackdude4white 61M  
104 posts
7/19/2020 2:18 pm

    Quoting bitchkitty2017:
    I dont come on here to bitch and moan about something i cannot do anything about like some people ..it is not that bad i wanna talk to someone i bring it up and talk to them ..get over it and get on with it
No one comes here to bitch and moan. If you think that then you are dumber than 45, and that's pretty dumb. What we try to do is hope that by speaking out about it maybe/but doubtfully, they will read the complaints and fix it. Good for you that it works all the time perfectly, but for us it does not. The site has gotten very shitty over the 15-20 years that I have been a member.


phxmn4u2 59M
28 posts
7/19/2020 5:41 pm

it really sucks you can't answer a im it sends you or them offline


freetobeme9569 52F
180 posts
7/19/2020 8:53 pm

A blank page for me yet i can receive messages..


smilybob2214 37M
78 posts
7/20/2020 3:50 am

15 point to chat is to many


fahrenheit451x2 60M
162 posts
7/20/2020 4:22 am

It's just all a mess - the whole site


apole4ahole 56M
75 posts
7/20/2020 10:21 am

As far as I can tell, they took something broken and made it even worse


cici1334 49T
26 posts
7/20/2020 11:03 pm

MIne is a blank screen so don't even know what it is???


exhibicionista46 46M
318 posts
7/21/2020 8:47 am

a big shit


51007 66M  
572 posts
7/21/2020 11:01 am

Hello, the new MI is very very bad.
I dont' see my list, how can I join my preferences, ... ! It worked best before. !!!


Looking4FWB6258 59M
12 posts
7/21/2020 4:18 pm

Sucks


trlywickedcpl 68M/69F  
10 posts
7/22/2020 6:29 am

Just one more reason not to give then my money


wannarock2006 56M  
9 posts
7/22/2020 4:29 pm

The site has now slowed to a glitchy barely functioning waste of time. I have been a paying member since 2006, I won't be renewing.


wannarock2006 56M  
9 posts
7/22/2020 4:33 pm

Why does my IM keep switching to busy all by itself, WTF?


ahrnycumtoy 47M
272 posts
7/22/2020 9:48 pm

sucks


Sallyslober 39T
1 post
7/23/2020 12:39 am

no they expect to steal your credit card numbers is what they expect they want you to pay for it


Brownie202 64F  
2595 posts
7/23/2020 6:14 am

The worse it is the better I like it. That way I am . getting less desperate people sending me one. They refuse to read my profile or think that they are exception

Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth.

If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.


Brownie202 64F  
2595 posts
7/23/2020 6:23 am

The worse it is the more I like it. Most who sends me one either does not read my profile or think they are the exception. The rest are sore losers because they are not what I want. That is if i was meeting. Oh by the way my profile says I do not use the im and am not meeting.

Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth.

If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.


Brownie202 64F  
2595 posts
7/23/2020 8:24 am

I am happy its worse. Less people who are looking for a fast meet will not be able to send me one. In such a rush they don't take the time to read my profile.

Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth.

If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.


perkerlee 71M
4 posts
7/23/2020 11:25 am

TSdates.com is now as fucked up ad FB. They are greed driven.


chrisp672 49M  
2 posts
7/23/2020 1:50 pm

the persons profile shows that they are on IM. When you try to contact them then the IM says they are gone, not online.....I get that issue 9 times out of 10 when i try to contact someone on IM.


3200Ram 40M
210 posts
7/24/2020 4:01 am

it's not work properly .. I tried many PC.


idblueswoman 63F  
826 posts
7/24/2020 6:06 am

I don't use the IM feature... not my thing. What really annoys the crap out of me is when I log on to the site it automatically makes me available in IM and bamn messages. I have to go then set it to busy so I don't get messaged but some people can't ready and do it anyway.


wewanthotsex62 58M/59F  
1 post
7/24/2020 9:27 am

It still does not work. Just like 90% of the people here...Fakes and talkers.


loveswomanbits 46M
24 posts
7/24/2020 12:05 pm

It's carp


loveswomanbits 46M
24 posts
7/24/2020 12:06 pm

Post4332246 it's crap


loknnky 68M
163 posts
7/24/2020 1:24 pm

i did like the new message system but i see they went back to the old that works every now and then


josewales5 57M
2 posts
7/24/2020 9:00 pm

Yes,is real shitty.Was glad to see today,they are back to the old IM.


tyrantcapri 48M
24 posts
7/25/2020 10:29 am

Simple, it's pure bullshit !!!


Agent4Sure 66M

7/25/2020 11:03 am

The new one worked for a week, the old one never worked, but now I get the same old message "Reconnect Now" again and again. Useless


rocketman196972 64M

7/26/2020 7:55 am

Most of the time I am not on a gold status and the TSdates.com admins don't award points for guys like they have posted, so IM is not really an option for me. When gold, it isn't dependable.


2havfun4u 60M/109F
7 posts
7/26/2020 8:07 am

so sad to say the site is not worth paying for anymore im down graded to standard mbr now i like to chat it's 15 points now and regardless if the person you chat with respond the site still takes your point away .

So long story short i'll be on till my points are gone...... Oh and BTW my status has changed and the site charges you to change you profile status mmmmmmm go figure so sad
vici


MatureGent4u2c 56M  
17 posts
7/26/2020 9:33 am

Every "improvement" they worse things get.


boatsatseaH0Tc0m 61M
36 posts
7/26/2020 1:42 pm

15 years ago it worked truly fine and was free as well. Now it sucks like hell. Standard members get shut off after 5 messages or so. All for the money.


ludwig202 69M
11895 posts
7/27/2020 5:04 am

das Foto
des jahres


oralfixation2u 64M
61 posts
7/27/2020 6:11 am

I see that as of this morning they changed back to the previous format. As bad as it has been I didn't think it could have gotten any worse. I was sadly wrong.


Duder130 40M
15 posts
7/27/2020 10:37 am

Yeah it wasn’t very good before but somehow it seems worse now.


hotflash72 72M  
3 posts
7/28/2020 3:14 pm

Hopefully some where out in the world some one has taken note and will start a new site that WORKS !!


suesteve14 47M/44F
8 posts
7/28/2020 6:08 pm

to many issues and disconnects


phxmn4u2 59M
28 posts
7/28/2020 9:02 pm

it sucks . i had no problems with the way it was .


rdy_2_plz_ 22M
20 posts
7/29/2020 12:58 am

In my opinion it hasn't changed much


mtl_hypersexual 44M/50F
16 posts
7/29/2020 5:22 am

For sure it needs work but for me works both on PC and mobile. Sorting by distance it gives me the closest members though. I am new on passion so I have no termsI of comparison, but I am a geek so I don't complaint much, making lemonade with the lemons.


nightdriver22 47M  
1 post
7/29/2020 8:44 am

The operators of this site are most likely nothing more than criminals. They are all on trial and sentenced to long prison terms.
They pull the money out of the members' pocket without any corresponding consideration.
It is unbelievable that you pay a lot of money here to view the virtual advertisements of whores or that webcam girls ask you to go to other payment sites.
If the operators were reputable, they would block access at the slightest suspicion of fake profile or prostitution.
Apart from that, the majority of the profiles are certainly fake profiles.
I hope that somebody will find someone who sues these criminals for damages and repayment of the contributions.

The presumption of innocence applies (unfortunately) to all accused!


Bnormalfun 35M
20 posts
7/29/2020 12:44 pm

I wish we could just chat more easily.


RoosterTex69 57M  
55 posts
7/29/2020 7:38 pm

TSdates.com is like 90's technology, that doesn't function properly.


Trexxmexx 51M
5 posts
7/30/2020 2:29 pm

mmmmmmmmmmmmm mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm


mike92hd4928 58M  
23 posts
7/30/2020 2:45 pm

mine seems to work better now i can respond now


summerlove94 55F

7/30/2020 3:31 pm

i cant remember the last time it worked for me but once in a blue moon the old one actually worked. not once since the new one.


Cornflake_Girl_ 36F  
501 posts
7/31/2020 8:46 am

I like the fact it has a direct line to my ouija board!😈👹
...just never ask a ouija board when you're gonna die!🤪⚰


ROBARONI 63M  
20 posts
7/31/2020 9:52 am

They have gone back to the old system as of a few days ago (up here - North East).


iwantwat 59M  
18 posts
7/31/2020 10:40 pm

Don't know if it's related, but now my cam doesn't work either.


protection19 67M

8/1/2020 9:34 am

I seem that I can not get on it when I want nor invite who I want to talk to on it


1hardcock00 58M
31 posts
8/1/2020 10:20 am

i think this site is going down hill there are other sites that are better and when you first try it out and you use IM they just take 3 points to see if you want to join and to be a member is cheaper


46fun9 63M

10/9/2020 8:47 am

Seems to me, that every time they try to fix something, they just make it worse


ROBARONI 63M  
20 posts
10/18/2020 8:13 am

No more broadcasting in Private. Don't like that. Go back to the old system.


snorkeler2013 54M
6 posts
11/26/2020 8:30 am

Indifferent


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