What is on your mind
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Posted:Feb 5, 2016 3:02 pm
Last Updated:Jan 7, 2019 4:21 pm
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I been reading blogs for quite awhile on here, I have enjoyed them. I think people on here are very creative in their thinking and writing. But I was wonder about what we are really looking for on this site. I was thinking about myself, What do I really want .I am not looking for a perfect lover or perfect man,I am not looking for the movie star look, I am looking for someone to be honest with themselves as well being honest with me. Someone who can be wild and crazy sometimes and someone who can be passionate. Sometimes I want the quickie and other times I want to be made love to. I know there are men in my AREA who fit that, I know relationships can be hard and hurtful. So we settle for what ever we can get. I feel like that was fun times when I was a lot younger but now that I am older my thoughts and feelings have change. I don't want a different lover every night or other night or weekend, Those who do that is your likes and there isn't anything wrong with that. But if I could find that one who can be like having a different lover every time we have sex that would be great. And I know most men can do that, Maybe a have a void in my life sense my are grown and move away, I have more time to really think about my sex life now. I have focus more on it. I know there are others out there who feel like I do. the internet has taken us away from meeting people the way we use to. But we are still the same just more to play with and have a larger range to venture with. thanks for reading, I value your comments. have a great day.
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BLOG ALERT!!!!!!!!!!
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Posted:Jan 29, 2016 6:00 pm
Last Updated:Jan 7, 2019 4:25 pm
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Ok once again we have another person on here asking why people do not reply to their message. I have been nice about trying to be kind in the answer but they don't read blogs on here I guess, So I have to be mean about it. UNLESS YOU ARE PAYING THEM TO BE A MEMBER ON HERE, NO ONE HAS TO ANSWER A DAMN THING FROM YOU, STOP WHINING ABOUT NO REPLY, OR ATLEAST THEY CAN SAY NO THANKS OR NO THANK YOU. SHE OR HE DON'T HAVE TO DO A DAMN THING, UNLESS THEY WANT TO. GET OVER IT, THERE ARE 1000'S OF PEOPLE ON HERE YOU CHOSE TO DWELL ON ONE OR TWO WHO WILL NOT REPLY? MAYBE THIS IS WHY THEY DON'T YOU ARE A WHINER, GROW THE HELL UP, WE ALL GET MESSAGES WE DON'T REPLY TO. AND WE ALL SEND MESSAGES WE DON'T GET A REPLY FROM, BUT THE ADULTS JUST MOVE ON TO THE NEXT ONE. NO ONE ON THIS SITE IS REQUIRED TO REPLY TO EVERY OR ANY MESSAGE THEY GET, IT IS ALL BY CHOICE, THEY ARE NOT REQUIRED TO SAY NO THANKS NOT INTERESTED EITHER, IT IS STILL BY CHOICE, IF YOU HAVE TO HAVE A REPLY FROM SOMEONE YOU SENT A MESSAGE TO, TRY READING THEIR PROFILE FIRST. THEN YOU MIGHT GET A REPLY. BUT MOST OF ALL STOP WHINING ABOUT NOT GETTING A REPLY, BECAUSE PEOPLE DO READ THE BLOGS ON HERE.
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A thought
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Posted:Jan 18, 2016 8:23 am
Last Updated:Jan 7, 2019 4:33 pm
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Why Why Why can't we be honest with each other on here? You get someone all hype about meeting them, set the time , and date. But never show up or because you have lied so much in your messages, text, and profile the person is disappointed when they meet you. Just be honest you can't make someone want you. But being honest can help a lot. If all you want is cybersex, websex, nude pictures of that person than say it. you never know they might want the same things. I wonder how many people read profiles before they send a message to someone. I have read some people posting stating they will not message standard members, why not? Have you ever thought about maybe that person was tired of fake people on here, and decide not to pay for membership anymore, I was a gold member once but decide not to renew because of people lying, being fake, I wasn't being cheap, it was a waste of money to me. Are you going to keep paying for something and get nothing for it? It is a choice everyone have to make for themselves, Yes there are honest people on here, great people on here, but you have to remember there are flakes, fakes, and liers on here that make it hard for the good ones. I thought we stop with those games when we grew up, We did those kind of things in high school. It is just a thought I was pondering while reading blogs and profiles. I have to say all of you are very creative, enjoyable, and entertaining.
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Wow 2
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Posted:Jan 17, 2016 6:18 am
Last Updated:May 24, 2017 5:41 pm
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I got a message from a member on here, all it said was "I can eat your pussy", now tell me why should I reply to this message. I am asking all of those who say if they send a message to someone they would like a reply. Now I ask you would you reply to a message like that. I know a lot of people on here have gotten messages like that. Why bother replying to this person.
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WOW
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Posted:Jan 15, 2016 12:37 pm
Last Updated:Aug 25, 2016 1:29 am
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We are all adults I hope, Why do some of us make a big deal about small things, Life is about enjoying the time you have on this earth, We grip about so many silly things, We want to make it someone else fault. I was reading a blog on here about common sense, I am not trying to offend this person but it got to me, They are upset because people don't respond to every message they get. Why? It is not a rule on here to respond to everyone who send a message, it is a choice, just like it is a choice to send a message to anyone on here, I know some will ask why I am talking about this, well this isn't the first time someone have made this statement, I know a lot of you have got a phone call you didn't answer or a text and you didn't text back, same thing it is a choice to reply or respond or not. Don't make it out to be that you must reply to every message sent to you. Some of the people who send you messages never read your profile, and send messages to you about things you state in your profile you don't like or do, so why waste your time responding to that person? It is all about finding someone to have fun with and enjoy yourself.
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Adults
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Posted:Dec 12, 2014 8:52 pm
Last Updated:Aug 25, 2016 1:34 am
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Please, Please, adults stop complaining because someone do not respond to your message, saying they are rude, ill mannered. Some members on here get lots of messages daily. Not everyone come on here daily. PEOPLE DO HAVE A LIFE OUTSIDE OF THIS SITE. Some people only respond to people they are interested in. To me this is so childish to dwell on not getting a response, GEEZS grow up. I have a question. What do they owe you? Do you pay for their membership? Do you pay their internet? Now lets start being adults and understand not everyone will answer your message, Whining about no response, they are being rude not to respond isn't going to make them respond to you. It might make them run farther away from you. No one on this site owe anyone anything nor do they have to respond to every message that come in their inbox. Yes it would be nice to know if someone that you are interested in was interested in you. Stop telling people they need to respond to messages because IT IS A CHOICE TO ANSWER OR RESPOND, JUST LIKE IT WAS A CHOICE OF YOURS TO SEND A MESSAGE.
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Wow life can change so fast.
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Posted:Nov 19, 2014 9:27 pm
Last Updated:Aug 25, 2016 1:37 am
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I am feeling so sad right now, My best friend for over 20 plus years has cancer, it is in stage 4. You never how your life will change in a instant. Material things, good looks can't stop bad things that happen in your life. I am not trying to put a damper on anyone, I am just saying, REALLY LOOK AT WHAT IS IMPORTANT IN YOUR LIFE. ENJOY YOUR LIFE, STOP PUTTING CONDITION ON EVERYTHING IN YOUR LIFE, NO ONE KNOWS THEIR LAST DAY ON THIS EARTH OR HOW YOU WILL LEAVE THIS EARTH. TRYING TO KEEP UP WITH WHAT SOCIETY SAY IS NORMAL IS NOT THE WAY TO LIVE YOUR LIFE. DO WHAT MAKE YOU HAPPY AND STOP WORRYING ABOUT WHAT OTHERS WILL THINK ABOUT YOU. I pray she recover. TO EVERYONE WHO READ THIS BLOG, LIVE YOUR LIFE TO MAKE YOU HAPPY, YOU ONLY HAVE ONE LIFE TO LIVE.
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wondering why I am on here?
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Posted:Nov 18, 2014 5:44 pm
Last Updated:Jan 7, 2019 4:39 pm
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I join this site to find a lover, just a lover. But now I find myself rethinking what I want. I read a lot of blogs on here about sexual encounters and I think to myself is that what I really want, I am not judging anyone but myself. because as long as I have been on here, I still don't know what I want. I think I want no strings or long term relationship. But I think what if I meet that one person who I really connect with, and I want a long term relationship, You can't hide emotion forever, in the heat of the moment words do come out. then what, Yes I know this is a sex site, but it still doesn't stop human emotions. I have had only two encounters with men on here. Both at different times. Both lasted about a year apiece. It felt great to be with someone outside of the bedroom, go to dinner, the park, spend time together. I get messages from men who peak my interest but after texting for so long I loose interest. Maybe I am asking for too much. Maybe getting older change the way you think about your life.. Maybe the thought of being alone until I die scare me. Maybe my upbringing has a lot to do with feeling guilty of having sex with someone you have no feeling for. I know a lot of people who are in my age group know what I am talking about that guilt. The good church person don't do those things. Maybe if I just blog for awhile and think about is this really what I want, I don't want to waste anyone time because I am not sure what I want. I want to know do anyone else feel this way? and if you have felt this way how did you get over it. Thank you for taking the time to read my thoughts and thank you for your input.
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I ponder this thought
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Posted:Oct 16, 2014 8:57 pm
Last Updated:Sep 11, 2016 8:43 pm
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Do we spend more time trying to find a lover more than a mate? I know for me I wonder this thought. I know I have said to myself it is better to have a lover than a relationship. But trying to find a lover on this site is like finding a needle in a haystack. lol. Some people are like me on here, they just can't have sex with someone they don't have a connection with. Or a one night stand. There are other who it doesn't matter to them. I AM NOT JUDGING ANYONE. I STATED IT ISN'T FOR ME. But I beginning to wonder is it better to just get into a relationship and leave this site alone. I am not trying to find Mr. Right on here or anywhere. I am just wondering do I spend more time reading profiles from men who send me messages and answering those messages, only to be disappointed by the outcome. I have read some blogs of people saying they made contact with someone only to be disappointed because the person stood them up, lied to them, only want cyber sex, or phone sex. So is it better to continue to hope for that lover or just look for a mate?
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MAKING LOVE
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Posted:Sep 27, 2014 5:11 pm
Last Updated:Aug 25, 2016 1:53 am
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I have a question to all the TSdates.com people. Is it possible to make love to someone without being in love? I ask this question because I find myself thinking about when you are just having sex it is empty. Little foreplay and just have sex. I know when you are in a committed relationship you have that emotional connection, and you make passionate love with your partner. But with a Fwb or one night stand is it possible to make love to that person the same why you do to someone you are committed to? Can you make love to a one night stand or Fwb or Nsa? As a woman I know I want to be made love to when I am having sex. Not just little touching, a few kisses and then just fucked. I want foreplay, oral, touching, kissing so I can be really turn on. A little wetness doesn't mean a woman is ready to have sex. I know some men think she is ready if any wetness occur but some women take more foreplay to be ready for sex. I am one of those women. lol thanks for reading and responding to my blogs.
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LETS BE HONEST WITH EACH OTHER ( ADULTS)
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Posted:Sep 10, 2014 12:36 am
Last Updated:Sep 11, 2016 8:46 pm
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Why can't we just be honest with each other on this site. If all you want is phone sex or cyber sex then state it in your profile, then you want to complain that people are rude, liers, and fakes. Yes I have read that men out number the women on this site. But don't you think if you were more honest with what you want, that you are married, or in a long term relationship you might get more messages, stop being impatient about someone not responding. People work, have , and not everyone come to this site every day. BUT IF YOU TAKE THE TIME TO READ THE PROFILES AND STOP TRYING TO BULLY SOMEONE INTO CHANGING THEIR MIND ABOUT WHAT THEY WANT YOU MIGHT GET LUCKY, YOU DON'T HAVE TO BE RUDE AND NASTY WHEN A WOMEN OR MEN SAY THEY ARE INTERESTED IN YOU. I mean wow where is the common sense we use to have. Yes this is a sex site but it doesn't mean that every person you send a message to will want to have any type of sex with you. Everyone have their own preferences, respect that just like you want them to respect your preferences. IT ISN'T THAT HARD. YES WE ALL ARE HORNY AND WANT SEX BUT USE COMMON SENSE, RESPECT, HONESTY. BEING AN ASSHOLE ISN'T GOING TO GET YOU ANYWHERE, JUST REJECTED.
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What I WANT
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Posted:Sep 4, 2014 2:41 pm
Last Updated:Sep 11, 2016 8:52 pm
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Like a lot of people on this sex site, I became a member to get a sex partner. I wanted a partner to do things I dream about but never had to nerve to do or ask a boyfriend. I wasn't looking for many lovers, just one lover to do all the things I want to try. I haven't found that person because most think because this is a sex site you want to have sex with any and everyone that contact you. Or they state they want a slim, sexy partner. I am not slim,skinny or in shape. I have had three , I work with food. I am older and I have always been large all my life. People forget that some people are just born that way. I do feel like I am sexy to someone, I am not the BABIE type, the model, or movie star or porn star I am just me, Yes I can and I am getting into to shape for me and my health. I feel like I need to do this, I have no problem with getting men attention, but I can't seem to get that kinky lover I want and need. No I will not travel to you, and no I will not be a stop over for you when you come to my hometown. I want the same lover for awhile. I want to know my lover, connect to him , enjoy him in all the possible ways we can. AM I ASKING TO MUCH BECAUSE THIS IS A SEX SITE AND MEN SEEM TO THINK I WANT A BOYFRIEND OR HUSBAND? I want a certain level of what people say is taboo with one lover or a couple. I want a lover or a couple to except me for me. Not a babie or movie star or porn star. I know everyone has their own turn on or body type they like. And I know that is what they want also. If people would read profile more they will know the woman or man's body type, That way you can't be turn off when you meet or see that person pic. I read everyone profile who contact me, so I will know what they are looking for in a lover or partner, If I am not what they stated in the idea person, I will not contact them. All I want is a kinky, somewhat pervert, almost anything goes lover or couple in my area.
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Maybe I am wishing
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Posted:Aug 25, 2014 12:48 am
Last Updated:Sep 11, 2016 8:56 pm
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I read a lot of blogs on here, and I enjoy them so much, because they give you people thoughts and desires. They also help you with your sexual hang ups. I know this is a sex site, but I still have that need for a man to make love to me, In my younger years the having just a lover was ok, because I had young and I didn't want them meeting someone who might not be long term in our lives, I know it sounds crazy but I just want to protect them from getting use to a guy then it didn't work out and he was gone. So I just keep the lovers hid from them. Now that they are adults, I am lonely in a since, Sometimes I don't know what I want, so it is easier for one night stands. But then other times I want to enjoy just one person for a long time or see a future with them. I get scared and I run, I know some say and I am one of them, that I can have sex without emotions, Well I have to be honest it feel great to have sex but when it is over I am empty inside. He leaves and you either wait on another encounter with the same person or get someone new. But all and all it will be the same every time. I don't fall in love easy but the fear of meeting someone who is the idea person I desire and give me the pleasure I need and want. Maybe I am wishing on a star, I just don't like one night stand, I never have. I tried it before and I used protection but I still had to for my state of mind got tested for stds. I know some people will say, well you are on a sex site. you go to clubs, bars, social settings hoping to meet someone for a relationship or just sex. there isn't any difference. We are just more open about our wants and needs on here. Well enough with my crazy thoughts, I hope I can get some good feed back to my thoughts. I thank you all for taking the time to read and give me feed back.
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