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"Please read my (inaccurate, misleading) profile"  

realnicedik4u 61M  
62 posts
12/6/2021 11:14 am
"Please read my (inaccurate, misleading) profile"

In a perfect world, everyone one would read everyone else’s profile and get an idea of the person and whether the effort of making contact is warranted. Of course in the fishbowl that doesn’t work very well.

(Not discussing accurate profiles getting responses from people outside their preferences, that’s another topic)

I’m all for protecting oneself from predators, scammers, and the like but having missing, misleading info in a profile doesn’t make sense, a case in point:

I was going to be<b> traveling </font></b>to a location so I decided to see if any local females would be interested in meeting (I’ve had some success in my travels). I conversed with one femaie, told her when I’d be arriving to her town and where I’d be staying and we’d talk about meeting. We exchanged a few emails and seemed like there was an interest but when I arrived she told me that she lived 1.5hrs from the city listed in her profile. She also felt I should have known that and should have offered to her for gas so she could travel to meet me (yeah, right).

If your location is nowhere near where you actually live, what’s the point of providing that information? If you post that you live in a major city, but live in the suburbs I’m good with that (so long as the zip code you’ve entered is accurate). But if your profile states you live LA but you actually live in San Francisco then what’s the point of reading your profile as you’ve asked others to do?

Not just location but marital status, age, even a basic reason for being here would be helpful. If your profile doesn’t state accurate information then you can’t ask if you “read my profile”. (I’m also wondering if you read my profile?)

Encountered another profile where as we began talking she mentioned she was in a relationship (profile stated single) and she was still with her man. After a few email exchanges I suspected the man was a cuck and I asked her about it directly. She complained that I didn’t read her profile (said nothing about her relationship and cuckolding).

If you're posting a profile and don't have intentions of meeting then OK, but if you're somewhat serious about meeting then it's only fair to post accurate info so you can get the responses you desire.

Just keeping it real

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