Liar, Liar, Pants On Fire...  

rm_Moneypenny15 52F
53 posts
6/25/2010 6:14 pm
Liar, Liar, Pants On Fire...




You know what's important when you meet people for NSA hookups? Honestly, that's what.

At least, it is for me.

Look, I'm 40. Forty years old. And about 9 months. I've earned every gray hair that I cover with Ms. Clairol. I've earned every wrinkle that I smooth with Revitalift. Every experience I've had, good and bad, every moment, every tear, every laugh. They're all mine, accumulated over my 40 years.

I try to be as honest as I can about myself here. I'm fat, I'm single, I own cats... I share face pics with men I'm going to meet. I tell them my desires, my fantasies and my fears. I hold little back other than that which could be detrimental to my family, my friends, my safety and my job.

I don't lie easily. I'm bad at it and I almost always get caught... because liars always do.

Men that are meeting me deserve to know exactly what they're getting with me. My looks, my age, my limits, etc.

Is it really too much to expect the same in return?

Twice recently I've met men that have lied about their ages... one from here and one from Craig's List. The first one was a guy who said he was 40 on his profile... my age. Cool. We met several times, had a lot of fun. Then one night he let it slip that he has a that's 25 years old. I asked him how in the hell he could be 40 with a 25 year old . He sheepishly told me that he had shaved a few years off his age.

Whatever, I let it go... no big deal. He was great in bed.

Now his profile says that he's 39. So he's shaving off more because suddenly he's younger than me.

This week, I met a man from Craig's List. His ad said he was 54. Fine, cool, whatever. So I go meet him and I can tell immediately that he's not 54, but I'm bad with ages so I didn't really realize how hold.

Until he mentioned that he's getting ready to go to his FIFTY YEAR HIGH SCHOOL REUNION. Now, I'm not great with math, but that would mean he graduated when he was 4 years old.

I know age is just a number and all that... but really? I'm forty and he's old enough to be my dad.

This pissed me off.

Guys... why?? Why do you lie?? I've had several mature men tell me that women aren't interested in men over 40. Maybe it's just me, but I really don't believe this. I'm not attracted to younger men so maybe it really is just me. I don't want some 20-something. I'm getting to the point where I don't want some 30-something, either. Maybe the truth is that women aren't interested in men who say they're 37 when they're obviously in their late 40s. If you lie about that, we can't really believe you're telling the truth about anything else, can we?

I'm not asking for a ring, or even dinner. Or even necessarily to see you again. I'm just asking for honesty. And, seriously, I WANT you to be in your late 40s!! Early 50s!! Yay for mature older men!! WOOT!!

So when you're sitting there editing your profile, thinking about shaving a few years off your age in hopes of scoring some 23 year old hard-bodied, big perky breasted blonde, please pause to consider what you're doing. Those 23 year olds aren't hanging out on Us 40 year olds are. Do we really want to create an atmosphere on here where a 23 year old woman sets out to meet a 37 year old man and instead they find a 40 year old woman and a 55 year old man?? He's going to be let down, she's going to be let down, neither will trust the other and I think we can all agree that this isn't conducive to great sex, is it?

Be real. Get laid.

It's pretty simple.

“An orgasm a day keeps the doctor away." ~ Mae West

boxcarwillie1 61M

9/12/2010 2:12 pm

money penny if ya want a an honest man,that isnt going to lie you need to look no further.....take another chance...

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