Starting Out.  

rm_Moneypenny15 52F  
35 posts
4/25/2010 11:09 am
Starting Out.


I decided to start posting my thoughts and musings after each of my "adventures", as well as things I find as I peruse the listings on TSdates.com and other sites... mostly Craig's List. Perhaps it'll be a bit cathartic for me. Possibly for you, too. Anyway, I hope you enjoy.

I've been on TSdates.com for about a year and a half now, I guess, on and off. And for the most part, I've had great experiences so far. TSdates.com is definitely slated in a woman's favor. I think in my area it's about 26,000 men to just over 2,000 women. And who knows how many of those women are real?? So it's not at all hard for me, a fat chick, to find interested men.

However, it's NOT easy to find men that I find interesting. Maybe it's something basic... something in our genetic makeup. The differences between men and women. I think most... not all, but most... men are just happy to find a warm wet place to stick their cock. Of course, they all have dreams of that warm wet place being part of a nubile 19 year old blonde with firm tits and a tight round ass, but I think most of them quickly discover that there really aren't a lot of those going around.

For women, it's different. Yeah, we like handsome men. But for us... at least, for me... there has to be more than that. Me, I like intelligence. HUGE turn-on. And this is a problem in that men that call themselves chokuwithmydick don't seem all that intelligent. And after that, they have a line about how they want a blowjob. Well, GREAT!!! Thanks for letting me know. Because, you know, most men just HATE having their dick sucked.

/sarcasm

And... Jesus... the spelling and grammar. Guys... come on. Really. Stop with the fucking chat-speak already! Please! Is it really THAT hard to type the full work out? Is a tiny bit of effort going to kill you? And for Christ's sake, learn how to spell "tongue". Nothing turns me off faster than seeing "tounge" used in a profile. Especially if it's used more than once. If you can't spell it, how can I expect you to know how to use it?

Maybe I'm the odd duck here... perhaps things like this don't bother most women. But when I have a shitload of profiles to sort through looking for a man to fuck, the little things like that matter!

Photos. Yes, I know you'll send them to me if I ask. But... when there are so many guys on here that DO post them, why would I bother with those that don't. And that's a shame because I know there are some amazing men on this site that I haven't looked at because they don't have a photo.

No, I don't expect you to post a face shot. Really, I hope you don't. If you do, that's kind of saying to me that you lead a life where people seeing your face on a site like this wouldn't affect you, professionally or personally. And that sends up red flags for me. While I'm not at all ashamed of my sexuality, I'm also think it's no one's business but mine. Think that your boss can't find your profile by googling your incredibly clever screenname? Think again. So, yeah... pics are important... you can show a lot without showing your face!!

Well, don't I just sound all sorts of picky and bitchy? I'm not, really. I swear. I just know what I like and what I don't like. Take it for what it's worth... if you guys with names like chokuwithmydick and no pics and nothing in your about me section other than "I want 2 fuk u hard" are scoring like crazy on here, I guess I'm the insane one for expecting too much!

Now that I've gotten all that shit out of the way... my next posts will start looking into my adventures in hooking up. Don't worry, guys... I won't name names!

“An orgasm a day keeps the doctor away." ~ Mae West


kentuckiana 65M  
58 posts
1/19/2011 2:04 pm

Nice to glance through your blog-we haven't chatted in a while, but trust that you got through the holidays and are surviving the cold weather.

Best wishes,
Kentuckiana


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