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Dream Personalities  

secret_lade 48F
14251 posts
1/27/2022 3:13 am
Dream Personalities


I've never really thought about it....

But, in your dreams, is your personality the same as it is in real life??

I vividly dreaming this morning, just before I woke up, and it has stuck with me because I thought it so funny.

Even in my dreams, I'm a sarcastic shit-head.

I standing in a kitchen, complaining about how messy my house and griping about how I the only person who ever cleaned. While I wasn't speaking about it, I was "feeling' that it was during a time when my oldest was in his , the Mighty Marine elementary school age, and the Spawn a baby.

I don't often dream about myself in such a realistic capacity, not do I ever dream about my ....

So this unusual to begin with.

I talking to a guy who sitting on a stool at the bar, dirty dishes were all about him. He using scissors to cut pieces off a banana and eating the pieces.

"It's not that bad in here."

"What do you mean 'It's not that bad in here'??? You're relaxing in a pile of rubble and scissoring a banana!"

We both laughed in the dream.

As i woke up, it still fresh in my mind, and I ended up chuckling about it in real life as well.

Scissoring a banana in a pile of rubble....

Sounds kinda dirty, doesn't it?

I have to say, this is definitely a welcome break from what's really been on my mind lately.

My mind has been so consumed with anxiety and worry over what's going on in the Ukraine. Before my Mighty Marine undertook this journey, when I saw this type of stuff in the news, I worried but unaffected.

Thankful for those nameless faces I'd see on the news as they departed their military vehicles, dressed in their cammies protective gear.

Ready to take action.

Now I look at this stuff.... And I see the potential that my Mighty Marine, my beloved Middle , could possibly be one of those 8,500 troops that may or may not be sent for duty.

I now see it very differently as I am now not unaffected.

I'm trying like heck to not think and worry.....

But it remains an underlying fear in the back of my mind regardless.

Something I'm going to just have to accept.

For now, I think I'll stick to scissoring bananas.

Happy Thursday!

secret_lade 48F
9227 posts
2/1/2022 3:43 pm

    Quoting MrRareity:
    I use to have good dreams then I was started on Hydroxychloroquine or Plaquenil for RA. I was fine for about 4 months then I had one of the side effects I would have awful dreams that would wake me up. I changed to another medication because of it. That was about 10 yrs ago and my dreams are still not very pleasant for the most part.
I have a lot of terrible dreams, myself... I don't take any medications so I can't blame it on that. When I was younger I had them nearly every day but I've kind of trained myself to wake up when I start to have one now. I still manage to have one from time to time, but most of the time I will wake up and roll over now.


MrRareity 62M  
4589 posts
1/30/2022 7:26 am

I use to have good dreams then I was started on Hydroxychloroquine or Plaquenil for RA. I was fine for about 4 months then I had one of the side effects I would have awful dreams that would wake me up. I changed to another medication because of it. That was about 10 yrs ago and my dreams are still not very pleasant for the most part.

We have two lives, and the second begins when we realise we have only one - Confucious


spunkycumfun 62M/67F  
41171 posts
1/28/2022 3:43 am

I think I'm me in my dreams or perhaps I'm dreaming about an imposter!
The Ukraine situation is worrying. I think or at least hope there will be a diplomatic solution. I don't think American/Western troops will be sent into Ukraine as Ukraine is not a NATO member. The three Baltic countries, all members of NATO, populated by significant Russian minorities and surrounded by Russia, are more likely flashpoints.


secret_lade 48F
9227 posts
1/27/2022 3:40 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    I hope real life dreams are happy ones for you. 😊 👍
My real life dreams are happy.... I hope to be able to achieve them one day.


secret_lade 48F
9227 posts
1/27/2022 3:38 pm

    Quoting  :

I've been keeping it all bottled up.... That's never good for me. I spoke about it today for the first time since I found out, writing about it here helped me. I tend to withdraw when I'm feeling anxiety and fear even though I know I shouldn't, it doesn't help me.


secret_lade 48F
9227 posts
1/27/2022 3:33 pm

    Quoting WyoCowboy7751:
    Have on occasion had sexual dreams that were sooo vivid that right as sex act was going to be performed , I became fully awake and of course had a raging hard-on 😵🤠
I *always* wake up right when the good part is about to start! Frustrating, isn't it!?!


secret_lade 48F
9227 posts
1/27/2022 3:32 pm

    Quoting 69ereatwetpussy:
    Prays for all our young people in the military all over the world.
    As for dreams I am me in all my dreams I don't see me any different.
    I have many wild vivid dreams
    Action packed good and bad
    Yes and sex does happen

    Funny but I eat banana mand feed a banana to my dog every morning. So I use scissor to cut up banana skin to add to my compost pile.

    Have a wonderful day xoxox
My favorite dreams are the sex dreams.... LOL

I've been having a lot of realistic dreams lately, mostly about work, sometimes, like last night, about realistic past memories. I actually prefer to not dream about my real life, it always disturbs me once I'm awake.


secret_lade 48F
9227 posts
1/27/2022 3:23 pm

    Quoting citizen4722:
    Hopefully, it's just Putin showing off again.
I know it scares me, whatever it is that's happening.


citizen4722 64M  
74582 posts
1/27/2022 2:41 pm

Hopefully, it's just Putin showing off again.


69ereatwetpussy 60M
6778 posts
1/27/2022 6:54 am

Prays for all our young people in the military all over the world.
As for dreams I am me in all my dreams I don't see me any different.
I have many wild vivid dreams
Action packed good and bad
Yes and sex does happen

Funny but I eat banana mand feed a banana to my dog every morning. So I use scissor to cut up banana skin to add to my compost pile.

Have a wonderful day xoxox


WyoCowboy7751 69M
2537 posts
1/27/2022 5:55 am

Have on occasion had sexual dreams that were sooo vivid that right as sex act was going to be performed , I became fully awake and of course had a raging hard-on 😵🤠


Paulxx001 65M  
22616 posts
1/27/2022 4:51 am

I hope real life dreams are happy ones for you. 😊 👍


secret_lade 48F
9227 posts
1/27/2022 3:13 am

I've never really thought about it....

But, in your dreams, is your personality the same as it is in real life??

I was vividly dreaming this morning, just before I woke up, and it has stuck with me because I thought it was so funny.

Even in my dreams, I'm a sarcastic shit-head.

I was standing in a kitchen, complaining about how messy my house was and griping about how I was the only person who ever cleaned. While I wasn't speaking about it, I was "feeling' that it was during a time when my oldest son was in his teens, the Mighty Marine was elementary school age, and the Spawn was a baby.

I don't often dream about myself in such a realistic capacity, not do I ever dream about my kids....

So this was unusual to begin with.

I was talking to a guy who was sitting on a stool at the bar, dirty dishes were all about him. He was using scissors to cut pieces off a banana and eating the pieces.

"It's not that bad in here."

"What do you mean 'It's not that bad in here'??? You're relaxing in a pile of rubble and scissoring a banana!"

We both laughed in the dream.

As i woke up, it was still fresh in my mind, and I ended up chuckling about it in real life as well.

Scissoring a banana in a pile of rubble....

Sounds kinda dirty, doesn't it?

I have to say, this is definitely a welcome break from what's really been on my mind lately.

My mind has been so consumed with anxiety and worry over what's going on in the Ukraine. Before my Mighty Marine undertook this journey, when I saw this type of stuff in the news, I was worried but unaffected.

Thankful for those nameless faces I'd see on the news as they departed their military vehicles, dressed in their cammies protective gear.

Ready to take action.

Now I look at this stuff.... And I see the potential that my Mighty Marine, my beloved Middle Son, could possibly be one of those 8,500 troops that may or may not be sent for duty.

I now see it very differently as I am now not unaffected.

I'm trying like heck to not think and worry.....

But it remains an underlying fear in the back of my mind regardless.

Something I'm going to just have to accept.

For now, I think I'll stick to scissoring bananas.

Happy Thursday!


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