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The Bait and Switch
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The Bait and Switch Anyone who makes the attempt to communicate with anyone else from this site has fallen prey to this particular individual at least once. It's the old.... 'If you'd like to talk sometime, just to get to know each other' ploy, 'nothing sexual.' Nothing sexual my ass! I was feeling bored last night so I decided to test out the waters. I was not disappointed. Five texts into the conversation the guy was asking me about my pajamas, hinting around that he would like to ask me for a picture but didn't want to 'waste his time and mine'. Like usual, I avoided going down that road of conversation, I certainly don't plan on sharing that kind of shit with randoms I don't know and will likely never meet. "You seem conservative." And, I thought about his observation for a moment. He was right. I guess I am kind of conservative. I had responded back to him that yes, I suppose I was conservative until I got to know the real personality of the person I was 'trying to get to know'. Perhaps the continual, repeating cycle of coming into contact with the same kind of guy on here has tainted me in a way. I've gotten to a point where I feel like most of the men who reach out to me on here are like this guy.... They don't really want to get to know me, they just want an easy, random fuck and this is their new pick up line. The problem is, I'm not an easy, random fuck that is content with just being used for sex. The conversation ended not long after that.... Not in a bad way, it had just run it's course. He wasn't really interested in 'getting to know me' and I wasn't really interested in sexting with him. But, it left me wondering.... Am I seeking out the type of guy who just does not exist anymore? Thoughts to ponder..... Happy Wednesday! |
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Socks I live in socks I hate my naked feet I wear socks as shoes outside and inside I f I need to run out of my home at any time at least I have socks on. As for being with someone I would take them off if it bothers them. I sleep in short, clothing on floor at ready my home burnt down back in 1974 so one never knows. Oh tee shirt and short would be fun to remove off of you lololol
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Oh Momma I understand your dilemma with men in TSdates.com. Your standards for a relationship are not unrealistic, just probably not to be found from any man from TSdates.com.
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I'm guessing it's the guys that can't be bothered to read profiles that are still the main morons?
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I'm guessing it's the guys that can't be bothered to read profiles that are still the main morons?
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You're right, it is the nut jobs who are ruining it for the average person. They're the reason why we stop reaching out to others, the reason why we become hesitant to respond back, the reason why we become jaded. Why bother when all you find are the nut jobs?
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"I'm looking for an adult friend.... What better place to find him than TSdates.com?" well then you are getting exactly the type of person the TSdates.com solicits (TSdates.com - World's Largest Sex Dating & Hookup Community. ) there is a world of difference between insane and stupid
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I have faith you will find someone. Whether it is from here or not is a whole other ball of wax! I personally enjoy getting to know people on here before sharing any sort of personal things such as pictures or names even. I'm definitely not looking to get laid so my agenda is vastly different from the men and women who decry this place as a sex site only. I'm not above getting horny or extra flirty at times but I'm just not that guy that wants to get off. I was that guy for a bit but learned rather quickly that there was no real pleasure derived from it without having genuine emotional connection. That's why I love blogging. I get to read fine folks such as yourself and see the inner workings. I'm a perv but I like to think and laugh more. My advice, for what it's worth, is keep hanging on. You're beautiful in your wonderfully flawed way and there is that guy out there who will appreciate your humor, humanity and honesty. My name is MrWrong and I approved this comment
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Oh Momma I understand your dilemma with men in TSdates.com. Your standards for a relationship are not unrealistic, just probably not to be found from any man from TSdates.com. Do you have any Primal Urges ... I do, please CUMHANDLEME and explore some of my naughty and nice Primal ... Urges with me !!!
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Well, share about your pajamas...unless you're too conservative. 
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Of course THOSE guys exist, except past eleven o'clock at night. 😎❗❗
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They do exist, and yes they are on here! But like you they have just about given up hope too!!!
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I've been on here off and on since 2007.... I've seen a lot of changes during that time. Some changes, not so good....
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It can be a long process to find a good person. Finding the "right" person is even harder. It does happen. Sorting through all the fake profiles and dirty whores can take years. Is it better to do it on a site like this or the old bar routine (that is almost impossible the last 18 months) There are good men on here and there are good woman on here. The problem is that the fucking nut jobs ruin it for normal people. The first problem is finding a real person. Am I real? Are you real?
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This is precisely why I rarely chat on here. People don't talk just to talk anymore.... It's all about how quickly can I reach sexual gratification so I can move on with my day.
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I would like to know that myself. Why is it so difficult to approach another as a human being?
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I don't use the IM feature on here but I get some of the same "bait and switch" tactics through the regular message system. It's not unusual for some to get really angry when I don't comply with their wishes/demands for pictures. It seems my blocked list just keeps growing....
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Good morning sunshine hope your day is as beautiful as you. So what are you sleeping in nightly lololol. Wondering minds all like to know. Since this sight is programed for sexy people to meet it only goes with the territory. I myself sleep in just my shorts and a very warm blanket. Ps socks too lololol Ok sure there are some gentleman on this sight just not reading your blog I love your blog it's clean every day life. You Don't sell yourself out to be someone your not Now that you moved you seam more at ease More out going You always been a pleasant person And with respect for yourself and other You know how to catch fly with honey Just a few right world and all the horny me come out. We human have such small brains when sex is on our minds I know your at work so have a good day and keep your food off your chest other wise someone my want to clean it off (hint hint)....
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Hopefully you find what you are looking for!
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What is funny about this site is it never ceases to amaze me how many people believe everyone here should think like and be here for the same reason they are. What those people don't realize is there are people like you and the type of individual you seek on this site. Sometimes it just takes times to sort out the bad apples. Perhaps it is me this time around....
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"But, it left me wondering.... Am I seeking out the type of guy who just does not exist anymore?" i would like to believe that what you are looking for is the average guy... just the place you are looking for him is a "specialty" shop. it is like looking in clothing stores for shoelaces, and shoe stores for slacks you may get lucky once in a while. but on the average you will find what they specialize in bonne vie
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There was a time, when chat first came about, when I used to chat on here all the time. The site was different, and the men were different. This was before I met the Hippie.... I had actually met the Hippie here, he was one of my blog readers back in the day.
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I rarely engage im here. Especially if he is far away. Just wants some sex chat which I am not into with some random stranger. But, you may find that rare one here who is for you. Some will start out nice and then switch to the mindless boring sexual bs. Im done at that point. I can be sexual but not with the headless dick pic hundreds of miles away or in the same town either.
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site is getting full of so many fakes male and female, had one where she used someone else's photo and had email listed, different person form the photo, worst case was someone contacting me with an address that either turned out to be a retail store location or a hotel behind it so was a scammer not from the area, then you have those with the nice photo, but the profile says yo get what you pay for
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I got bored, and started messaging with a woman here and it got real, real quick. She wanted a quick meent n fuck. I dodged her for several days then finally had to admit I wasn't ready to meet anyone. I've got to lose some covid weight and get some dental work fixed before I meet anyone. Now I take my boredom out on other websites.
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Well, share about your pajamas...unless you're too conservative.
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Of course THOSE guys exist, except past eleven o'clock at night. 😎❗❗ ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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They do exist, and yes they are on here! But like you they have just about given up hope too!!!
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It can be a long process to find a good person. Finding the "right" person is even harder. It does happen. Sorting through all the fake profiles and dirty whores can take years. Is it better to do it on a site like this or the old bar routine (that is almost impossible the last 18 months) There are good men on here and there are good woman on here. The problem is that the fucking nut jobs ruin it for normal people. The first problem is finding a real person. Am I real? Are you real?
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I don't use the IM feature on here but I get some of the same "bait and switch" tactics through the regular message system. It's not unusual for some to get really angry when I don't comply with their wishes/demands for pictures. It seems my blocked list just keeps growing.... Pagan  Hmmmm....I know I left that wand around here somewhere!
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Good morning sunshine hope your day is as beautiful as you. So what are you sleeping in nightly lololol. Wondering minds all like to know. Since this sight is programed for sexy people to meet it only goes with the territory. I myself sleep in just my shorts and a very warm blanket. Ps socks too lololol Ok sure there are some gentleman on this sight just not reading your blog I love your blog it's clean every day life. You Don't sell yourself out to be someone your not Now that you moved you seam more at ease More out going You always been a pleasant person And with respect for yourself and other You know how to catch fly with honey Just a few right world and all the horny me come out. We human have such small brains when sex is on our minds I know your at work so have a good day and keep your food off your chest other wise someone my want to clean it off (hint hint)....
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10/13/2021 5:58 am |
Hopefully you find what you are looking for!
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What is funny about this site is it never ceases to amaze me how many people believe everyone here should think like and be here for the same reason they are. What those people don't realize is there are people like you and the type of individual you seek on this site. Sometimes it just takes times to sort out the bad apples.
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"But, it left me wondering.... Am I seeking out the type of guy who just does not exist anymore?" i would like to believe that what you are looking for is the average guy... just the place you are looking for him is a "specialty" shop. it is like looking in clothing stores for shoelaces, and shoe stores for slacks you may get lucky once in a while. but on the average you will find what they specialize in bonne vie there is a world of difference between insane and stupid
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I rarely engage im here. Especially if he is far away. Just wants some sex chat which I am not into with some random stranger. But, you may find that rare one here who is for you. Some will start out nice and then switch to the mindless boring sexual bs. Im done at that point. I can be sexual but not with the headless dick pic hundreds of miles away or in the same town either.
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site is getting full of so many fakes male and female, had one where she used someone else's photo and had email listed, different person form the photo, worst case was someone contacting me with an address that either turned out to be a retail store location or a hotel behind it so was a scammer not from the area, then you have those with the nice photo, but the profile says yo get what you pay for
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10/13/2021 4:13 am |
I got bored, and started messaging with a woman here and it got real, real quick. She wanted a quick meent n fuck. I dodged her for several days then finally had to admit I wasn't ready to meet anyone. I've got to lose some covid weight and get some dental work fixed before I meet anyone. Now I take my boredom out on other websites.
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Anyone who makes the attempt to communicate with anyone else from this site has fallen prey to this particular individual at least once. It's the old.... 'If you'd like to talk sometime, just to get to know each other' ploy, 'nothing sexual.' Nothing sexual my ass! I was feeling bored last night so I decided to test out the waters. I was not disappointed. Five texts into the conversation the guy was asking me about my pajamas, hinting around that he would like to ask me for a picture but didn't want to 'waste his time and mine'. Like usual, I avoided going down that road of conversation, I certainly don't plan on sharing that kind of shit with randoms I don't know and will likely never meet. "You seem conservative." And, I thought about his observation for a moment. He was right. I guess I am kind of conservative. I had responded back to him that yes, I suppose I was conservative until I got to know the real personality of the person I was 'trying to get to know'. Perhaps the continual, repeating cycle of coming into contact with the same kind of guy on here has tainted me in a way. I've gotten to a point where I feel like most of the men who reach out to me on here are like this guy.... They don't really want to get to know me, they just want an easy, random fuck and this is their new pick up line. The problem is, I'm not an easy, random fuck that is content with just being used for sex. The conversation ended not long after that.... Not in a bad way, it had just run it's course. He wasn't really interested in 'getting to know me' and I wasn't really interested in sexting with him. But, it left me wondering.... Am I seeking out the type of guy who just does not exist anymore? Thoughts to ponder..... Happy Wednesday!
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